Three adjectives to which you aspire

[MercyA]

Mine right now are: kind, helpful, thin.

I know the last one is terribly shallow and I should say "healthy" instead.

Yours? 

Edited May 15, 2020 by MercyA

[almondbutterandjelly]

Kind, peaceful, organized

 

[73349]

Kind, generous, wise.

I wish that as a kid, I had seen working on personal growth modeled. I mostly saw people aspiring to economic growth instead.

[Scarlett]

Merciful,  measured, and thin.  I am right there with you on that @MercyA   🙂

[Spryte]

Kind, patient, healthy.

Those were my thoughts upon reading the thread title.  But I’m thinking it should possibly be ... patient, patient, patient.  🤣

[Noreen Claire]

Patient, wise, and strong.

 

Currently failing at all three. 😔

[Tiberia]

kind

steady

fit

[Jean in Newcastle]

godly

strong

patient

[hippiemamato3]

Kind, strong, steady 

[ScoutTN]

Patient
Merciful
Wise

[fairfarmhand]

Courageous

Gracious

Joyous 

[Robin M]

Healthy

Productive 

Patient

[Momto6inIN]

Loving

Real/authentic

Fun

[Guest]

Compassionate

Honest

Knowledgeable

Actually, honest has been one of mine since I was twenty years old and a book I was reading did this exercise. 

[fairfarmhand]

48 minutes ago, StellaM said:

Wow, you gals all went for the higher virtues! 

 

I really had to think hard about whether I wanted joyous or thin. I only want joyous a tiny bit more than thin. 

[SKL]

Peaceful, rested, asleep.  😛

[MercyA]

We love you, @StellaM.  You are very worthwhile! 

My behaviors also do not show a true aspiration to thinness--but I am trying to change that! Hence posting it publicly here. Even if it's not one of the more higher virtues, LOL. 🙂

[Scarlett]

1 hour ago, StellaM said:

That's funny.

Sometimes I realise my bar is so low, and this is one of those times.

I aspire to not waking up thinking I am a worthless piece of rubbish 😞 

Though I'd like thin too!

(I did think about thin...but decided that my behaviours did not indicate a true aspiration to thin!)

This makes me sad!   I think you are more than worthwhile.

 I put merciful......because I lean hard toward being unable to forgive which is a real problem.  There is a song in my religion that says ‘mercy is a virtue that we all should cultivate.  It will keep us from resentment and the bitterness of hate..’. It is a beautiful song, but I usually cry through the entire song especially that line.  

[Slache]

Rich, sexy, funny.

Kind, patient, painless.

[Slache]

I didn't read other responses because I didn't want to be persuaded. Now I read.

11 hours ago, MercyA said:

Mine right now are: kind, helpful, thin.

I know the last one is terribly shallow and I should say "healthy" instead.

Yours? 

No, thin is good. I almost put fit, but it was for shallow reasons.

11 hours ago, whitehawk said:

Kind, generous, wise.

I wish that as a kid, I had seen working on personal growth modeled. I mostly saw people aspiring to economic growth instead.

Wise! Oh, that's good.

8 hours ago, OKBud said:

Forthright

Ruminative

Humane

 

You shush.

4 hours ago, StellaM said:

Worthwhile, healthy, happy.

You are to me!

[mmasc]

3 hours ago, StellaM said:

That's funny.

Sometimes I realise my bar is so low, and this is one of those times.

I aspire to not waking up thinking I am a worthless piece of rubbish 😞 

Though I'd like thin too!

(I did think about thin...but decided that my behaviours did not indicate a true aspiration to thin!)

I don’t know you outside of the forum, but let me assure you that you most definitely are NOT a piece of rubbish. That much I am certain about.

[Pam in CT]

Compassionate, patient, brave

[Liz CA]

Courageous, compassionate, competent.

[SoCal_Bear]

Trustworthy, wise, compassionate

[easypeasy]

Kind/Thoughtful

Productive

Creative

[appyonthebeach]

Peaceful, understanding and honest

[Another Lynn]

Honest

Calm

bored/disengaged/slightly rebellious/perimenopausal/everyone else can jump in a lake - until they can't because I'm a hypocrite and actually care a tiny bit but then I don't

I lack sufficient vocabulary for that last one.  😳