Jump to content

Menu

Is it enough to have them just read and enjoy the books?


Recommended Posts

My older two read for over an hour each day, independently. I assign books for them from various booklists: Sonlight, Heart of Dakota, Ambleside Online.

 

Is it enough to have them just read and enjoy?

 

Should I have them narrate each book to me?

 

Or perhaps have a list of questions for them to answer?

 

I know that they have no trouble with comprehension, it is more for discussion purposes or helping them to get as much out of book that they can.

 

I just wonder if they are reading too much without absorbing and enjoying the books. They both love to read and read more than this one hour each day. This hour is where I assign their books. The rest of the time they choose the books.

 

We do a lot of read alouds too where we discuss themes and characters, but I feel I don't do this enough with their independent readers. Do I need to change it up or just let them go for it?

 

I want them to enjoy the books :)

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

IMO it is more than enough. Let them read & enjoy them. Occasionally discuss a book and maybe just talk about things you liked or didn't but personally I'd do it casually, not as a big formal lesson. Just talk, ask questions, be legitimately interested and engaged in their books and let them talk about them with you.

Loosely run book clubs are fun for the older elementary kids, if you can get a smallish group, to just talk a bit about the books. you could try to gently structure by giving some set questions to help them organize their thoughts.

 

  • Like 6
Link to comment
Share on other sites

At 10, 8 and 6?

 

YES.

 

One doesn't have to analyse a book to enjoy it. OTOH, some of the most powerful books are ones that can be re-read when you are older--that have different levels of meaning. Make sure they have a few of those sprinkled in there. They can enjoy them now and dig deeper later, when their minds have developed the ability to be more analytical and they have the life experiences to make more connections.

 

For now, you bet you want them to enjoy books! That is a great goal!!

  • Like 5
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Yes! I let my boys do that from the time they could read and it's been great for us. I'm starting 7th grade now with my oldest, and both the 12yo & 10yo (who have been reading for enjoyment from the time they were 5) are knowledgeable, can have conversations about anything, and are interested in a huge variety of subjects because they want to read anything they can get their hands on.

 

Now, in 7th grade, I'm adding more structure and having him write about his assigned reading, but I fully plan to continue the "read widely for enjoyment" plan for all the others until 7th grade.

  • Like 2
Link to comment
Share on other sites

My older two read for over an hour each day, independently. I assign books for them from various booklists: Sonlight, Heart of Dakota, Ambleside Online.

 

Is it enough to have them just read and enjoy?

 

Should I have them narrate each book to me?

 

Or perhaps have a list of questions for them to answer?

 

I know that they have no trouble with comprehension, it is more for discussion purposes or helping them to get as much out of book that they can.

 

I just wonder if they are reading too much without absorbing and enjoying the books. They both love to read and read more than this one hour each day. This hour is where I assign their books. The rest of the time they choose the books.

 

We do a lot of read alouds too where we discuss themes and characters, but I feel I don't do this enough with their independent readers. Do I need to change it up or just let them go for it?

 

I want them to enjoy the books :)

At 10, 8, and 6, yes, yes, yes. 

If you've got self-directed readers, your primary job as a homeschooling mom is to make sure they have continued access to quality literature and non-fiction on themes and topics that interest them.  One approach I used is to make regular visits to a well-stocked library, allowing the children to take out as many books as they wanted.  While they were looking for books, I did the same, selecting a variety of books on current interests (as well as building on them - for example, books on Antarctic explorers if penguins was a current interest).  I chose a variety of reading levels on the same topic, and sometimes threw in a video or audio book.  I then put these materials in our huge "library basket", so that a child looking for a new book to read had plenty from which to choose.

 

There will be plenty of time as they get older to do more formal study of literature.  For now, you are building a foundation of equal parts love of reading, experience with a wide range of genres and themes, and exposure to well-written English.  For kids who are passionate about  books, while it is always a balance, this foundation is much easier to build through self-directed reading assisted by thoughtful mentorship, than through more school-like methods

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Thank you for asking your questions, and thank you to everyone who answered with a yes.  OTOH, maybe sprinkle in a little bit of literary analysis with a book you may read out loud by using a book like "Figuratively Speaking."  Just familiarize them with the language of literary analysis and discuss, but don't pick a book apart - that's a great way to kill the desire to read.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 2 weeks later...

Thanks so much for your encouragement! I will continue on the path we are on: 10 and 8 year old - reading for the pleasure of it and discussing with me only if they decide. Once they move to high school, this will gradually change. My 6 year old is still learning to read so she doesn't have a set time to read on her own at this stage. Thanks again, I will continue to supply them with great literature :)

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Yes, what a blessing!  And if you're not familiar with it, check out readaloudrevival.com.  It has some really fantastic podcast interviews with lots of great people.  I'm always so excited about what I learn on those, so I pass it along whenever possible!

  • Like 2
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Multum non multa

 

I would choose a single book (maybe each month) to have a discussion about.  You may preface the discussion with some thought provoking questions and have your reader find places in the book that answer or inform the questions prior to the discussion so that you can carry on a nice conversation.  

 

For the rest of the books just let them read.  

Link to comment
Share on other sites

My older two read for over an hour each day, independently. I assign books for them from various booklists: Sonlight, Heart of Dakota, Ambleside Online.

 

Is it enough to have them just read and enjoy?

 

Yes.

 

Should I have them narrate each book to me?

 

No.

 

Or perhaps have a list of questions for them to answer?

 

No.

 

I know that they have no trouble with comprehension, it is more for discussion purposes or helping them to get as much out of book that they can.

 

I would treat "reading comprehension" as a totally separate skill regardless (I understand you have said they don't have that problem but even if they did). It's really more critical thinking, and standardized test reading comprehension is much more about understanding how the tests are set up, than reading the text. I would let them share the books with me but more important is that they themselves love the books.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

 Share

×
×
  • Create New...