Patches Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mybluesky Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: So, so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blakereese Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: I am so, so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stayseeliz Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I am so so sorry, I had two miscarriages and I know they're so tough. I'd encourage you to wait on the birth control issue though. I remember thinking at the time that I could never be pregnant again because it was too hard. We've had two babies since then and I'm so glad I took the chance. It was totally worth it. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamajudy Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom2scouts Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm sorry. I've had multiple losses and it's always hard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jelbe5 Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momtoamiracle Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm so very sorry. I've lost four myself, going through it multiple times is very difficult.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pfamilygal Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm so sorry, honey. I've been there 5 times. It really and truly sucks. Even when it was a surprise blessing. Wish I could make the pain go away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trez Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm sorry! I agree with others that you may want to give it a little while to decide on the bc issue. My last pregnancy ended due to some horrible circumstances. Unfortunately, my husband had just had a vas. before I found out I was pregnant. Although at the time we were both very heartbroken and glad that it wouldn't happen again, there were many times after when we wished that we were able to have one more child. Take time and take care of yourself! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickenpatty Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happyWImom Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Was 11 weeks along on Friday and then ended up in ER last night with heavy bleeding and cramping....no heartbeat. Totally heartbroken. This was a total oopsy baby, we had not planned on anymore, and that was truly the last time I will ever be pregnant. I am going to look into permanent bc because I cannot ever go through this again (this is my second one) :crying::crying::crying: :grouphug::grouphug:I am so sorry for you loss. I can only imagine how you are feeling, because I would give anything to have more & am unable to. Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freeindeed Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry. Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FromA2Z Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 :grouphug:I'm sorry for your loss. I too miscarried twins this past week at 10 weeks. I was sent to the ER w/ bleeding and there was no heartbeat. I'll be praying that everything goes well physically and emotionally with you. I so wanted to have this last baby before turning 40... now I'm unsure what to do. Like you, I really don't want to go through this again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twilight Woods Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkle Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm sorry :angelsad2: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BakersDozen Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm so sorry. :( Loss sucks...totally, absolutely, completely sucks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newlifemom Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm so sorry. If you need anything feel free to pm me. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwickimom Posted October 14, 2012 Author Share Posted October 14, 2012 Thank you to all for the hugs and support. Its so sad to hear of so many having to go through this :crying: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraryLover Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simplyme99 Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 :grouphug: So, so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm so sorry.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsingscrapper Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Check pm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JenniferB Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Lord have mercy! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so sorry for your loss. Please don't do anything permanent until you've given yourself at least 6 months to grieve and to be certain you're doing the right thing. You should never make a permanent life decision when you're grieving; you want to be 100% certain you won't regret it later. Again, I am so sorry. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melmichigan Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug: I'm sorry. I would wait awhile before you make any permanent decision. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommymilkies Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I'm so, so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlbuchina Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jpoy85 Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeneralMom Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I am so sorry you have to go through this. It is truly heartbreaking. You are in my thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funschooler5 Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 I have been thinking about you today and I'm wondering how you're holding up. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted October 15, 2012 Share Posted October 15, 2012 :grouphug:I'm sorry for your loss. I too miscarried twins this past week at 10 weeks. I was sent to the ER w/ bleeding and there was no heartbeat. I'll be praying that everything goes well physically and emotionally with you. I so wanted to have this last baby before turning 40... now I'm unsure what to do. Like you, I really don't want to go through this again. Was 11 weeks along on Friday and then ended up in ER last night with heavy bleeding and cramping....no heartbeat. Totally heartbroken. This was a total oopsy baby, we had not planned on anymore, and that was truly the last time I will ever be pregnant. I am going to look into permanent bc because I cannot ever go through this again (this is my second one) :crying::crying::crying: I am so so incredibly sorry for you both. Having just had my third loss last month and being 39 years old I know how horrible this feels- though mine were a bit earlier. Ugh, how heartbreaking. I just feel terrible for you and anyone going through this, especially multiple times. Please don't make a decision to go ahead with permanent bc though- not during a time of grief- you may come to regret that and I would hate for that to happen to you! Just wait it out- I know it's hard- we are here for you!!! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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