MiniBlondes Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am at a loss for words. I've tried to respond several times but words are failing me. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaulainTx Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so very sorry for your loss. Praying for you and yours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Live2Ride Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so very sorry. Don't beat yourself up about what-ifs. Just remember the times that were good. Maybe start a memory book with your children that all of you can add to with words, thoughts, pictures, etc. I think you also did well wih his donations. Helping others brings me peace and I hope it eventually does you to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brilliant Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TammyinTN Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so sorry...you and your family are in my prayers. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melmichigan Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so very sorry for your loss. Let go of the guilt and remember all the memories you made. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emilylou Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am very sorry- Praying for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PuddleJumper1 Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: I am so very, very sorry! Praying for you and your children in the days to come and beyond. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halcyon Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. I will pray for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joanne Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so, so sorry. Call anytime. {{{{hugs}}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
regentrude Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J-rap Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. I hope you feel the Lord's presence closely. Don't let the guilt eat at you; you made the best decision you could at the time. You have been a wonderful, loving, faithful life partner to him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. :crying: It happened so fast. You must be in such a state of shock right now. PLEASE don't feel guilty. I didn't know Luke, but the way you have described him, he wouldn't have wanted you to feel guilty, and I'm sure he was very thankful that you were his wife and the mother of his beautiful children. I will keep praying for him, and for you and your children. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: I am so sorry. Please don't beat yourself up. You being at the hospital would not have changed anything, but you being at home gave you rest and gave your children stability in this terrible time. You are a wise, compassionate woman. We will keep your family in our prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessReplanted Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so sorry :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jane in NC Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. Yes, please do not fret about those things you did not do. You did so much. And now your kids need you so. May your family find peace. Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hmvaughan4 Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: I'm so sorry for you loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladydusk Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Buckin' Longhorn Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so very very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest inoubliable Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Simple words fail to convey how very sorry I am for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. :crying: It happened so fast. You must be in such a state of shock right now. PLEASE don't feel guilty. I didn't know Luke, but the way you have described him, he wouldn't have wanted you to feel guilty, and I'm sure he was very thankful that you were his wife and the mother of his beautiful children. I will keep praying for him, and for you and your children. :grouphug: This. Exactly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Word Nerd Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss and am sad that it happened so quickly. Please be kind to yourself as you grieve and deal with everything, and don't dwell on feelings of guilt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mabeline Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. Hugs and prayers for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kewb Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Do not beat yourself up with hindsight and revisionist history. You did what you thought was for the best at the time with the information you had. There is no guilt in that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorthwestMom Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Sending love and best wishes to you and your family. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayne J Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so very sorry. I will be keeping you and your children in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayT Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am very sorry. :grouphug: Praying for all of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Oh, sweet mama. I'm so sorry. Luke loved you and he would support every decision you've made, doing the very best you can in the moment. May God surround you with loving hands that will comfort and support you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
porque Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aoife Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry for your loss :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meriwether Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleIzumi Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 (((((((((HUGS)))))))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenL Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so incredibly sorry. My heart aches for you. Life will always present us with "what ifs", but you can only do what you know at the time, and you did SO very much, all that you could, for Luke. Hold onto the wonderful memories you have. My prayers are with you and your family. God bless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaffodilDreams Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Oh, my. My heart is breaking for you. There aren't words to express just how sorry I am. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassenach Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quiver0f10 Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orthodox6 Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Memory Eternal for your husband! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debbi in Texas Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynn Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 So very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trlt Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagle Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 I am so sorry. *hugs* My heartfelt condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celia Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Oh no, I am so sorry. Please don't be hard on yourself for the choices you made. Don't hang on to the guilt. I hope many arms are around you in this difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Nyssa Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 You had so many people to think of and take care of, and you were so tired. Please don't blame yourself for anything. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom in High Heels Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 My heart goes out to you and your children. Please don't feel guilty. He loved you and I'm sure he wouldn't want you to feel guilty. Try to remember him as the. Vibrant man you knew and not how he was at the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer in MI Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Oh honey. I am so sorry. I'm at a loss for words. You and your family will continue to be in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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