Alicia64 Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 Hi Everyone, My Lab is 13 in Dec. and we've tried so many tests and xrays and the vet still can't figure out what's causing my dog's downward spiral. I can't keep "trying" because it's killing me and ruining homeschooling -- and dh doesn't like giving pills to a dog who doesn't like getting pills. Plus my boys are probably tired of seeing me sad. Please remind me that the grief gets better. Right now I feel awful -- like I'll never feel good again. My dog is on Tramadol and I wish I could be on one too. For this who've used Tramadol -- it is helping him feel better, right? Alley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justLisa Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I'm sorry about your pup :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canadianmumof5 Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AimeeM Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 Yes, it's helping him feel better. I put down a beloved childhood pet a few months ago because my parents were moving and the dog was too old to go with (and he was in pain - several tumors and deaf). It was hard but it was right. Hold his paw and remind him that you love him. If your vet is anything like mine, they encourage you to hold him during and to take as much time as you need with him after. You have my prayers and thoughts. I know it's hard.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebarefootamazon Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzanne115 Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I am so sorry. It is so hard to lose a beloved pet. Suzanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so sorry for your loss. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen500 Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Live2Ride Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 Yes, it's helping him feel better.I put down a beloved childhood pet a few months ago because my parents were moving and the dog was too old to go with (and he was in pain - several tumors and deaf). It was hard but it was right. Hold his paw and remind him that you love him. If your vet is anything like mine, they encourage you to hold him during and to take as much time as you need with him after. You have my prayers and thoughts. I know it's hard.:grouphug: :iagree: Our vet even brought my big dane a pillow to lay her head on and a blanket because he said sometimes they get a little chill when given the sedatives. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kareng Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I am so sorry. It is so hard to lose a beloved pet. Suzanne :iagree:It DOES get better but you have to go through it to get there. And it takes however long it takes to get there. I will keep you and your family are in my prayers. Lots of :grouphug::grouphug: coming your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stacia Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gingersmom Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunnyDays Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I'm so sorry about your baby. :grouphug: Yes, it does get better, and yes the medicine is helping him. Remind yourself that he will not be in pain or discomfort anymore. It is *SO* sad for us, but I know it's the natural life cycle. Hugs to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
datgh Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Pet ownership is one of the most wonderful gifts in the world until we hit this stage in our pets lives. I always dread it but wouldn't trade the years with my furry friends for anything. It does get better with time but as one poster said you have to get there first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stratford Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elinor Everywhere Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry - I know how you feel. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shamzanne Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 Oh, I'm so, so sorry. We just had to make the same decision about two months ago. We still mourn for our beloved yellow lab but we know we made the right decision. It does get easier! I find that taking some time after the event to share favorite memories with other folks who love your dog is a good way to begin the process. I am saying a prayer for you and your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbeym Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so sorry. It's never easy to do and it hurts like heck for us, but it really does get easier at some time in the future. Grieve for your furbaby just as you would any other loved one. It does help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
celticmom Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blessed3x Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 Yes, it's helping him feel better.I put down a beloved childhood pet a few months ago because my parents were moving and the dog was too old to go with (and he was in pain - several tumors and deaf). It was hard but it was right. Hold his paw and remind him that you love him. If your vet is anything like mine, they encourage you to hold him during and to take as much time as you need with him after. You have my prayers and thoughts. I know it's hard.:grouphug: :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: We had to do this in January. I am still raw from it. As another suggested, have a blanket with you. They can get cold. I sat on the floor with the blanket next to me. My 15 year old Border Collie laid on the blanket with her head across my lap. I cried, spoke lovingly and pet her for hours. Take your time. My heart goes out to you. Even when it truly is best for them, it is hard..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonshineLearner Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 So sorry, for me it was better after... I knew that I had done what I could, and hopefully this makes you feel better.... I would have done it sooner, if I could have known.... (this was our cat that we had chosen as a kitten) Sorry again!! :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MommaOfalotta Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 So sorry :grouphug: And yes it does get better. You feel like it never will, but it does. Promise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ApronMama Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I'm so sorry. I had to put my precious kitty down a year ago and it was so hard. Time heals and memories really are a comfort. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparrow Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I'm so sorry :grouphug: :grouphug:. You'll feel better someday and it is good of you to relieve your beloved family member's suffering. There is no shame in that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shanvan Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug:I'm sorry. It's so hard. I haven't had to make that decision in a while, but I remember it being very tough. It helped me to keep busy during the day. Night time was the worst. I absolutely had to read or watch TV until I fell asleep for a while b/c I could not stop my thoughts. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimmermom3 Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I am so sorry. It is never easy, but it also what one does out of love for a good friend.:grouphug: I wish you and your family comfort and healing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I'm so sorry. We had to put our Maggie down in 2010 and our Chewy down in 2011. It's so hard :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I am so very sorry for your loss. The Tramadol absolutely helps. My dog is on it. Without it, he is barely able to walk up stairs or down the driveway. With it, he plays like a puppy. He has also taken it after surgery. It is a powerful painkiller. Helping our animals pass peacefully is the last responsibility of a loving owner. I know the grief is terrible, but it really will get better. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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