Bootsie Posted September 1, 2017 Share Posted September 1, 2017 My cousin, from southwest Louisiana, had been in the hospital in Houston for the last couple of weeks and died yesterday morning. His wife had been there all alone with him through Harvey. Their children were just on the other side of Beaumont. There were able to get through yesterday afternoon by going north in Louisiana to cross the Sabine River and then over and down into Houston (so it would be somewhat the route from the airport into downtown Houston). There were able to get gasoline and find a passable route. So, hopefully your husband will not have too much trouble, especially if there is someone who is local who knows the routes can pick him up. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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maize Posted September 2, 2017 Author Share Posted September 2, 2017 My cousin, from southwest Louisiana, had been in the hospital in Houston for the last couple of weeks and died yesterday morning. His wife had been there all alone with him through Harvey. Their children were just on the other side of Beaumont. There were able to get through yesterday afternoon by going north in Louisiana to cross the Sabine River and then over and down into Houston (so it would be somewhat the route from the airport into downtown Houston). There were able to get gasoline and find a passable route. So, hopefully your husband will not have too much trouble, especially if there is someone who is local who knows the routes can pick him up. I am so sorry to hear about your cousin jdahlquist :grouphug: Dh made it to IAH. The kids and I were able to talk to MIL on the phone this afternoon to say our own goodbyes. She was mentally alert and able to talk, though with some difficulty. She is an exceptional woman and has always treated me as a daughter and friend. I am going to miss her terribly. 9 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elizabeth86 Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 I have no answers but plenty of sympathy. You might call the hospice facility with your questions; perhaps they will have some suggestions. Regards, Kareni Great advice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elizabeth86 Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 Gosh, I have no idea. I suppose I would probably start by contacting the Red Cross, explain to them the situation, and ask if they can assist you with lodging and transportation suggestions. Other than that, I got nothing. Also a good suggestion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 I am so sorry to hear about your cousin jdahlquist :grouphug: Dh made it to IAH. The kids and I were able to talk to MIL on the phone this afternoon to say our own goodbyes. She was mentally alert and able to talk, though with some difficulty. She is an exceptional woman and has always treated me as a daughter and friend. I am going to miss her terribly. I am so glad your husband made it and you were able to speak with her. I'm sorry you are going through this right now. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mominco Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reefgazer Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 I'm sorry about your MIL; you are in my thoughts and prayers. What about renting an RV? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innisfree Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 I'm so sorry. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 I am so sorry to hear about your cousin jdahlquist :grouphug: Dh made it to IAH. The kids and I were able to talk to MIL on the phone this afternoon to say our own goodbyes. She was mentally alert and able to talk, though with some difficulty. She is an exceptional woman and has always treated me as a daughter and friend. I am going to miss her terribly. (((Hugs)))) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seasider Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 Maize, how's it going? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 Best wishes to you all 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
displace Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 (Hugs) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted September 3, 2017 Author Share Posted September 3, 2017 Maize, how's it going? We're OK, Dh is with his mom, dad, and most of his siblings. Two sisters were not able to make it out, but they are only a little over an hour from us so we are all getting together this afternoon to comfort each other and celebrate MIL by eating her favorite dessert--pumpkin pie. I'm past the initial shock and not crying all the time anymore, though I started up again this morning when I read an email from one of dh's cousins. I'll post his description of MIL here because it is spot on: "Aunt M[...] is one of the most genuine, loving, kind, patient, gentle, optimistic, and selfless people I have ever met." Yep. Oh how we will miss her! From the moment she met me she welcomed me into her family not just as her son's wife but as a daughter. I have never felt judged by her, and it has often been her shoulder I have leaned on to get me through the most difficult moments in dealing with my husband's mental health struggles. I am blessed to have had her in my life. 14 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seasider Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 We're OK, Dh is with his mom, dad, and most of his siblings. Two sisters were not able to make it out, but they are only a little over an hour from us so we are all getting together this afternoon to comfort each other and celebrate MIL by eating her favorite dessert--pumpkin pie. I'm past the initial shock and not crying all the time anymore, though I started up again this morning when I read an email from one of dh's cousins. I'll post his description of MIL here because it is spot on: "Aunt M[...] is one of the most genuine, loving, kind, patient, gentle, optimistic, and selfless people I have ever met." Yep. Oh how we will miss her! From the moment she met me she welcomed me into her family not just as her son's wife but as a daughter. I have never felt judged by her, and it has often been her shoulder I have leaned on to get me through the most difficult moments in dealing with my husband's mental health struggles. I am blessed to have had her in my life. Cry all you need to. It's cathartic. I'm glad you will have good company this afternoon. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acadie Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 Oh how we will miss her! From the moment she met me she welcomed me into her family not just as her son's wife but as a daughter. I have never felt judged by her, and it has often been her shoulder I have leaned on to get me through the most difficult moments in dealing with my husband's mental health struggles. I am blessed to have had her in my life. This is such a beautiful tribute to your mother-in-law! My condolences to you and your whole family. Amy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted September 6, 2017 Author Share Posted September 6, 2017 Dh arrived home on Monday. His mother passed away peacefully last night. I am so grateful that he was able to go out and spend a few days with her. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 I'm sorry for your loss. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 :grouphug: I'm sorry. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 I'm sorry for her loss, she sounds like an amazing woman. SO good your husband got to go and say goodbye in person! :group hug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiguirre Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selkie Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutTN Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 I am sorry for your loss! Glad you had such a great MIL, though! Something to be thankful for. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 I'm so sorry for your loss, maize. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El... Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 I'm so sorry for your loss. She sounds like a wonderful person. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mominco Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 :grouphug: Sorry for your loss 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiewindmomma Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 I'm so glad your husband was able to make it, but I'm so sorry your MIL died. She sounds like an amazing woman. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErinE Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 Maize, I'm so glad your husband was able to see his mother. I don't regret a moment of seeing my parent at the end. Prayers and healing thoughts for you all during this difficult time. :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Florida. Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 I just saw your update. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kareni Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 Thank you for the update, maize. I'm happy to hear that your husband was able to be with his mother. Regards, Kareni 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldberry Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 So sorry for your family... :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted September 7, 2017 Share Posted September 7, 2017 Sorry for your loss Maize. (((Hugs)))) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meena Posted September 7, 2017 Share Posted September 7, 2017 I'm sorry for your family's loss. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted September 7, 2017 Share Posted September 7, 2017 I'm so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted September 7, 2017 Share Posted September 7, 2017 I'm so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Amira Posted September 7, 2017 Share Posted September 7, 2017 :grouphug: I am so sorry, maize. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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