Peaceseeker Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 I am so sorry for your loss. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corraleno Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 I'm so sorry :crying: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoseInABook Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 I'm so, so very sorry. :( 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LucyStoner Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 That’s really rough. I’m so sorry. I have been in your shoes more than a few times and have found that I personally preferred to ask for medication to start miscarriage at home, in private vs. having a D&C. I’ve done it both ways. Obviously it’s a personal choice but it’s one I mentioned because the first time around I thought I had to have the surgery and I wish someone would have told me there was possibly another option. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimm Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linders Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephanier.1765 Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I am so incredibly sorry! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alicia64 Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 I'm heartbroken. I'm so sorry. Please take good care of yourself. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Alley 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ravin Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 I'm sorry for your loss. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 (edited) I am so sorry. What a sad outcome. Prayers for peace and healing. Edited February 27, 2018 by Quill 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrairieSong Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 I'm so sorry, Rachel! Take good care of yourself and let others help you as much as possible. *Hugs* Sent from my XT1635-01 using Tapatalk 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Jessica* Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I am sorry. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I am so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noreen Claire Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I'm so sorry for your lost. FWIW, I went through the same thing at 18 weeks. The ultrasound showed that growth had likely stopped at 15 weeks. After discussing it with my midwife, I decided to be admitted and induced instead of the d&c. We had a service with a priest at a funeral home, followed by cremation. I needed to process the loss that way. I also think it helped my oldest grieve, who was 15 at the time. Be kind to yourself. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4Kiddos Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 Oh I am so very very sorry. Love to you and your family! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Kate Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I’m so sorry. Very gentle hugs for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SparklyUnicorn Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 ohh I'm so sorry... :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selkie Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 Oh, how sad. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I am so sorry for you and your family. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GailV Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ikslo Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mama25angels Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I'm so sorry 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vintage81 Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I’m so sorry. Many hugs for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I’m so very sorry ((hugs)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovinmyboys Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I’m so sorry. Many hugs to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaryMak07 Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I’m so so sorry!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandwalker Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 Oh I'm so sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
East Coast Sue Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I’m sorry for your loss. Hugs & prayers. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsMommy Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I am so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FriedClams Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 ((((â¤ï¸ hugs â¤ï¸)))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom25girls Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crimson Wife Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 My deepest condolences. I hope you can get some answers through testing Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel Posted February 28, 2018 Author Share Posted February 28, 2018 Thank you everyone. It’s weird how comfort from strangers helps. Right now there is some concern about inducing or letting the baby deliver naturally because of how the placenta is attached. I’ll be honest, I was only half hearing what the doctor said, I think she said it looks like the placenta is adhered to my c-section scar. I don’t know the difference between a D&C and a D&E but she said I was too far along for a D&C. Tomorrow I’ll be seeing a high risk specialist to decide how things will go from here. Thankfully no one is trying to rush me into a decision. My MIL is coming in the morning to watch the kids, a good friend will keep them overnight if needed. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
debinindy Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 More hugs to you :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 ((((Hugs)))) so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 So so sad for you. I don't think I ever really got over losing one at 14 weeks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LarlaB Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I’m so sad for you. I had losses and there’s nothing that can prepare for that moment. I’m so so so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PuddleJumper1 Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I am so very, very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
porque Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 So very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 Oh I am so, so sorry. I wish I had more than virtual hugs to offer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldberry Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I am very, very, sorry. Wishing you peace, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Runningmom80 Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I’m so so sorry. Big hugs to you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I am so very sorry for your loss. Lots of hugs sent your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 ((((hugs)))) been there too. I'm sorry for the loss of your baby. ((((hugs))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happypamama Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I’m so very very sorry. I’ll be praying for you. Please know that you’re not alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MBM Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 Oh no. I am so sorry for you and your family. Rest and take good care of yourself and allow yourself to grieve. (((((hugs))))) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
readinmom Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 So, so sorry :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessReplanted Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I’m so sorry for your loss. 😢 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lizzie in Ma Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom@shiloh Posted February 28, 2018 Share Posted February 28, 2018 I'm very sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is. I am glad to hear that you are getting several opinions on how to proceed. It is a huge shock and it's difficult to make the best decisions in this situation, so I'm thankful that you feel as if you're being given adequate time to think things over. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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