Quiver0f10 Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 He was involved in an accident where he was hit broad side by a dump truck that was going 45 mph. He is fine, thank God. A few scrapes, some nasty brusing from his seat belt and a very sore head from it smashing against his side window. The Dr. gave him some pain pills and he was able to sleep last night, but I don't think DH and I slept at all. The dump truck driver told us my son is very very lucky to be alive. The poor man was shaking while talking to us. Had my son hit the brakes or been 1 second slower he wouldn't be here today. My son had only been able to drive by himself for 3 days and bought his truck less than 2 weeks ago. I am still shaken up and am trying to process all this. I am very thankful that my son is alive and praising God for that, but am still trying to come to terms on why stuff like this happens. Kwim? Hug your babies ladies, thats all I can say. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinag Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug: Jean, I can't imagine the emotions you are going through right now! I am so glad that he is ok. Praying for you all and thanking the Lord for protecting him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Jean, bless your heart!! We had a bad scare with my dd16 earlier this summer. Makes you want to wrap your arms around them and not let go, doesn't it! I'm so sorry, but deeply thankful that he's OK! Val Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tarheel Heather Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 He was involved in an accident where he was hit broad side by a dump truck that was going 45 mph. He is fine, thank God. A few scrapes, some nasty brusing from his seat belt and a very sore head from it smashing against his side window. The Dr. gave him some pain pills and he was able to sleep last night, but I don't think DH and I slept at all. The dump truck driver told us my son is very very lucky to be alive. The poor man was shaking while talking to us. Had my son hit the brakes or been 1 second slower he wouldn't be here today. My son had only been able to drive by himself for 3 days and bought his truck less than 2 weeks ago. I am still shaken up and am trying to process all this. I am very thankful that my son is alive and praising God for that, but am still trying to come to terms on why stuff like this happens. Kwim? Hug your babies ladies, thats all I can say. Jean, that is so scary! Thank God your son is okay! Life is so precious. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in the Kootenays Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug: Give him a hug for us. :grouphug: to you too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa at Home Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I'm so sorry, but I am so happy that he is going to be OK. It can be a scary world out there! :grouphug: ~Lisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jackie in AR Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 ((Hugs)) to you and your son, Jean. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Oh, I am so glad he is okay. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsmamainva Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I'm so glad to hear he's okay!!! How frightening!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*anj* Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Wow, Jean. What an amazing gift you've all been given. I'm so glad he's okay. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marie in Oh Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug: My parents know how you feel. I was hit in a Yugo by a van going 50 when I was 17. God has special plans for your boy- that is why his time was not up last night. So glad he's ok. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nestof3 Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 How terribly frightening! I'm so happy he is still with you though! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Wow. Scary scary. Was the dump truck driver at fault? I hope your poor boy at least gets another rig to drive without too much hardship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
love2read Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug: It truly is amazing that he is fine. That is so rare with big truck accidents and this is an important post for that reason. Because of some nearby trucking companies, we hear of these accidents with teen drivers far too often. I'm thanking God with you and feeling your happiness and concern. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma23peas Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Jean, I am soo sorry.. but can we learn something from this? Can you share with us 'how' the accident happened? Who was at fault? My main reason for bringing this up is to help make parents aware of simple things our teens can do to make themselves safer....I was involved in a 5 car pile-up when I was 19...I was the third car in the pile-up...we were all on a two lane highway leaving college to go home for Thanksgiving...everyone was keeping a speed of about 60 in a 55mph zone..there were a series of 5 hills and coming over the top of one, a car stopped for no reason causing the crash and the rest of us just piled on top of each other..the first car left the scene... But, ALL of that (my car was a V-it damaged my back for life) could have been prevented if I had been aware of the THREE second rule (some call it the 2 second rule, but I make sure I have that extra second in there)..following tooo closely...I would have had time to break if I had not been or the other 4 cars had not been following too closely.... I drove a company car in pharmaceutical sales for 7 years, I had to attend safe driving courses..the little things I learned in those evasive training camps have saved me many a time...do you have your mirrors adjusted quickly, are your tires inflated to the right amount (definitely affects your breaking/turning ability in an evasive maneuver)...are you driving with your cell phone in your hand?? I just don't want to read of another group of teens being killed because they were texting someone...please share with us how this accident could have been avoided...we need to copy/paste all these articles for our children when they begin driving, to never let them take it lightly...driver's ed didn't cover the stuff I learned in my training as a rep..hoping to open that up to more kids when my children are driving age. Praying for a quick recovery and the confidence to get behind the wheel again a little wiser! Tara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug:I'm so glad he is okay. I'd be a basket case. Hang in there, big hug and prayers for the three of you.