elegantlion Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 I hate regular pantyhose, but I have a pair of tight-like leggings that come to my ankle. The dress is jersey with a a-line skirt that comes to my knees. Tights are black, dress is black and cream. Would it be a faux pas to wear them together with something like ballet flats. The occasion would be an academic conference, but I think it's fairly casual, like business casual. I might do tall boots if I can find them in my budget and it would be too cold and I'm too pale to show bare legs. I can't find a great picture of what I mean. Maybe something like this, but the pattern on my dress is more subtle. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jane in NC Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 Sounds like you'll be spot on fashion-wise. I am thrilled to hear that you are attending an academic conference. Go girl! 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldberry Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 DD has worn this before, so I say go for it. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SebastianCat Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 I see this all the time. Sounds like it would be very cute! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted October 15, 2015 Author Share Posted October 15, 2015 Sounds like you'll be spot on fashion-wise. I am thrilled to hear that you are attending an academic conference. Go girl! We're still crossing fingers as we have to secure funding, but yes, it's a very cool opportunity. DD has worn this before, so I say go for it. This helps, thank you. My stylish lately has been college casual. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted October 15, 2015 Author Share Posted October 15, 2015 I see this all the time. Sounds like it would be very cute! Again, another sigh of relief. I'm going shoe shopping this evening and am more likely to find flats in my budget than boots. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 Sounds very cute! Go for it! :thumbup1: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garga Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 That's the exact look I'm planning on buying for myself this fall. :) I personally would go with boots, though, because I like socks. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marbel Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 I think it would look good either way, boots or flats. All the cool young women I know dress that way. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 Are you presenting or attending? Attending I wouldn't think twice. Sounds cute and comfy. If presenting I would go for full tights and more business/less casual shoes. :) 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fdrinca Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 Are you presenting or attending? Attending I wouldn't think twice. Sounds cute and comfy. If presenting I would go for full tights and more business/less casual shoes. :) It might depend on the academic field whether this outfit would fly as a presentation outfit. I'd feel OK at a poli sci conference, but not econ, for example. I love leggings and skirts/dresses as a look. I do have a personal issue when the dress or skirt clings too much to the leggings, though - your jersey dress sounds like it could. Might be worth a test-drive :) 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 I hate regular pantyhose, but I have a pair of tight-like leggings that come to my ankle. The dress is jersey with a a-line skirt that comes to my knees. Tights are black, dress is black and cream. Would it be a faux pas to wear them together with something like ballet flats. The occasion would be an academic conference, but I think it's fairly casual, like business casual. I might do tall boots if I can find them in my budget and it would be too cold and I'm too pale to show bare legs. I can't find a great picture of what I mean. Maybe something like this, but the pattern on my dress is more subtle. I would not wear them. I would consider it a faux pas. Sorry. Also, I understand that I might be alone in this. Nevertheless, I remain unmoved. :-) 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freeindeed Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 Sounds cute. I wear stuff like this on a regular basis. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 I would not wear them. I would consider it a faux pas. Sorry. Also, I understand that I might be alone in this. Nevertheless, I remain unmoved. :-) You're not alone, Ellie. :D I don't particularly love it, either. I never see anyone dressed in that kind of outfit, except for the occasional teenager. I think it is a very young, unsophisticated (very casual rather than professional) look but maybe I'm just too old and boring to appreciate it! :) 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dmmetler Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 Well, at DD's most recent conference, that was a common look for the female presenters-but herp conferences are very casual (t-shirts and jeans are common if you're not presenting) and for the most part they were quite young-early to mid 20's at the oldest (one was a new faculty member, the others were all students). I do like that kind of look and wear it frequently. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KungFuPanda Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 If you hate the squished toes feeling of tights, you can get the nylons made for upen-toed shoes and wear them with regular shoes. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crazyforlatin Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 I just saw a woman wear a similar outfit and she was close to 60 years old. I did a double-take because I thought she had great style. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted October 16, 2015 Author Share Posted October 16, 2015 Thanks all, even those that believe it's a faux pas. I found a pair of flats that I think will work well. I'll try it all on this weekend to see if it works. The shoes were on clearance and are like this but without the top decoration. