whitestavern Posted January 22, 2013 Share Posted January 22, 2013 I have a friend--an acquaintance really--whose husband was diagnosed w/liver cancer. It is not looking good, although they are going ahead with chemotherapy. My question is, what can I do to help? I have told her several times, "Please let me know if there is anything I can do", but I doubt she will actually take me up on my offer. I feel so helpless...there must be some way to help, right? The family is currently out of state and will be for some time (for the treatment) so there's nothing I can do close by. Any ideas? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted January 22, 2013 Share Posted January 22, 2013 Gift cards for local take away food places for them can be helpful. I know families who've gone through cancer treatment that really appreciated those. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiewindmomma Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 If they are out of state, but have a home locally, shoveling the walk, pulling weeds, checking on the house can be helpful. I agree that giftcards for meals are also helpful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*LC Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 I will second the suggestions you have received here. Also, I would suggest sending texts, e-mails, cards, letters to your friend. If she is out-of-state for her husband's treatment, she is probably very lonely for friend talk. No one is picking her up right now, especially if she is out-of-sight/out-of-mind for her friends/support. Just keep it light and supportive. Thanks for wanting to help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 I would ask someone who knows them better for advice on what this particular family needs. A "thinking of you" card never hurt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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