*sigh* Remember my "toxic person" post back in December? Probably not, but...

[AimeeM]

nm

 

You guys are great. And, as always, right, lol.

[Jean in Newcastle]

Just tell her that she isn't allowed to come.  

 

 

 

Sorry - probably not helpful but it is what I would want to say in that situation!

[sassenach]

Is this person a relative?  Honestly, a person like that would never, ever have access to my kids to begin with.  Supervised visitation only.  If that can only happen every other year, or whatever, so be it.  I also would block her on FB.  She is toxic and boundaries are for YOU to enforce.

[*Lulu*]

Just tell her that she isn't allowed to come.

 

 

 

Sorry - probably not helpful but it is what I would want to say in that situation!

Yeah, if she is that level of brazenly hostile I would have to cut way back on my exposure to her, IRL and online.

[AimeeM]

Just tell her that she isn't allowed to come.  

 

 

 

Sorry - probably not helpful but it is what I would want to say in that situation!

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I did tell her that, lol. She just isn't hearing it.

[Ann.without.an.e]

I do remember the toxic person....weren't you going to cut facebook ties with her (or is that a different thread I am remembering)?

 

She sounds aggressive.  She is disappointed and manipulative and that is being displayed with passive aggressiveness.  What does DH say?

[DawnM]

How do you know my mother?

[AimeeM]

Is this person a relative?  Honestly, a person like that would never, ever have access to my kids to begin with.  Supervised visitation only.  If that can only happen every other year, or whatever, so be it.  I also would block her on FB.  She is toxic and boundaries are for YOU to enforce.

She is a relative.

[AimeeM]

I do remember the toxic person....weren't you going to cut facebook ties with her (or is that a different thread I am remembering)?

 

She sounds aggressive.  She is disappointed and manipulative and that is being displayed with passive aggressiveness.  What does DH say?

It may be a different thread. Our last altercation was at my house, not facebook, lol.

 

ETA: Tony (dh) doesn't understand the entire situation. He says, without complete confusion, "just stop talking to her". I understand that it sounds easy, but I adore my father and, well, this woman DID raise me. The main issue is maintaining a relationship with my dad though...

[AimeeM]

How do you know my mother?

Lol! Maybe they're related...

[Eagle]

Anyone that treated me like that wouldn't be allowed in my life or the lives of my children. Relative or not.