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Flexibility. I think they appreciate the fact that they can do school subjects in any order they desire and wherever they desire -- on the couch, computer room, outside, etc. Plus they can go to the bathroom, grab a snack, eat lunch on their own timetable. They also usually don't have "homework" because they can get their school work done during the day if they are diligent. The other thing they appreciate is that they don't have to put up with the drama (they see some of it at church and are totally mystified and turned off by it).

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The day after I pulled DD out of public school, she said: "I am glad I don't have to go to school anymore. I can finally learn something!"

That was after 6 years of ps, sigh.

 

So:

actually learning something, i.e. appropriate challenge

no busywork

freedom to select subjects and curriculum

more time for other pursuits

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Able to move at their own pace. If they get done early, they have more free time. Also, they can work ahead if they see a busy season coming up.

 

The ability to sleep later than their peers. (I honestly have no idea how school kids manage on the sleep schedules they have to work with. ) We don't sleep super late, but getting up at 7:30 instead of 5:30 is a BIG deal. The school bus goes by our house at 6:15.

 

Classes and activities in the middle of the day, rather than evenings.

 

My teen dds, the ability to avoid some of the "mean girl" stuff. And they can make friends with kids who really get them. I never felt that I connected with the kids I went to school with. My kids have found kids who get them more easily in homeschool.

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Per my dd14- "It gives me a chance to go through things faster than at public school and lets me study more subjects than were available at public school. I also love sleeping in and not having a dress code. Oh, and being able to go out and work with my animals when I like during the day. " 

 

ETA:

Five year old's response, "Playing minecraft."  :confused1:  (He's never played. That in know of......)

Four year old, "I want to go to school!" 

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From my 7-year-old boy:

 

Daytime activities with friends in different grades/school zones

 

More playtime with little sister

 

Math that isn't too easy

 

Lego play during "school hours"

 

No homework

 

Frequent field trips

 

Coffee shop geography/vocabulary lessons with his best friend

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I'll have to ask them. Probably they like it that they can stay in the jammies all day. They get dressed 3 minutes before we head out anywhere.

 

They probably also like it that they're home and can go to the bathroom whenever they want or pet the cats (pretty much) whenever they want.

 

They can do school sprawled out on the floor.

 

I don't think they'll say anything about the academic side. They're also pretty introverted, so I think they like it that they don't have to be around groups of people all day.

 

I'll ask and report back on my next break!

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My older kids appreciated time to read, work at their own pace, travel during the school year. Dd1 appreciated the extra sleep. Dd2 (chose to go to ps high school this year) appreciated that she learned to work hard and independently.

Ds3 likes to play sports in the middle of the day.

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They like being at home with me all day, which amazes me since I'm hardly the most patient or fun mom on earth :o

 

They don't really realize it because they think I'm mean for making them get up by 8-8:30, but they like the sleep!

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Not having to get up early

Three day weekends if they get things done in time

Not having to wait for their class to move on in subjects

Extra breaks, we are on fall break this week while the public schools are in session

More free time

No homework

Youngest likes time with me

Birthdays are days off

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College dc appreciated learning material in greater depth and making connections with other disciplines and life in general.  

 

Dc#2 appreciates being able to work without distractions.

 

Dc#3 appreciates the schedule flexibility and being able to decompress when needed instead of having to rush to the next class. 

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I just asked ds and his meandering answer basically amounted to, "I have no idea how to answer this because I've never known anything else."

 

 

This is what my kids would have said when they were a little younger.

 

Once they had more understanding of school, they would have talked about the flexibility and free time to pursue their interests.  I was able to give my son a half credit in World War II studies because he read so many books, went to WWII-related events, talked about it to people who were around during that time, etc. - something he did out of pure interest, no pressure from me.   

 

Also sleep.  Everyone they knew was sleep-deprived.

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Mine are grown.

 

Things they loved;

 

freedom to tailor their schedules to real life.

Ability to pursue multiple interests b/c homeschooling was more time efficient

Ability to move through material as quickly/slowly as they wanted

Studying in pajamas while snuggling with their pets. :-)

 

Things I apparently failed on:

 

Never having a snow day despite living in a snowy climate - both had to leave the state for college to get a snow day!

Didn't learn how to operate a locker...

 

:-)

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The day after I pulled DD out of public school, she said: "I am glad I don't have to go to school anymore. I can finally learn something!"

That was after 6 years of ps, sigh.

 

So:

actually learning something, i.e. appropriate challenge

no busywork

freedom to select subjects and curriculum

more time for other pursuits

This. DS said the same thing at age 6. It was such a relief to him.

 

That said, he is very much looking forward to high school next year. :)

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I just asked the 6yo.  He said "Artistic Pursuits".  Can you guess what his favorite lesson today was? :lol:

 

My oldest has thanked me for making him learn.  He gets frustrated by his high school classes that feel almost remedial at times and students that don't pay attention.

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From my 7 year old, "I like being home with you and I don't like being away from the house a lot."

 

From my 6 year old, " because I don't like staying away from my mom and siblings."

 

The responses are funny to me because they are such social kids and love all their outside activities, having overnights with cousins, and spending days with grandparents. But I get the responses too because when they are with me they just want to be with me. In their perfect world mom would spend all her time playing with them, reading with them, talking to them, etc as long as they didn't have other plans.

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Any or all of mine loved sleeping in, not having to do biology dissections, freedom to select classes and not follow the standard plan.

Being allowed to text/snap friends while doing school, being able to watch classic TV shows because for one it truly helped her concentrate.

Doing subjects like history 2 days/week for 2 hours at a time instead of daily 47 minute sessions.

Wearing whatever they want, from shortie shorts and camis to a unicorn onesie.

Eating whenever they were hungry, even while doing school. Being able to work ahead, or catch up later. Not having to keep up with assigned schoolwork the first day back after an extended illness like their ps friends.

Being able to curl up in bed with a heating pad and ibuprofen on bad cramps days and either read, watch movies, sleep, or just do school in bed.

Being able to move quickly through some subjects and take as much time as needed in others.

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This is what my kids would have said when they were a little younger.

 

Once they had more understanding of school, they would have talked about the flexibility and free time to pursue their interests.  I was able to give my son a half credit in World War II studies because he read so many books, went to WWII-related events, talked about it to people who were around during that time, etc. - something he did out of pure interest, no pressure from me.   

 

Also sleep.  Everyone they knew was sleep-deprived.

 

Well, ds is in 7th grade. He knows plenty of school kids. He just couldn't, I think, conceive of the question in a comparative way. I think it assumes school is the baseline and ds probably rejects that. Everything he said was about things he's studying at the moment or subjects he generally feels confident about. None of it was about the flexibility, hours, or benefits of homeschooling over schooling. It was all what does he like about his schooling at the moment, not what does he like about the form of homeschooling. Which I thought was actually sort of sweet.

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My kids love being able to raid the kitchen at anytime of the day. My oldest did not have enough time to eat lunch in public school.

My oldest love being able to sleep late if he has no morning class, and take an afternoon nap if he has a morning outsourced class.

My kids like the school bus and are happy taking public transport so taking the school bus is no deterrent to going to school.

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She says not having to deal with the drama of public high school, as well as being able to have a lot more choice over what she studies. She has said she really enjoys dual enrollment at the community college campus because the atmosphere is so different. Caveat: she's never been to public school, but her best friend and many other friends are in public school and tell her about it.

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