freeindeed Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. I am praying for you and your children. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saraha Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: May you get some rest soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teamturner Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Praying (((hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aggie96 Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 My deepest condolences to you and your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiewindmomma Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Huge, huge hugs. I didn't "see it" when my daughter died of cancer. I knew things were bad, but I thought we had more time. Looking back, I think that was a huge blessing to me---a protection of my mind to be able to do what I needed to do at the time in caring for myself and the rest of my children. (I also had a baby at the time). I also believe that many, many people choose to die at a time when they can protect their families from seeing it. We heard story after story about moms who stepped out of a hospital room to take a phonecall or get a soda only to have their child very quickly pass. Perhaps this was a gift from him to you to try to shield you from pain. We also chose not to donate. Don't feel guilty. It really is ok. Really. My baby was such a comfort to me when my daughter died. Enjoy the quiet moments of snuggling and nursing as you mourn, they were very healing to me.... I pray that good friends will surround you and carry you through the coming months and years.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paintedlady Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingChris Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shamzanne Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am praying for peace for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharpie Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry! Words are inadequate...... :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry for your loss. Words are never adequate at times like this. But, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melissad2 Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so very sorry... :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1bassoon Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: I'm so , so sorry. You made the best decisions you could with what you knew at the time. Please be gentle on yourself. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FourOaks Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Blessings to you and your precious family!! I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. May God comfort all of you and hold you in His arms. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nd293 Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry for the loss you and your family have suffered. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlmiraGulch Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 My heart is broken for you. I wish I had wise words, but all I have are my most heartfelt condolences to extend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoPlaceLikeHome Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southcarolinamom Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. May you and your children be enveloped by God's peace today, and in the coming weeks and months. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahm99 Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so very sorry. You, your children and your family will be in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bzymom Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. :grouphug: There just are no words. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamatohaleybug Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Oh, I am so sorry! Huge hugs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isabella Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Crying and praying for you. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 He knew you loved him. He wants you to take care of his children. No guilt! Wish I could hug and hold you all for a while. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Another Lynn Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Elf Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MelAR05 Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 In agreement with what others have said. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tots2teens Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so so sorry. My heart is breaking for you & your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MolleenCarie Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amo_mea_filiis. Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. We are all crying with you :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GailV Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss. I will be in prayer for you tonight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faithr Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 May he rest in peace. I will pray for you and your family too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NancyNellen Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers being lifted for you right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laundrycrisis Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am very, very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your children in my thoughts. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UmMusa Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 My condolences to you and the family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Punks in Ontario Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I am so sorry. Praying for comfort for all of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurel Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nandmsmom Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am very, very sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joannqn Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm very sorry for your loss. I pray that God will provide you with the comfort and strength that you need to continue on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OhanaBee Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so sorry. You and your dear family are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hikin' Mama Posted March 1, 2013 Share Posted March 1, 2013 I'm so, so sorry. My heart hurts for you and your kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucy in Australia Posted March 1, 2013 Share Posted March 1, 2013 I am so, so sorry... :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TCB Posted March 1, 2013 Share Posted March 1, 2013 I am so sorry. Am praying for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhschool Posted March 1, 2013 Share Posted March 1, 2013 I am so sorry. Don't feel guilty. You were a wonderful wife. I am praying for your whole family. Your husband will be watching over you and his children always. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HollyDay Posted March 1, 2013 Share Posted March 1, 2013 I am so very sorry..... :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamajudy Posted March 1, 2013 Share Posted March 1, 2013 I'm so sorry. May God comfort you and your family during this time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted March 1, 2013 Share Posted March 1, 2013 oh my goodness. I'm not around here much at all so never saw other posts of yours. I'm so very sorry for your loss. So desperately sorry! It breaks my heart that you are second guessing what you did, but I understand that. I have not lost my husband, but I have regrets over my mother's death, and especially my fathers. The day he was being released from the hospital into Hospice care I had a severe migraine and took my time to go to the hospital. I barely made it there when he took his final breath. I don't know if he heard a single word I said. I also have other guilt, knowing how things should have happened differently for him. But at the time, I simply was doing what I thought was best. As did you. I know it is normal for you to second guess yourself, but please, please forgive yourself and be gentle. You did your best. That's all you really can do. In time I hope you will have peace over all of this. But give yourself time. And grieve in your own personal way. Grief is a very individual process, and your process is yours alone. I am so very sorry for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laughing lioness Posted March 1, 2013 Share Posted March 1, 2013 Sweet Friend, I am praying for total peace for you tonight. Please be gentle with yourself. Sending you love and prayers from SD. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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