hsingscrapper Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 I've been up since 4:30ish. I'm on my second or third cup of coffee trying to ditch a headache. I got to thinking about everyone having more babies and started to cry. I have 3 awesome boys and have lost 3 in the first trimester. I had a total histerectomy almost a year ago. The doc told me after surgery that said surgery saved my life. Has anybody else been here? I need to know I'm not alone and not going crazy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thescrappyhomeschooler Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela H in Texas Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 I think it is normal to grieve our fertility. I also think that sometimes that grief is delayed. It has hit me more recently that there is NO hope of a pregnancy (though the hope was pretty slim before the hysterectomy 7months ago). Additionally though, I think sometimes we know what we want and sometimes have a more emotional reaction to it. Maybe y'all are supposed to get a baby another way? For years I wanted more children. And now I finally have them. It may not be how you are supposed to do it (if you even are), but it may be a longing to explore further. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 :grouphug: It is hard for me to let go of certain seasons of my life, and the rhythms that accompany them. I understand. Keep focused on the life you have, or it will slip away. I don't want to wake up one morning and find I spent so much time pining for what I cannot have that I didn't fully embrace what I do have. :grouphug: Don't let grief over what you cannot control steal your joy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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