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEmama Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 I'm always surprised by the things that get controversial and heated on this board. It's a great look, very versatile and practical plus super cute at any age. I wear it regularly as it fits my lifestyle--I want to look reasonably stylish and put together, but also need to be ready to hop on my bike at a moments notice. It can be easily dressed up or down and is appropriate for any age. I'm glad you found what you are looking for. I'm sure you'll look fabulous. :) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marbel Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 I'm always surprised by the things that get controversial and heated on this board. It's a great look, very versatile and practical plus super cute at any age. I wear it regularly as it fits my lifestyle--I want to look reasonably stylish and put together, but also need to be ready to hop on my bike at a moments notice. It can be easily dressed up or down and is appropriate for any age. I'm glad you found what you are looking for. I'm sure you'll look fabulous. :) I don't think a couple of people disagreeing about clothing choices makes for much controversy. It's just a matter of taste. :-) I like the look on others. I couldn't pull it off myself. Too old and round. :-) OP, glad you found what you are looking for! Hope you have a great time at the conference. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Grace Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 I'm wearing this today (leggings, casual cotton dress, cardigan, flats) and I look adorable. :D 15 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatieJ Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 I am at a school assembly for my grandsons. One of the teachers is wearing this outfit. She is wearing ankle boots and sporting a pregnancy belly. She looks adorable. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TechWife Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 I think that looks great! I'm all for dressing for the occasion, and I think that's a great outfit for the conference you described. In any case, even if you find yourself over- or under-dressed, remember it's all in how you carry yourself - great posture, confident walk and a smile will help you pull any look off in any situation! 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 I'm always surprised by the things that get controversial and heated on this board. It's a great look, very versatile and practical plus super cute at any age. I wear it regularly as it fits my lifestyle--I want to look reasonably stylish and put together, but also need to be ready to hop on my bike at a moments notice. It can be easily dressed up or down and is appropriate for any age. I'm glad you found what you are looking for. I'm sure you'll look fabulous. :) I don't think it is at all controversial, and I'm not seeing any posts that are "heated," either. It may be your opinion that it is a great look and is super-cute at any age, but some of us don't share that opinion. I'm not sure why you are so certain that you are right and we are wrong. It is simply a matter of taste. Maybe it is a perfect look for you -- you are probably a lot younger and more casual than I am -- but please believe me when I tell you that it would not be a perfect look for me. I would look and feel ridiculous, as it would feel like a very immature look for someone my age. It is definitely not something my friends (ages 40's to 70's) would wear. Maybe it's a regional thing or something because it's not a look I see very often, although I know it is popular elsewhere. But I definitely don't see this thread as being heated or controversial. Wear whatever you like, and others will do the same. :) 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ausmumof3 Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 I hate regular pantyhose, but I have a pair of tight-like leggings that come to my ankle. The dress is jersey with a a-line skirt that comes to my knees. Tights are black, dress is black and cream. Would it be a faux pas to wear them together with something like ballet flats. The occasion would be an academic conference, but I think it's fairly casual, like business casual. I might do tall boots if I can find them in my budget and it would be too cold and I'm too pale to show bare legs. I can't find a great picture of what I mean. Maybe something like this, but the pattern on my dress is more subtle. I love that look. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted October 17, 2015 Author Share Posted October 17, 2015 yeah, I don't care that people disagree, that's not controversial, it's a given on this board. That's why I asked. I won't be presenting if we get to go, just attending. I'll obviously double check dress code with my advisor before packing. There is a fine line of perception with dressing. I'm an older undergrad, like I have lots of grey hair, so I may want to project something a bit younger to match the fact I'm still at the beginning of learning this field. It's a subtle distinction and I would definitely feel more comfortable without full pantyhose for sure. I'm going to look for some shorter boots today too. I spent much less than I had planned on the flats anyway. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEmama Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 I don't think it is at all controversial, and I'm not seeing any posts that are "heated," either. It may be your opinion that it is a great look and is super-cute at any age, but some of us don't share that opinion. I'm not sure why you are so certain that you are right and we are wrong. It is simply a matter of taste. Maybe it is a perfect look for you -- you are probably a lot younger and more casual than I am -- but please believe me when I tell you that it would not be a perfect look for me. I would look and feel ridiculous, as it would feel like a very immature look for someone my age. It is definitely not something my friends (ages 40's to 70's) would wear. Maybe it's a regional thing or something because it's not a look I see very often, although I know it is popular elsewhere. But I definitely don't see this thread as being heated or controversial. Wear whatever you like, and others will do the same. :) You are right. When stating an opinion, I will be certain to preface it as such. Thus, in my opinion, it's a super cute look. :) 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colleen in NS Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 You'll rock your graying but beautifully curly hair in that outfit!!!! