Melissa in Australia Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 Did you know that those squishy sensory balls that look like frogs have goop in them Did you know that if ds13 takes one and sees how much he can squish it that they burst Did you know that the goop can travel faster than the the speed of sound and propels great distances Did you know that bright green goop all over the ceiling and walls really gets mum's grumpy face on. Did you know that after all the goop is cleaned off there are now clean patches on the walls and ceiling I am feeling so completely drained atm that I am thinking it would be easier to just sprinkle dirt all over the walls to cover the clean spots than clean the room. ( I cannot believe I am thinking that way) 13 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zyxwvut Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 It's ok. Totally go with the dirt option. (hug) 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
East Coast Sue Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 Yep, I could have told you all about the disgusting goop in the squishy balls, if only you had asked me.... ; ) 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcadia Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 :grouphug: I have mischievous relatives so I knew all about goop and other mess like oil stains. It was the norm to repaint the interior walls and ceilings of our homes every two to three years ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innisfree Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 Hugs. What a day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted December 21, 2016 Author Share Posted December 21, 2016 Hugs. What a day. It has been 5 what a days. I am now on the verge of tears constantly. I have to be within a metre of new child at all waking moments. He is bullying the life out of the twins. He is also very manipulative. Twin one has started self harming again ( after 1 1/2 years of only doing it in his sleep he is now doing it multiple times a day and twin 2 is starting to scream again) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happi duck Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 (hugs) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 Uuuggghhhh. :grouphug: I would have had dh clean it up. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kerileanne99 Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 Ugh, sounds like misery:( So sorry! I highly recommend a roller brush technique...it spreads out the 'clean spots' and blend with the dirty/um, regular spots! Rather than simply spot cleaning:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 We had one pop in the car a long, long time ago. DS was only three or four and didn't do it on purpose or try to squeeze out any intentionally. It was still a mess, and one of those young childhood memories I think both boys will carry with them forever. ;) :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innisfree Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 Oh, no. I wish we could offer you some concrete, in-person help. You have my profound sympathy and admiration for what you are doing for those boys. I hope the transition settles down as quickly as possible. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
East Coast Sue Posted December 21, 2016 Share Posted December 21, 2016 (((Hugs))) I'm so sorry. This is serious stuff. Is there a therapist or psychologist that you can call for assistance? Usually the behaviors emerge over time so this could continue to progress. Everyone needs protection/help- you, the twins, even your new son. (((Many hugs))) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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