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DB in NJ Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug: I can't even imagine. Thank God he's ok!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mamagistra Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 SO glad he is alright, Jean. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandy in Indy Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Wow! PTL that he wasn't seriously injured. Really. I read the words "dump truck" and thought...this child's in the hospital for sure. What a horrible thing to have happen to such a new driver. Thank God he's OK. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sleepy Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Oh, Jean. How terrifying! Thank goodness he's okay. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krista in LA Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug: Wow, it's really quite amazing that he was broadsided by a dump truck like that and escaped with such minor injuries! I hope you all got some rest and I'm sure you are giving him lots of extra hugs today. I'm so not looking forward to when my dd starts driving in a couple of years. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laylamcb Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Wow--how FRIGHTENING! Oh, it's so hard to be a parent. Here's a hug for you, Quiver: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swellmomma Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Oh my goodness, how terrifying. I am so so happy he is okay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quiver0f10 Posted September 25, 2008 Author Share Posted September 25, 2008 Jean, I am soo sorry.. but can we learn something from this? Can you share with us 'how' the accident happened? Who was at fault? Wow. Scary scary. Was the dump truck driver at fault? I hope your poor boy at least gets another rig to drive without too much hardship. It was my 17yos fault. He was at the end of our road, heading to work. The road that leads to our development is extrememly busy. The stop is on a hill and is awkward to pull out on. The dump truck driver was telling us after that he has seen way too many accidents at the same spot. So my son had stopped, looked and waited for two cars to go. He said he looked right, looked left and saw the truck but figured he had enough time. He said as soon as he started to go he knew it was a mistake and thank the Lord, he stepped on it and didn't brake. We have no doubt that had he braked, he would not be here. The dump truck ended up hitting the side panel of his truck and not at his door. It pushed his truck sideways up the road and then spun it around and he ended up down an embankment facing the road. It tore off the tire and axle and it ripped the fuel line off the dump truck. There was diesel fuel spilling all over the road. They ended up having to call a hazmat crew, fire trucks, ambulance etc. My son called me as soon as he got out of his truck so Dh and I got there before the EMS crews. My Dh near had a heart attack when he saw a dump truck sitting there. I don't think any of us will soon forget last night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HRAAB Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Oh my goodness. What a scare. My oldest two have had a couple fender benders, and even at that I worry myself sick. Thank the Lord he is safe. Janet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dayle in Guatemala Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I'm so glad he's okay!!! He had some big angels with him. How are you today? I can only imagine that you are grateful and still a little freaked out.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lizzie in Ma Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 He was involved in an accident where he was hit broad side by a dump truck that was going 45 mph. He is fine, thank God. A few scrapes, some nasty brusing from his seat belt and a very sore head from it smashing against his side window. The Dr. gave him some pain pills and he was able to sleep last night, but I don't think DH and I slept at all. The dump truck driver told us my son is very very lucky to be alive. The poor man was shaking while talking to us. Had my son hit the brakes or been 1 second slower he wouldn't be here today. My son had only been able to drive by himself for 3 days and bought his truck less than 2 weeks ago. I am still shaken up and am trying to process all this. I am very thankful that my son is alive and praising God for that, but am still trying to come to terms on why stuff like this happens. Kwim? Hug your babies ladies, thats all I can say. Praise God he is ok. I am hugging mine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quiver0f10 Posted September 25, 2008 Author Share Posted September 25, 2008 Oh my goodness. What a scare. My oldest two have had a couple fender benders, and even at that I worry myself sick. Thank the Lord he is safe. Janet My oldest son, our 18 yo, got in a wreck less than a month ago ( not his fault). I was shaken up, but it was nothing compared to this. Nothing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kelli in TN Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuirkyKapers Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug:Sent chills down my spine! Praise God he is o.k. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SueinNC Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camy-7 boybarians 1 lady Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 (((((((Oh, Jean))))))...I just praise the Lord He is safe and that you are celebrating his life today! Blessings. