When TeA gets routine and boring...

[Moxie]

How do you fix it??

[Slache]

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0096CG0L6/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?ie=UTF8&btkr=1

 

Not that I've read it... or anything.

[Crimson Wife]

There was a website where each partner could anonymously check off things he/she would like to try and then it would spit out a list of mutual interest. The stuff that only one partner wanted to try would be kept private. I can't remember the name off the top of my head and am not able to look it up now. But maybe this rings a bell for someone.

[Guest]

If things feel boring or stale we make a concerted effort to 'date' one another and focus on being adventurous, generous, humorous, and less predictable in how we meet the needs of the other. And when one side engages the other pretty much always joins in and benefits - that's the beauty of a marriage and long term intimacy!

Edited April 13, 2016 by Arctic Mama

[Mimm]

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0096CG0L6/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?ie=UTF8&btkr=1

 

Not that I've read it... or anything.

 

I have only myself to blame but now I have that book in my Amazon viewing history. Goodness knows what they're going to suggest for me now. ;)

 

To the OP: Consider toys. :)

[marbel]

I have only myself to blame but now I have that book in my Amazon viewing history. Goodness knows what they're going to suggest for me now. ;)

 

To the OP: Consider toys. :)

 

You can edit your browsing history.  I do that frequently when looking for family gifts.  :-)

 

[JustEm]

Depends on what your TeA life is already like. We have added toys, been more spontaneous, been more affectionate and suggestive during the day so we both are excited for when the other gets home.

[Prairie~Phlox]

Toys, make videos, lots of oral, that's what dh likes.

[Entropymama]

You can edit your browsing history.  I do that frequently when looking for family gifts.  :-)

 

 

I'm debating editing my browsing history so I don't get pop up ads when the kids are on.. or leaving it so I get them when dh is on. That might do the trick for you right there.  :lol:

 

One suggestion - make an agreement that you'll brew it every day for some length of time. 30 days is good, although maybe not workable. Sometimes frequency makes the heart grow fonder. 

[Ravin]

Get Fetlife accounts, play around on there for a while to figure out just how freaky you want to get, and compare notes. 

 

What Crimson Wife suggested is a tamer and more private version I suppose.

[Tsuga]

Babeland! :D

[KungFuPanda]

I just HAD to click the link. I'll get some interesting suggestions now.

[Soror]

Try something new. Something you thought was too freaky for you, do it anyway. As long as you don't consider it immoral (and even then think about the whys- sometimes we just emotional reactions not based on anything) give it a go. As long as you have a partner you love and trust it should be safe to try something- you can both say no or stop at any time. If it is really freaky and embarrassing try to get away for the evening. Or maybe try to meet for an afternoon at a hotel. Sometimes it just takes a spark. I got my dh the best Christmas present ever this year- he couldn't open it in front of the kids though- we'd talk about something for awhile so I surprised him for Christmas.

[sunflowerlady]

Toys.