He passed away last night

[freeindeed]

I am so sorry. I am praying for you and your children.

[saraha]

:grouphug: :grouphug: May you get some rest soon.

[teamturner]

Praying (((hugs)))

[aggie96]

My deepest condolences to you and your family. :grouphug:

[prairiewindmomma]

Huge, huge hugs.

 

I didn't "see it" when my daughter died of cancer. I knew things were bad, but I thought we had more time. Looking back, I think that was a huge blessing to me---a protection of my mind to be able to do what I needed to do at the time in caring for myself and the rest of my children. (I also had a baby at the time). I also believe that many, many people choose to die at a time when they can protect their families from seeing it. We heard story after story about moms who stepped out of a hospital room to take a phonecall or get a soda only to have their child very quickly pass. Perhaps this was a gift from him to you to try to shield you from pain.

 

We also chose not to donate. Don't feel guilty. It really is ok. Really.

 

My baby was such a comfort to me when my daughter died. Enjoy the quiet moments of snuggling and nursing as you mourn, they were very healing to me.... I pray that good friends will surround you and carry you through the coming months and years....

[Paintedlady]

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

[TravelingChris]

I am so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

[Shamzanne]

I am praying for peace for you.

[Sharpie]

:grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry! Words are inadequate...... :grouphug: :grouphug:

[Mrs Mungo]

I am so sorry for your loss. Words are never adequate at times like this. But, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

[melissad2]

I am so very sorry... :grouphug:

[1bassoon]

:grouphug:

I'm so , so sorry. You made the best decisions you could with what you knew at the time. Please be gentle on yourself.

 

:grouphug:

[FourOaks]

Blessings to you and your precious family!! I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. May God comfort all of you and hold you in His arms.

[nd293]

I am so sorry for the loss you and your family have suffered.

[AlmiraGulch]

My heart is broken for you. I wish I had wise words, but all I have are my most heartfelt condolences to extend.

[NoPlaceLikeHome]

:grouphug: :grouphug:

:grouphug:

[southcarolinamom]

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. May you and your children be enveloped by God's peace today, and in the coming weeks and months. :grouphug:

[sahm99]

I am so very sorry. You, your children and your family will be in my prayers.

[bzymom]

I am so sorry. :grouphug: There just are no words.

[mamatohaleybug]

Oh, I am so sorry! Huge hugs!

[Isabella]

Crying and praying for you. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

[Liz CA]

He knew you loved him. He wants you to take care of his children. No guilt!

Wish I could hug and hold you all for a while.

 

:grouphug:

[Another Lynn]

I'm so sorry. :grouphug:

[Night Elf]

:grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss.

[MelAR05]

In agreement with what others have said. :(

[tots2teens]

I am so so sorry. My heart is breaking for you & your family. :grouphug:

[MolleenCarie]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you.

[amo_mea_filiis.]

I'm so sorry.

[Melissa in Australia]

I am so sorry.

We are all crying with you :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying:

 

:grouphug:

[GailV]

:grouphug: I am so sorry.

[Chris in VA]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I will be in prayer for you tonight.

[Faithr]

May he rest in peace. I will pray for you and your family too.

[NancyNellen]

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers being lifted for you right now.

[laundrycrisis]

I am very, very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your children in my thoughts. :grouphug:

[UmMusa]

My condolences to you and the family.

[Punks in Ontario]

:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I am so sorry. Praying for comfort for all of you.

[Laurel]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[nandmsmom]

I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

[Harriet Vane]

:grouphug:

[Chelle in MO]

I am very, very sorry for your loss. :grouphug:

[joannqn]

I'm very sorry for your loss. I pray that God will provide you with the comfort and strength that you need to continue on.

[OhanaBee]

I'm so sorry. You and your dear family are in my prayers.

[Hikin' Mama]

I'm so, so sorry. My heart hurts for you and your kids.

[Lucy in Australia]

I am so, so sorry... :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

[TCB]

I am so sorry. Am praying for you and your family.

[jhschool]

I am so sorry. Don't feel guilty. You were a wonderful wife.

I am praying for your whole family. Your husband will be

watching over you and his children always.

:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

[HollyDay]

I am so very sorry..... :grouphug:

[mamajudy]

I'm so sorry. May God comfort you and your family during this time.

[Denisemomof4]

oh my goodness. I'm not around here much at all so never saw other posts of yours. I'm so very sorry for your loss. So desperately sorry! It breaks my heart that you are second guessing what you did, but I understand that. I have not lost my husband, but I have regrets over my mother's death, and especially my fathers. The day he was being released from the hospital into Hospice care I had a severe migraine and took my time to go to the hospital. I barely made it there when he took his final breath. I don't know if he heard a single word I said. I also have other guilt, knowing how things should have happened differently for him. But at the time, I simply was doing what I thought was best. As did you. I know it is normal for you to second guess yourself, but please, please forgive yourself and be gentle. You did your best. That's all you really can do. In time I hope you will have peace over all of this. But give yourself time. And grieve in your own personal way. Grief is a very individual process, and your process is yours alone.

 

I am so very sorry for your family.

[laughing lioness]

Sweet Friend, I am praying for total peace for you tonight. Please be gentle with yourself. Sending you love and prayers from SD.