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missplacedalaskan Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug:I'm so thankful your Ds is alright. Praise God for His angels about us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraryLover Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug: How frightening! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysticamethyst Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Jean, I am so glad he is going to be okay. Hugs to you for being so strong through this. I hope that your sons aches, pains and brusies go away quickly and that he is not feared from driving; I know I would be. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PariSarah Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I'm so glad he's all right!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom2legomaniacs Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Oh Jean, I am so glad he is okay. How very frightening! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy in Orlando Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I'm so glad he was not seriously hurt. ((())) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jami Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Oh Jean, how scary! :grouphug: I managed to make it 16 years as a driver without being in any moving vehicle accidents (I did once let my car roll into a telephone poll...). But last Saturday I was hit crossing a busy road, and fortunately the other car was a smaller commuter car and both the driver and I were unhurt (other than a few aches and pains.) But it was SCARY! I was absolutely a shaking mess afterwards. I can't even imagine how you must be feeling. My first thought was, I'm so glad the kids weren't in the car with me. Glad your ds is okay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carrie12345 Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug: Big hugs to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkInTheBlue Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Oh Jean! The very idea of this freaks me out so badly I don't even know what to say. (((hugs))) to you, your son and your family! I'm so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I'm so glad that he is ok. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Alfred Academy Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 :grouphug: Glad he is okay. And...you are not alone in your struggles in wondering way things like this happen. Hugging my babies now.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quiver0f10 Posted September 25, 2008 Author Share Posted September 25, 2008 Thank you all! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracey in TX Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Oh my goodness, so glad he's safe and alive. Huge hugs to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom to Aly Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Jean, I am so glad he is OK, I can't imagine how you are feeling. <<hugs>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Praise God that he's ok!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doran Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 It was my 17yos fault... I don't think any of us will soon forget last night. I'm unable to imagine how shaken you all must have been. Wow. Maybe the "reason" for things like this happening is buried in between these two parts of your post. Your son learned a life lesson last night which will help him in future judgment calls. I actually had to make a similar decision just yesterday. I was turning left out of the grocery store. I had several opportunities to turn, chances which may have been possible, but may also have been disastrous. I opted to wait. By the time I made the turn, there were three cars waiting behind me. But, within the last month a man was killed pulling out of that very parking lot. It doesn't pay to rush -- but my how I have to have harsh reminders of this over and over again. My mantra: When in doubt, just wait it out. I'm so glad your boy is okay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mazakaal Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 How frightening! I'm so glad he's all right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vida Winter Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 He was involved in an accident where he was hit broad side by a dump truck that was going 45 mph. He is fine, thank God. A few scrapes, some nasty brusing from his seat belt and a very sore head from it smashing against his side window. The Dr. gave him some pain pills and he was able to sleep last night, but I don't think DH and I slept at all. The dump truck driver told us my son is very very lucky to be alive. The poor man was shaking while talking to us. Had my son hit the brakes or been 1 second slower he wouldn't be here today. My son had only been able to drive by himself for 3 days and bought his truck less than 2 weeks ago. I am still shaken up and am trying to process all this. I am very thankful that my son is alive and praising God for that, but am still trying to come to terms on why stuff like this happens. Kwim? Hug your babies ladies, thats all I can say. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so thankful that he is okay. When I was 16, as I sat completely still in traffic at a stop light in my Toyota Corolla, a dump truck hit me from behind going about 45-50. My car bounced across the other lane of traffic (thank God no car was coming the other way) and I landed in the ditch on the other side of the road. My car was totalled, I had a seat belt on and walked away - badly shaken, bruised. I had been driving on my own about 4 weeks. Over thirty years later I still remember every moment in slow-motion. He will probably be more sore than he's ever been in his life. I remember feeling bruised from head to toe although the only visible bruise I had was a giant one on my thigh where I landed on my emergency brake. I was also extremely fearful of driving for a long time. My dad made me "get back on the horse" and start driving again but I didn't want to. :grouphug: All I can say is that God must have a lot for him to do yet. Hugs to both of you! ~Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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