PeterPan Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 (edited) Say your dc's shoes were all the way, like no more room to grow, and you were about to go walk a TON for a bunch of days. Would you go ahead and get him new shoes and put all those miles on the new shoes, or would you keep him in the current shoes? He's been wearing them and they fit. They're definitely not worn out, and they were really good shoes to start with (Nike's with added arch support inserts). So should I be getting him new shoes or can he wear these? His toe is right at the end but he doesn't squeal to wear them. They just don't have that big, new shoe, room to grow look. What say you? :) PS. I added a poll so I can tally the results. :D SaveSave Edited September 25, 2017 by OhElizabeth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 If they're comfortable use the old shoes. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 My reasoning is that new shoes and lots of walking is an equation for blisters. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeterPan Posted September 25, 2017 Author Share Posted September 25, 2017 My reasoning is that new shoes and lots of walking is an equation for blisters. This is a really good point. If I buy new and they're a little loose, the looseness will cause blisters, hmm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Okra Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 I agree with Maize. Lots of walking needs old comfy shoes. I also agree with the blisters with lots of walking and brand new shoes. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 If they're comfortable use the old shoes. Yes this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcadia Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 Both. It can be painful to walk in new shoes so I would rather use the current pair. However I would also get a new pair on standby just in case my kid’s feet grew by 1cm which has happened a few times in the past. We have also just asked our kids to do without socks on a road trip when their feet grew longer and the spare pair is at home. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elizabeth86 Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 My reasoning is that new shoes and lots of walking is an equation for blisters. I totally agree. I broke in a new pair of shoes at an amusement park this year. Yikes! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 Yay, I thought I was going to be the only one but turns out I'm in the majority! Hooray for old shoes!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 I could go either way, but I'd want at least a week to break in the new ones before a big walking trip. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 Assuming it's not a strain on your budget I'd buy him a pair of new, well fitted shoes. A good quality properly fitted shoe shouldn't need a break in period. It's not something we've ever had a problem with, and we've got some weird feet in this family. ;) 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Word Nerd Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 As long as they still fit and aren’t too small, I’d stick with the old ones. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amo_mea_filiis. Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 My 12 year old was asking for new sneakers. Said his 10.5 men's were getting tight. So we go for new shoes. Same brand and style as the old. In a 12. 😱 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JFSinIL Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 Get the new shoes and make him start using them to avoid blisters. But also pack and take the old shoes. He can wear whichever is most comfy after the first bit of walking. Would you want to do a lot of walking in shoes that were getting snug? 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie Smith Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 Youngest will happily wear the same running shoes till his toes are poking out of holes. Because of our running group I take them to a running shoe store twice a week. At least ever few months they have a special event that you get a free goodie of some kind if you try on shoes and take them for a test run. I now let the buy their own shoes. They get to decide when they want new shoes, and I just pay for them. I'm no longer keeping track of who shoes are tight or worn out. Last week Eldest told me his shoes were getting to tight. I just said, "next time we are at the store pick out some new ones." For some reason he is choosing to wait awhile before getting new ones. I'm not going to push him. In your case I would talk to your kid about the pros and cons and then let them decide. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzanne in ABQ Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 My dd, at that age, would wear her shoes until her toes turned red and blistery from being squished, and still never complain about them hurting. Also, she has a tendency toward falling arches (a genetic problem), so good arch support is paramount in my opinion. I would buy him new shoes because, even though he may not have a problem now, walking hours and hours in too-small shoes is asking for big problems soon. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storygirl Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 I agree with taking two pairs, old and new. We've had shoes develop problems unexpectedly, so I think it's always good to have a back up pair. Maybe you can have him wear the new pair for a day or two in advance and on the trip down, to get used to them. Then you can help him decide which ones to wear during your long days of walking. You probably already have this covered, but we always take some moleskin and a small pair of scissors, so that we can cover any irritated areas on our feet. I also take plenty of bandages and also a small stick (looks like a tiny deodorant) of a chafing relief product. We cover any tender spots immediately, before they turn into blisters. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JFSinIL Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 My dd, at that age, would wear her shoes until her toes turned red and blistery from being squished, and still never complain about them hurting. Also, she has a tendency toward falling arches (a genetic problem), so good arch support is paramount in my opinion. I would buy him new shoes because, even though he may not have a problem now, walking hours and hours in too-small shoes is asking for big problems soon. This would be my hubby, too. He was #4 of 6 kids and raised to not rock the boat or cause a fuss. If you are getting decent shoes like the old ones, not much of a breaking in time should be needed. I keep replacing my running shoes (more arch support than walking shoes) every six months or so, and by sticking to Brooks or Asics I have never had a problem. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiewindmomma Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 I unwittingly went on a trip in May in the same position. I ended up having to buy shoes for two kids, mid-journey, and it was a rather unpleasant and inconvenient experience. Good tennis shoes don't need a breaking in period. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frosch Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 I'm voting for new shoes. We go to the running store for fittings. We've never had to break in shoes. I'd be more concerned about damage to the feet by wearing too small shoes for a lot of walking. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 My oldest would say buy him new shoes. When he was about 5, we went on vacation. We hiked around Devil's Tower, and he complained the whole time (not like him). When we got back to the van, I discovered his boots were a wee bit too small. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinder Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 Haven't read other replies. My vote is for new shoes. I've gone hiking with shoes that just fit. These were shoes that felt fine for running errands around town; no problems. But after hiking my feet--especially my big toe--really hurt. With long walks the toes will push into the front of the shoe more which will cause sore toes/feet at the end of the day. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JFSinIL Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 Cinder makes a good observation - the snug shoes your son may not mind in daily life may be painful for an entire day of walking around since feet may swell a bit after a few hours. At least mine do. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scrapbookbuzz Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 (edited) Wearing them for daily use and wearing them for LOTS of hiking/walking not normally done are two VERY DIFFERENT scenarios. If his toe is already touching the end then you should consider those shoes too small regardless of whatever wear-n-tear is or isn't present on the outside. Get him the new shoes PRIOR to the trip so he can wear them around a bit and they have a little chance of conforming to his foot shape. But I definitely vote for new shoes. ETA: I commented before I read any of the responses. Edited September 26, 2017 by scrapbookbuzz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scrapbookbuzz Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 I haven't seen anyone ask a vital question: exact what type of shoes are you inquiring about? Are you asking about sneakers/tennis shoes/trainers or about hiking boots? If you're talking about the former, there really shouldn't be a 'breaking in' period necessary, unless they're leather and then he may need to wear them for a week or two before to get his feet used to them. If you're talkign about the latter, then those will definitely require a breaking in period, and pairs of quality socks to wear in them! Will you be hiking or walking on this trip? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Petrichor Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 Yes, buy new shoes, and bring along the old ones if you have room for them, just in case the new ones start to cause blisters. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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