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Recently on here. The op started out as anonymous but then posted under her username. There was a lot of good advice given and it reminded me very much of a situation a friend is in. There may have been references to Christianity and definitely had talk of why she should try to stay in the marital home vs being the one to leave. Help me find it?

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Recently on here. The op started out as anonymous but then posted under her username. There was a lot of good advice given and it reminded me very much of a situation a friend is in. There may have been references to Christianity and definitely had talk of why she should try to stay in the marital home vs being the one to leave. Help me find it?

Well Moonhawk started out anon...,she is the one with the mentally ill Dh.....so I don't think that is the one you are talking about.m

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You mean you can't find her threads or her story is not the one you are talking about? Here is one of her first on the subject http://forums.welltrainedmind.com/topic/555425-is-it-possible-to-have-an-amicable-divorce/

 

Turns out her husband was having an affair and after homeschool moved out amicably he used it against her.

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You mean you can't find her threads or her story is not the one you are talking about? Here is one of her first on the subject http://forums.welltrainedmind.com/topic/555425-is-it-possible-to-have-an-amicable-divorce/

 

Turns out her husband was having an affair and after homeschool moved out amicably he used it against her.

Couldn't find thread thanks!

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Basically, absent abuse or other dangers, it is never good to leave the family home without legal agreements in place.

 

Yes, absent danger, it is best if the husband moves out and the wife and children stay in the family home. Basically whoever moves out is considered to be abandoning the marriage.

 

If it happens outside of business hours, both spouses should sign a statement that they are separating, and who is going where. The names and birthdates of children and who they go with should be included.

 

If possible, a lawyer should be consulted if that's even a possibility, and certainly ASAP after one moves out. Even if it supposedly is going to be amicable, getting a lawyer is a must. Most want a retainer to start.

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