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Praying for you in your grief right now. It is clear to everyone here that you were an amazing mom who did all you could with the knowledge you had. Life is unfair and cruel. She was very blessed to have you in her corner all those years fighting for her. I am so very sorry for your loss.

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I'm adding my prayer as one more drop in the river of prayer and positive thoughts that are flowing for you right now.  I pray that, someday, you will look back and have peace, knowing that you did not fail her.  On the contrary, you were awesome and amazing and did everything you could do to give her all she needed and more.  I pray that you sense the presence of Him who provides that peace.

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I'm so sorry for your loss.  Eventually I hope you can come to a place without feeling guilt; you were clearly a wonderful mother and advocate for her.  When my dad died of pneumonia after having largely unmanaged COPD for a decade, I felt guilty.  I think it is very common to feel guilty when someone you love dies, and I hope it will fade for you somewhat eventually as it has for me.

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When you regret deleting, PM me and I'll give it back.

 

 

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What a privilege to know your daughter through your touching words. What a beautiful person she was and I applaud your efforts to get her involved in many activities that became her passion.  I hope you can somehow collect her artwork into a lovely book you and others can treasure.  You are an awesome mom.  I am sorry for your loss and pain that only a mom can truly understand. You will reunited in heaven someday and what a glorious reunion that will be!

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:grouphug:  :grouphug: (((many,  many hugs))))) :grouphug:  :grouphug:

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I am so sorry for you loss. And I am in agreement with everyone else here that you did not fail your daughter. It is so obvious how much you love her and that you gave her a wonderful life. Many prayers for you and your family.

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I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. You were very blessed to have her, and she was very blessed to have you.

 

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:grouphug: I am so, so sorry.  I can sense the love in your words.  I wish there were a way to change the past, and having a lad with epilepsy, yes, I shudder at the thought of what you are going through - more than just her passing (which is absolutely bad enough) - then add the "what ifs."  Honestly?  You don't know that anything you could have done differently would have changed anything. I'm glad there's comfort in knowing she's waiting for you in heaven, but I wish you'd had more time here too.  :grouphug:

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Thank you for giving us all a glimpse of your beautiful daughter. She was clearly loved incredibly well. It brought tears to my eyes. I'm so sorry.  :grouphug:

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You are walking such an unimaginably difficult road. I hope you have good, supportive friends walking with you - figuratively and literally.  :grouphug:

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I'm so sorry. I can't imagine. I know you may not ever feel this, but it doesn't sounds to me like you failed her at all. It sounds like you gave her a rich, wonderful life for the time that she was here. It's so unfair she is gone now. Too young. I'm so sorry.

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:grouphug:  You did not fail her. By what you wrote, I can tell you poured a lot of life into hers. She was so very blessed to be in your family. Sounds like everyone in your family was a blessing to her and vice versa. Grieve now. It really is okay. Your heart has been torn to pieces, we get that. Grieve. It's not going to be an easy path. And you're right, she is in a much better place now. Find joy in that. And know that she loves you and smiles over you, even now.

 

I'm so, so sorry, mama. You did not fail your beautiful girl. I can't find any words that sound sufficient, so I'm going to let scrapbookbuzz's eloquent words speak for me as well, because I agree with every one. 

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Thank you for sharing your story - you are obviously a WONDERFUL mom. Your family is in my prayers - I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet girl.

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I am so sorry for your loss.  My extended family lost one of our precious children to epilepsy this fall.  It is truly heartbreaking although not your fault at all.  I know from reading your post that your daughter felt your love every day.  That is the best gift we can give our children whether their lives are too short or long-lived.  

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:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

 

Oh, my dear, I am so sorry. Many prayers for you and your family.

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I am so sorry. Your daughter felt your unconditional love every single day of her life. Prayers that you can find peace.

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When you regret deleting, PM me and I'll give it back.

 

 

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Bless you for that kindness. 

 

The post was a loving tribute, and I'm glad it isn't lost. 

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I am so sorry. I want to say it's not your fault, but I know as a mother--I cannot tell you what is true and what is not for your own daughter. But you are right that she is in heaven. It's impossible that she is not. And I fervently hope that you can understand that you too will be there with her someday.

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I'm so very sorry for your loss.  Praying you can find hope and comfort in your grieving.  Your daughter sounds like an amazing young woman who was deeply and dearly loved and cherished.   :grouphug:

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I'm so very sorry for your loss. Words can't express the sorrow that I feel. 

 

I helped care for my nephew with severe epilepsy. I often feared that this would happen while I had him. He passed away almost a year ago from a different illness. Losing those we love dearly is so difficult. 

 

Peace be with you all. 

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I am very sorry for your loss. She was an wonderful girl and you parented her the best you could. I hope sharing her story has given you solace.

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I am so sorry for your loss.

 

Such a beautiful tribute for a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing her with us.

 

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Regrets. They are can be soooo painful even when you did do your best. No matter how great a mom you were or maybe the greater the mom you were, the more you cared, the harder they hit.

 

 

I pray that as time passes you will find peace. That you will remember the good times. The doing your best to provide opportunities with language with dance with just being near even when she slept. You loved her. I know it is so hard to get past those overwhelming feelings but I pray you can because she had a good mom.

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