chocolate-chip chooky Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 My daughter is 12 and really needs activities that: - use both hands and mind - are purposeful - are challenging - aren't competitive Crochet has been her go-to activity and it has ticked these boxes for a long time. However, the challenge aspect is waning, as she's mastered it now, and even amigurumi projects offer no new challenge. She also does some macrame, but similarly, the mental challenge isn't quite enough. She has her own Etsy shop with crocheted and macrame items, so this helps with the purposeful aspect. I've bought her supplies for tatting, but this hasn't interested her just yet. It doesn't have to be crafty. She's enjoyed cooking and woodwork in the past, and currently plays two instruments. I've suggested coding and electronics, but this hasn't interested her. Any ideas would be much appreciated :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rebbyribs Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 Juggling! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bambam Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 Sewing? Embroidering? Maybe she could make cosplay costumes? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 Cake decorating origami leatherworking dog training 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 gardening? Maybe raising some harder to grow plant? Bonsai? Rube Goldberg machines? making beeswax figures? If you are a conservative Christian, the Ruby Doll kit is kinda cute. How about baking and cooking? My dd has perfected apple pie. She loves The Great British Baking Show and gets inspired to try new recipes. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolate-chip chooky Posted April 12, 2018 Author Share Posted April 12, 2018 17 minutes ago, Bambam said: Sewing? Embroidering? Maybe she could make cosplay costumes? Yes, she does sew - both with the machine and by hand. She hasn't done any embroidering yet - thank you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolate-chip chooky Posted April 12, 2018 Author Share Posted April 12, 2018 20 minutes ago, rebbyribs said: Juggling! Ooh, good fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolate-chip chooky Posted April 12, 2018 Author Share Posted April 12, 2018 So many ideas! Thank you everyone! Katie, can you describe what leather-working is please? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kebo Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 Felting Stained Glass designs Dog agility (there are competitions but it is competitive in a supportive sort of way in my experience. Not sure if that works for you) Search and Rescue dog training Raise a guide dog puppy Furniture refinishing/repurposing 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 Using various stamps and tools to put designs into leather, for keychains, purses, wallets, etc. https://steampunk.wonderhowto.com/how-to/quick-and-dirty-beginners-guide-steampunk-leatherworking-part-one-0140075/ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LifeLovePassion Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 Quilting. My note 10 year old has done this for a couple of years now. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tsuga Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 27 minutes ago, chocolate-chip chooky said: My daughter is 12 and really needs activities that: - use both hands and mind - are purposeful - are challenging - aren't competitive Crochet has been her go-to activity and it has ticked these boxes for a long time. However, the challenge aspect is waning, as she's mastered it now, and even amigurumi projects offer no new challenge. She also does some macrame, but similarly, the mental challenge isn't quite enough. She has her own Etsy shop with crocheted and macrame items, so this helps with the purposeful aspect. I've bought her supplies for tatting, but this hasn't interested her just yet. It doesn't have to be crafty. She's enjoyed cooking and woodwork in the past, and currently plays two instruments. I've suggested coding and electronics, but this hasn't interested her. Any ideas would be much appreciated :) It's the perfect time for gardening and landscaping. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolate-chip chooky Posted April 12, 2018 Author Share Posted April 12, 2018 9 minutes ago, Ktgrok said: Using various stamps and tools to put designs into leather, for keychains, purses, wallets, etc. https://steampunk.wonderhowto.com/how-to/quick-and-dirty-beginners-guide-steampunk-leatherworking-part-one-0140075/ Thank you! Looks fabulous. ETA: The word 'steampunk' adds an extra cool factor! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angie in VA Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 I agree with cooking. Music doesn't have to be competitive. It can be expensive, though. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolate-chip chooky Posted April 12, 2018 Author Share Posted April 12, 2018 1 minute ago, Patty Joanna said: Beading. Cross-stitch. Needlepoint. Pottery. Gardening. Quilting. It is funny you mentioned the two-handed thing. Hmmmm. Sorry, I just re-read my original post. My wording wasn't at all clear. I meant that the activity makes use of hands and mind. Not necessarily both hands :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolate-chip chooky Posted April 13, 2018 Author Share Posted April 13, 2018 1 minute ago, Patty Joanna said: Now, with the glint of laughter in my eye... Bed-making. Handwashing dishes. Dusting. Mowing the lawn. Washing the car. Digging weeds. Mopping the floor. Mulching and raking and hoeing. Handyman repairs. Cleaning the pool. :0) Oh yes, these have been suggested in those moments of 'I'm bored!' :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashfern Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 I just finished two Mini Rings of Change blankets. It's a crochet blanket that uses a different stitch type for each round. I found it interesting to work. You can find the pattern free on ravelry. I'm also doing a mystery crochet-a-long for fingerless mitts. Does she know how to knit? I find that more challenging/difficult than crochet. Would she be interested in designing her own patterns? