FaithManor Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 She has an MRI on Monday and emergency surgery has soon as an OR is open afterward. My dad is stick in the critical care cardiology unit due ti atrial fib. I am just trying to breath. Her finance is on the way and dad is not stable so I can't leave the hospital. Tell me what you know. Talk me off the ledge. Her surgeon insists she is going to deliver dd in good shape for wedding June 1st. I have my doubts. Faith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azucena Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 No advice, just prayers. So sorry all this is happening at once. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Lulu* Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 Oh my gracious! ((((Hugs)))) Prayers for wise doctors and quick recoveries. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErinE Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 I can't say anything. What a shock! Saying a prayer for you and your family right now. ::hugs:: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lavender's green Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 :grouphug: I don't know a thing about this condition, but you're all in my thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MommaOfalotta Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 Prayers. Im sorry for all your family is going through. Praying for healing, quick recovery, and peace of mind for you, momma. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creekland Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: Hugs from here - no knowledge (sorry) but lots and lots of hugs and prayers. Take care. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrn Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orthodox6 Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebecca VA Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 Oh, Faith! May the Lord pour down His healing upon your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 I would say that your surgeon speaks truth. My 56 yo friend had two large huge and a couple of small tumors on her ovaries. She had laparascopic surgery 3 weeks ago, they weren't sure they'd be able to, the tumors were so large, and she is doing quite well. Your dd is 35 years younger and at a good body weight, fit, and used to high activity, right? I'd believe the surgeon. I'm sorry you are facing this--whew! And sorry that she is, too. Bless you both! Hang in there and take care of your dad; let the fiance assume more of the bring there for your dd. It will be good for their relationship. (And tough on you...I know.) Many hugs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 dup sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 I have heard of several young women in my acquaintance having benign ovarian cysts. She will be fine by June. Is it going to be done laparoscopically? If so, she may hardly know there is a scar by June. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 :grouphug: I know 2 women who've come through this with very little evidence of the whole ordeal after a couple weeks. Hoping for a smooth surgery and recovery for her. I'm so sorry you're getting hit with this all at once. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MtnTeaching Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 Listen to the surgeon, she sounds confident. I know nothing about this type of condition, but it could actually be a blessing that this was found when it was. I know the wedding will be beautiful and I pray your father will be well enough to attend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzanne115 Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 I pray that your daughter and your dad will both recover quickly. I will also pray for peace and strength for you. I am sorry for what you are going through. It sounds like a lot. My mom has been really sick so I understand the fear and worrythat you are facing. Suzanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El... Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 I can't speak to the tumor, but I can tell you that I had my gall bladder out Mar 7 by lap, and I was good about a wk later. Restricted in some lifting (keep in mind, I was 23 wks pregnant too) but good. Now, 7 wks later, and I'd say I've been my usual self, completely, for at least 3-4 wks. I was warned that the pregnancy stretching, etc could impede healing a bit, and I couldn't honestly tell what was pregnancy pain and what was from the surgery. So, when the surgeon says she'll be good to go for the wedding, believe her. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jane in NC Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 Oh Faith! I know you have the rocketry competition coming up too! Wish I could give you a hand. Sending lots of love and best wishes, Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FaithManor Posted April 25, 2013 Author Share Posted April 25, 2013 She is not a candidate for laproscopy. Her uterus is enlarged three times normal and the tumor is too Large. The doctor said it is either the kind with teethnhair etc. Some very bizarre teraroma or it is cancer. From the time of the ultrasound until all of this was scheduled was two hrs. The ultrasound tech Emergency faxed the report to the radiologist who called the doctor and got her out of a consult with another patient. Having been down this road with a dad in TERRIBLE risk and seeing how slowly the wheels of the medical system turn it is hard not to believe that they are not telling us some rosy story so we won't lose our minds over the weeken. In reality, my recenr experience leads me to believe that the truth if far darker. At any rate, it is not possible for me to take the rocket team to D.C. I am frantically looking for a 4H volunteer who can get time off to chaperons these kids two weeks from today. Thank you everyone for your support. I need to drive home here for a while and snuggle with dh for a few minutes. Then we need to tell the boys. Faith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
********* Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Oh Faith. Interceding for you right now. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remudamom Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Praying hard for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momof3littles Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Holding you and your DD in my thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunnyDays Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Oh Faith... Honey I'm so sorry. I know none of you needed this. Try to trust and expect the best for now. Ugh, Monday seems far away but I know it will come quickly. Hugs to you all... Please know that all of us are mentally holding you through this. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynn Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Praying for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DianeW88 Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Oh, my! Praying for you and yours. Hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali in OR Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 I hate that you all are going through this. Bleah! Praying for the best possible outcome--no cancer, easy removal, quick healing, peace for all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. We're all going with the ratty benign tumor. I'm praying for all of you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 (((hugs))) Praying for you, Faith! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alte Veste Academy Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 (((((((Faith))))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaxmum Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Praying for you all. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caitilin Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Praying, Faith. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
applethyme Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: I had a tumor on my right ovary while I was pregnant with ds. It was growing faster than he was. Time from diagnosis to surgery was very short. I had to see a gynecological oncologist to have the surgery. I was terrified. DD was 18 months old. Long story short the surgery went very well. I recovered fairly quickly and went on to have ds. I remember reading a statistic that something like 90% of these tumors are benign. In my case it was true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Kate Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Praying for you now!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Praying for you, your dd, your dad and all your family :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momma2Many66 Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 My family will be covering your daughter as well as your whole family in prayer ! May God bless you with HIS Perfect Peace !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandylubug Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 My goodness! I said a prayer for your family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucy in Australia Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 So sorry :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I am praying for all of you now.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy in FL. Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Praying for a successful surgery and recovery, good pathology, and peace for all of you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J-rap Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Praying for your daughter, that all will go well! The surgeon sounds confident, and I would trust her. I'm sorry you have the weekend to wait, and that your daughter has to go through this, especially now. I think it will all be okay! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reflections Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tex-bex Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Oh, how stressful! I know the quickness is easy to fret over, but thank goodness they *are* able to move so fast! Hugs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vonfirmath Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Praying for you. You don't need this! Your daughter doesn't need this before her wedding! I pray that, 10 years from now, you all will be laughing with the curious grandchildren about that crazy wedding season. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Susan C. Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Oh my goodness Faithe! What an avalanche! One step at a time, it will all work out. It may be crazy, but it will all work out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Truscifi Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 I'm so sorry! :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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