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 You are right. When stating an opinion, I will be certain to preface it as such. Thus, in my opinion, it's a super cute look. :) Sounds good to me :) -- and I was thinking about it, and if you ride a bike often, it is probably a very good fashion choice for you because you get the look of a cute dress without flashing the neighbors. ;) I'm usually in the car so my outfits don't have to pass the bike test. :D 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seasider Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 yeah, I don't care that people disagree, that's not controversial, it's a given on this board. That's why I asked. I won't be presenting if we get to go, just attending. I'll obviously double check dress code with my advisor before packing. There is a fine line of perception with dressing. I'm an older undergrad, like I have lots of grey hair, so I may want to project something a bit younger to match the fact I'm still at the beginning of learning this field. It's a subtle distinction and I would definitely feel more comfortable without full pantyhose for sure. I'm going to look for some shorter boots today too. I spent much less than I had planned on the flats anyway. I love your attitude and reasoning. Have fun finishing out the shopping, and enjoy the conference! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colleen in NS Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 EL, I just returned from a lecture at a local university (it was given by a Great Courses astronomy superstar! Ds and I got to meet him!). Anyway, two women took turns translating to sign language for the audience. One of them was probably in her 50s. She wore an outfit very similar to what you described, and she looked great! Instead of flats she had the most gorgeous red suede boots!!! I think that with black leggings, dresses like that look great; whether it's with flats, short boots, or knee length boots, and yes, on older women. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted October 20, 2015 Author Share Posted October 20, 2015 WE GET TO GO!!! I signed up today. I am so stoked, this is a stellar opportunity, plus the people I'm attending with are an absolute hoot to be around. :party: 11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jane in NC Posted October 21, 2015 Share Posted October 21, 2015 I am so thrilled for you! Hey, I did not realize until tonight that you have a minor in French. How cool is that? How is that boy of yours doing? Sending you lots of good vibes, Jane 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colleen in NS Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 EL, I'm just seeing this now - I am so excited for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Did this already happen? Please report back when you can! And post a photo of you in your awesome outfit! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tsuga Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 I cannot read the thread w/o risking my ego since I wore that exact outfit yesterday. I hope the comments were positive and that it went well. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penguin Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 Sounds good to me :) -- and I was thinking about it, and if you ride a bike often, it is probably a very good fashion choice for you because you get the look of a cute dress without flashing the neighbors. ;) I'm usually in the car so my outfits don't have to pass the bike test. :D I live in a place where everyone cycles everywhere, and it is a popular look for all ages. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Audrey Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 You're not alone, Ellie. :D I don't particularly love it, either. I never see anyone dressed in that kind of outfit, except for the occasional teenager. I think it is a very young, unsophisticated (very casual rather than professional) look but maybe I'm just too old and boring to appreciate it! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Audrey Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 Controversial or not, I wouldn't wear foot les tights with any footwear that would show the bottom edge of them. It may be cute to some but it is not at all sophisticated, IMO. Have you tried JustFab.com for boots? They're very inexpensive and have good deals for first time orders. Just a thought.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 I just got home, the outfit worked for the occasion. I'll have to see if the picture I took will work here, don't have time this evening. The attire for women ran from jeans and sweaters to suits. My look worked for the time and $ I had to put together an outfit as well. I did try to find tall boots, and I really have to try them on. The ones in my price range just looked very cheap. I want to invest into a nice pair of real leather boots as my last pair of cheap tall boots only lasted two seasons and were not that comfortable. The conference itself was excellent (positively an understatement) and opened up so many possibilities. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colleen in NS Posted November 9, 2015 Share Posted November 9, 2015 The conference itself was excellent (positively an understatement) and opened up so many possibilities. I can't wait to hear more about this!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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