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 piano (or even a string instrument) pottery -wheel art -painting define purposeful 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolate-chip chooky Posted April 13, 2018 Author Share Posted April 13, 2018 44 minutes ago, ashfern said: I just finished two Mini Rings of Change blankets. It's a crochet blanket that uses a different stitch type for each round. I found it interesting to work. You can find the pattern free on ravelry. I'm also doing a mystery crochet-a-long for fingerless mitts. Does she know how to knit? I find that more challenging/difficult than crochet. Would she be interested in designing her own patterns? She has knitted in the past, but has found crochet more satisfying because there are so many different stitches. I think that designing her own patterns is a wonderful idea. She's designed her own amigurumi patterns for some Pokemons before, but she hasn't written anything down, as far as I know. Even trying to design her own new stitches may be good. I'm off to look up Mini Rings of Change - thanks for the suggestion! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolate-chip chooky Posted April 13, 2018 Author Share Posted April 13, 2018 21 minutes ago, gardenmom5 said: piano (or even a string instrument) pottery -wheel art -painting define purposeful She plays piano and cello :) We haven't done pottery yet, so that is a great idea. Others have suggested that also. The sensory input from a pottery wheel could be perfect or horrid for her. Her sensory sensitivities can go either way. I'll certainly look into it. Purposeful for her means that there's a real use for the product. She's not keen on fine arts in general, because she struggles to see a purpose for a painting on the wall, for example. I personally think that creating beautiful art for others to enjoy is purposeful, but that's not where she's at at the moment. Crochet, macrame, sewing, cooking etc etc all have products that are genuinely 'used'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dynamite5 Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 photography martial arts calligraphy learning to ride a unicycle She could contact places like dog rescue or the local animal shelter and find out their needs for blankets etc and make those things. raising chickens fencing--although it can be competitive, it doesn't have to be ballet swimming rock climbing 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RootAnn Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 1 hour ago, Patty Joanna said: Bed-making. Handwashing dishes. Dusting. Mowing the lawn. Washing the car. Digging weeds. Mopping the floor. Mulching and raking and hoeing. Except some of these are very mindless. I can think of several activities which keep the hands busy and are purposeful, but they are easy to get into a groove and do without thinking. Some of my kids listen to audiobooks while they build, sort, or draw. The action with their hands & the involvement of their minds are separated. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TechWife Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 How about quilting? It's a really great hobby with an end product that is very useful. She can quilt for herself, family and friends. When all of those folks have five or six quilts, she can make quilts for Quilts 4 Kids and other charitable organizations. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cecropia Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Designing a board game Painting miniatures or board game pieces Learning magic tricks, face painting, balloon animals (event entertainment for hire!) Polymer clay canes (beads) Writing, illustrating, binding children's books, coloring books, comic books... Decorative wreath making for all kinds of seasons/holidays Insect collecting, ID, and curation :) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Beading? Making necklaces and such? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EmilyGF Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Here's another suggestion of breadmaking. You can become very expert at it and it is so practical. There are tomes written on breadmaking that one can dive into if one so desires. There could be a challenge: bake through every recipe in Rose Levy Beranbaum's The Bread Bible (she approaches baking as a scientist and you can learn so much from her). Emily ETA: I have two majorly crafty daughters. But there are only so many baskets or crocheted characters or sewn items one can use. Then you make stuff for others, but they already have a lot of stuff. When my younger daughter bakes bread, we design the whole meal around it and everyone looks forward to it. She bakes about 2 loaves a week and makes pizza dough once a week. My nutritionist friend highly recommends baking your own bread as a way to avoid the additives in grocery store bread. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pegs Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Her Starry Night string piece makes me wonder whether she'd like to embroider great works of art. I bet the people of Etsy would *love* that. I know I would. