unsinkable Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 So, so sorry! (((Hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remudamom Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm so sorry. Praying for comfort for all of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I am so very, very sorry. :crying: How horrible of his wife not to have called at least one member of the family to ask them to inform the other relatives. Even if you weren't close, he was still your BROTHER! :( I agree. Horrible. Just horrible. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorthwestMom Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I am so sorry to hear this. Losing a sibling must be terrible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wildcat Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I am sorry for your loss. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I am so sorry, and also so sorry that you had to hear of it in this manner. My sister died similarly, in the middle of the night, at 42. It's a terrible shock. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
butterflymommy Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm so sorry. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jessicamcc Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm also sorry that you had to find out that way. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Mousie Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm so sorry, and so sorry you found out like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crimson Wife Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: My condolences to you and the rest of your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingChris Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I am very sorry. I hope you find out what the cause was since it could affect your health- if it was something like an unknown heart malady that may be hereditary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
texasmama Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm so very sorry for the loss of your brother. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thescrappyhomeschooler Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm so sorry. Distraught or not, she shouldn't have posted it like that. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laundrycrisis Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I am very sorry for your loss, and how you found out. :grouphug: I would think the FB post was just a huge brainfart brought on by shock and stress. Definitely not good judgement, but sometimes it's just hard to think even in good situations, and when something awful happens it all doesn't even seem real. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommaduck Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm sorry for your loss :grouphug: I actually scan the internet for family names regularly, because I know family will not contact me if my mother, certain brothers, grandmother, stepdad, etc pass away. On the other hand, if my husband passed away, I would not call his mother or brother about it. That would be asking for a mess of trouble out of this world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flowing Brook Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: I am sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy in FL. Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 My step sister left a message on my machine when she found my I'm dead. I think the shock makes you do things you might not with a clear mind I am very sorry for the loss of your brother. I've been there and it's tough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewe Mama Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalypso Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I am sorry for your loss and sadness during this difficult time. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsmom42 Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pod's mum Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm not mad at her. Shocked and sad would be a better description. In her position, I'd be curled up in a dark corner unable to function. A good friend found about the death of my dd via someone elses facebook. I thought she'd been told and couldn't make that call, I'd used my reserves. I also left a message on my aged Uncle's phone. I had prepared to tell him and then got message and just blurted. I then had to find cousins number and leave a message for him to please check on his father and reasons. We and friends were expecting ours but I still made mistakes. I did a fair bit of comforting others over my loss because I had delivered the news harshly as I could not do it any other way. Really sorry and thank you for your understanding towards his widow. I hope you have good support in your dark corner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaleidoscope Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm sorry for your loss and how you found out. That would be an awful way to hear the news. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in Neverland Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I am so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm so sorry. I would try to cut the widow some slack. I think I would pass word onto hubby's daughter's MIL that I would be mailing ashes, and then disconnect the phone. Really, I don't know if I'd be talking to ANYone for awhile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Rat Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 How horrible, Amana! Especially finding out that way. Ugh. My heart just hurts for you. Big hugs, Honey. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meriwether Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
********* Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm so very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Kate Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdalley Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elizabeth Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 How horrible to get such news in that manner. I am sorry for your loss and I hope you have some good memories of the past to carry you through. How very sad and hurt you must feel. I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garga Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 Aw. How sad. I'd imagine the widow was out of her mind with grief. I remember when a coworker found her husband dead and she called into work saying she wouldn't be in and kept screaming into the phone, "What do I do? I don't know what to do!" It was quite horrible. Think people go a little nuts when something like that happens. I'm sorry for you to have found out this way, but I would immediately extend grace to the widow and her social faux pas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DB in NJ Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 How awful!! I am so very, very sorry... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparrow Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KrissiK Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I am so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 hugs. you have my condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I am so sorry for your loss (and the difficult way that you received the news. Prayers. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Inna* Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiguirre Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 My condolences. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunnyDays Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss, and the delivery of the news. Perhaps the widow just couldn't make the right decisions in her grief, but it's still incredibly shocking for family to have to find out through FB or a voicemail... I would be flabbergasted. Wishing you peace and comfort. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest inoubliable Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 Just checking in to see how you're holding up, amana. Keeping you in my thoughts. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirch Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheryl Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 :grouphug: Oh my, I'm so sorry!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8circles Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 I'm so sorry. What a shock. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caroljenn Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 Oh no!! I'm so sorry! I've lost several members of my family- my prayers go out to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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