MerryAtHope Posted July 23, 2017 Share Posted July 23, 2017 Sorry about the appeal. I pray your interview goes well! I'd go with the pencil skirt and a flat or low heal closed-toe shoe that's comfortable for walking--no open toes for business attire. (Some people/places are fine with open toes, but I just wouldn't do it for an interview--save them for when you're sure what the trend is at that particular business.) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted July 24, 2017 Author Share Posted July 24, 2017 Thanks for the advice so far. The job is in the athletic department of the local LAC. If I get the job, casual attire will be more than appropriate. Dressing up in business attire will be the exception not the rule. The majority of employees are in polos and khakis or whatever clothes fit the sport/activity. I don't want to overdress but I'm also not going to wear my athletic outfits either. My pencil skirt is black and my good sandals are tan. The blouse I was going to wear is in shades of teal, green, blue that is paired with a grey cami. My black sandals are not in good condition. The capris are light ivory(almost white). I have a pair of ivory ballet flats and a matching purse. The capris, blouse, and ballet flats are what I wore to my DD's outdoor college graduation. I have just enough $ to get a manicure today. There is no money for new shoes as I have difficult to fit feet (9.5 wide) and it would require a trip out of town. I'll keep looking through my closet. I wish I could do leggings and boots. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted July 24, 2017 Author Share Posted July 24, 2017 Ok - capris are out. Black pencil skirt with a tailored short sleeved blouse with a purple floral pattern on a black background is the front runner (purple is also one of the school's colors). This outfit is definitely all business. I have to go shopping for shoes. I have nothing appropriate that will work for walking around a college campus all day. The one pair of black heels I own have a skinny heel. The chunkier heeled shoes are metallic with open toes; I wore them for a summer wedding a couple of years ago. Interestingly, I found the shoe box for the wedge shoes I thought I had but the shoes are nowhere to be found. I have no idea what happened to them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JanetC Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 I love the idea of wearing school colors to talk to the athletic department. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted July 25, 2017 Share Posted July 25, 2017 I'm working on our campus this summer. I ended up buying some Skechers on prime day. I don't wear sneakers to work, but these are loafer-like enough to pass. They weren't my first choice of style, there are so many that are similar. I needed something comfortable and affordable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoggirl Posted July 26, 2017 Share Posted July 26, 2017 How'd it go yesterday, Scoutermom? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creekland Posted July 26, 2017 Share Posted July 26, 2017 Hoping all went well. Any idea when you'll know? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted July 26, 2017 Author Share Posted July 26, 2017 How'd it go yesterday, Scoutermom? Thank you for asking. It was a long day; the interview lasted from just before 9am until 5pm. I had one-on-one sessions, group sessions, a skyped group session. It was exhausting but I think it went well. Some of the questions caught me off guard but I was honest and open and felt raw and exposed by the end but in a good way. I know three of the people I interviewed with throughout the day and that familiarity helped keep me going. I also know the campus well. I've been on campus at least once a week for years and I used to work there in a different capacity than the one for which I interviewed so the interviews were really in depth and detailed; we skipepd the basic intro to the school, campus and community. I was given an indication at the end of the day that an offer will be made by 5pm today. TBH - as an introvert, I was spent after 8 hours of constant contact and connection. I was quite happy to have an hour drive before having to step onto the tennis court and play a USTA tennis match. My partner and I won, though, and are still undefeated in league play. -- 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoggirl Posted July 26, 2017 Share Posted July 26, 2017 That all sounds very encouraging, and I am glad that you will have an answer soon. That waiting can be a beast. Really hopeful that you get it!!! And congrats on the tennis win!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted July 27, 2017 Author Share Posted July 27, 2017 Update: I got it! We are all so thrilled and beyond thankful. The stress of possible transfers, second mortgages, or selling our oak tree are gone. Seriously, selling that tree was discussed as an option. This job is a dream come true for me. It's not a fast track to anywhere but it's something I have wanted to do for years. I am a varsity tennis coach!!! 17 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lisabees Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Update: I got it! We are all so thrilled and beyond thankful. The stress of possible transfers, second mortgages, or selling our oak tree are gone. Seriously, selling that tree was discussed as an option. This job is a dream come true for me. It's not a fast track to anywhere but it's something I have wanted to do for years. I am a varsity tennis coach!!! You are fabulous. Congrats! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MerryAtHope Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Congratulations! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creekland Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Awesome! I hope you have a great time - and the money is merely a nice bonus to help with college (or other) expenses! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frances Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Congratulations!!! So happy for you and your family! The college is lucky to have you. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoggirl Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Woo-hoo! I kept coming back to check and was hoping you were too busy celebrating last night to post! Very happy to read this news!!! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted July 27, 2017 Author Share Posted July 27, 2017 Thank you all so very much. DS was at work last night and then I was in bed before he came home so we didn't get to tell him until this morning. The relief on his face was priceless. I feel so bad about the stress he was under knowing he might have to transfer. He works so hard to maintain his scholarships and economize so we can afford it. I just returned home from quitting my teaching position and he hugged me and told me how much he appreciates my efforts. This is a win-win. :party: 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fourisenough Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Yea for you, Scoutermom! Congrats 🎈 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lisabees Posted July 28, 2017 Share Posted July 28, 2017 (edited) I hope this isn't out of place, but... I am waiting for an answer to an appeal from DS21's school. I just didn't understand the numbers. I strategically crafted my questions to ask her over the phone so she could hear herself answer them. At one point, she said, "Hmmm...that doesn't make sense. Let me review all of it for you." I received an email this morning, saying she was using my 2016 tax returns (which are 1/3 of 2015) as the basis for the review. Fingers crossed. ETA: Math error! I said 1/3 less than when it's 1/3 of... Edited July 28, 2017 by lisabees 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie of KY Posted July 28, 2017 Share Posted July 28, 2017 I hope this isn't out of place, but... I am waiting for an answer to an appeal from DS21's school. I just didn't understand the numbers. I strategically crafted my questions to ask her over the phone so she could hear herself answer them. At one point, she said, "Hmmm...that doesn't make sense. Let me review all of it for you." I received an email this morning, saying she was using my 2016 tax returns (which are 1/3 less than 2015) as the basis for the review. Fingers crossed. Good luck 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MerryAtHope Posted July 28, 2017 Share Posted July 28, 2017 I hope it goes well, Lisa! I hope this isn't out of place, but... I am waiting for an answer to an appeal from DS21's school. I just didn't understand the numbers. I strategically crafted my questions to ask her over the phone so she could hear herself answer them. At one point, she said, "Hmmm...that doesn't make sense. Let me review all of it for you." I received an email this morning, saying she was using my 2016 tax returns (which are 1/3 of 2015) as the basis for the review. Fingers crossed. ETA: Math error! I said 1/3 less than when it's 1/3 of... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted July 29, 2017 Author Share Posted July 29, 2017 Lisa - I wish you better luck than we had. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lisabees Posted July 31, 2017 Share Posted July 31, 2017 Update so far: Office emailed to say that I qualified for a PELL grant of $4, 270. Tomorrow, the entire f/a package will be emailed. I hope it includes something more than loans. I am very thankful for the grant, but still crossing fingers. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lisabees Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Final Update; ONLY the Pell Grant. Other than that and a state grant, we got 0 in f/a from the school (other than the original merit scholarship). Sigh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted August 2, 2017 Author Share Posted August 2, 2017 Final Update; ONLY the Pell Grant. Other than that and a state grant, we got 0 in f/a from the school (other than the original merit scholarship). Sigh. What are your options now? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JanetC Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 It's still 4,270 more than you would have had if you hadn't appealed. Every little bit you don't have to borrow helps. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8filltheheart Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 It's still 4,270 more than you would have had if you hadn't appealed. Every little bit you don't have to borrow helps. If we were in her shoes and had been expecting a significantly different amt, getting a smaller amt wouldn't have helped at all. My student would have to withdraw. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lisabees Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Thanks all. With his sizable merit scholarship, two grants and our yearly contribution, he does not need to take anything more than the Stafford. I do NOT want my kids taking more than the Stafford. It was that yearly contribution that would have been nice to cut down. What the grant did was erase the need for an additional loan, which I could never co-sign for and THAT is much appreciated. :) 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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