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happypamama Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Knitting? It’s different from crochet but will have a familiar aspect to it. Cables, in particular, are a mental challenge; I’m working on a sweater right now that is going well, but I call it the brain-breaking sweater. Cooking? Or baking or cake decorating? My kids, daughter included, get a mental and physical challenge through martial arts. Their style isn’t competitive. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 4 hours ago, Ktgrok said: Cake decorating origami leatherworking dog training If she takes up cake decorating and becomes good at it, she could make a business out of it decorating birthday and wedding cakes = purposeful. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LMD Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Composing music? Origami? Combining gardening with cooking/baking? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Designing jewelry? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluegoat Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Jewelry can be fun. There are a lot of different skills, potentially, you can just stick with simple stuff, but you can also get into casting, soldering, real metal work. And it makes a nice small business as well. Would she possibly be interested in something like amateur radio? There are a lot of elements, you pass the test to get your licence. Lots of people collect cards from contacts, but they also chat and there is a public safety element to that appeals to the practical focus. And then some people get into building radios and so on. Gardening also is a lot of fun. There are often gardening clubs, or master gardener programs. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluegoat Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Calligraphy is also a nice skill. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baseball mom Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Restoring or repurposing old furniture. Turning a dresser into a bench or tv stand, dresser drawers into a bedside table or planter etc. Lots of ideas on Pinterest. Building stuff from pallets. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashfern Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 15 hours ago, chocolate-chip chooky said: She has knitted in the past, but has found crochet more satisfying because there are so many different stitches. I think that designing her own patterns is a wonderful idea. She's designed her own amigurumi patterns for some Pokemons before, but she hasn't written anything down, as far as I know. Even trying to design her own new stitches may be good. I'm off to look up Mini Rings of Change - thanks for the suggestion! She could do fair isle knitting which is color work. There are also patterns that utilize beads within the knitting. Lace is also more mentally stimulating. All could produce useful items that she could gift or sell. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamakelly Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Rock climbing! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrixieB Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Chain maille jewelry. Weave Got Maille sells colorful bracelet (and I think necklace) kits on Amazon. Some Joann's have the bracelet kits. You'd need two pair of jewelry pliers. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I talk to the trees Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 If she crochets already, how about spinning- spindle or wheel, depending on how much $$ you want to sink into this hobby- her own yarn? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KarenNC Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Fostering puppies or kittens for the humane society or other rescue Learn a particular cuisine, then go on to another one. My father-in-law cooked his way through a French cookbook, I think it was Julia Child's. Has weaving been suggested? Make a braided rug. Pottery Canning/preserving 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minerva Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 My kids are really into whittling right now. My dd just made me a spoon and a fork. I don't have a crafting bone in my body and wonder where these children came from. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bagel270 Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 My 12yo daughter takes Tae Kwon Do. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Unicycle was my son's thing for a while and that was great. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolate-chip chooky Posted April 13, 2018 Author Share Posted April 13, 2018 Oh wow! Huge thank yous to everyone who has replied. I really appreciate all of these suggestions. There are some real gems in here - thank you all so much :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ccolopy Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Building a dollhouse, or any type of architectural model, model car, ship, rocket, etc. Photography and/or photo editing Learning a specific type of drawing - architectural drawing, fashion drawing, cartooning, etc. Learning to repair a specific item or type of item - one of DS's friends has recently started a business restringing/restoring/repairing baseball gloves and similar sporting equipment, after a year of doing it for free to learn the skills. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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