Ruby Rose Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 If you were approved for a breast reduction through your insurance and someone offered to pay for you to get a tummy tuck at the same time because they think you will be happier with the results if you get them done together, would you do them both? This person knows full well you may never pay them back and if you do it will be a long process. When you asked them why they would do this they said, because you would do it for me if you could. WWYD? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonshineLearner Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 YUP!! :) I'd be happy to get rid of tummy fat :) I'm pretty sure the cost won't be too much more... ($1500??) and I'd pay them back by auto pay... even if it's just $10 a month or something... Just have it credited to their acct automatically if possible (no work for them) or by check sent to their house :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kitten18 Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 Yes, I would. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 If it's something you really want to do, and the person is offering it to you as a gift with no expectation of repayment, I think you should go for it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abigail4476 Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 My $.02 It would depend on who it was--I might accept it from a parent or my husband, but probably no one else. Borrowing money from friends or family is generally a bad idea, IMO. Initial understandings can easily turn into misunderstandings later. I would appreciate the gesture (and express that) but proceed on my own. I prefer to pay for everything myself, so that would figure into my response. Why don't you save your money and have both surgeries when you can pay for the tummy tuck yourself? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
celticmom Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 Another thing to take into account is recovery. I knew someone who had breast augmentation and a tummy tuck done at the same time and the recovery was pretty brutal. She said the pain from the tummy tuck was alot worse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruby Rose Posted September 29, 2012 Author Share Posted September 29, 2012 (edited) It's more like $6000. I doubt I'll ever have an extra 6k to do it. The offer comes from my mother who can afford it. I never asked, she just offered. We are very close. ETA i need the reduction yesterday. I'm having a lot of problems because of them. Edited September 29, 2012 by Ruby Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 *shoves OP out of the way* ME! PAY FOR ME! I'll trade you a kid! Oh. Um. Errr. *clears throat, straightens hair and clothing from knocking Ruby Sue down* I mean, I'd say, "Yes please! Tyvm!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruby Rose Posted September 29, 2012 Author Share Posted September 29, 2012 I am concerned about the recovery! As is my husband. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 *shoves OP out of the way*ME! PAY FOR ME! I'll trade you a kid! Oh. Um. Errr. *clears throat, straightens hair and clothing from knocking Ruby Sue down* I mean, I'd say, "Yes please! Tyvm!" :iagree:with the "Yes, please! Thankyouverymuch." I may even add, "Is there a way to get a mini-lift while I'm out cold?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommymilkies Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 No. The tuck is crazy extensive and scares me to death. I'd be happy for them to perk up the puppies, though. :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyCrazyMama Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 I'd be really tempted but I've always had a pooch and of course always hated it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amo_mea_filiis. Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 *shoves OP out of the way*ME! PAY FOR ME! I'll trade you a kid! Oh. Um. Errr. *clears throat, straightens hair and clothing from knocking Ruby Sue down* I mean, I'd say, "Yes please! Tyvm!" :iagree: :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redsquirrel Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 I have a friend who did both at the same time. She could afford it no matter what, but decided to do it together because it was cheaper. You pay for the anesthesia and the doctor and the hospital once if you do them together. Her recovery did not look like fun, but since she is a doctor she knew what she was getting into. Just make sure you have good help for the first couple weeks. And I would do them together. And I would go for it, if my mom offered and she could afford it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 Since the funds are from your own mother, I d feel better taking it as a gift or even trying to repay slowly. I would talk to people who had both surgeries done. Recovery time, what you can and cannot do immediately after, time frame for certain things, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarlaS Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 I am concerned about the recovery! As is my husband. What does the plastic surgeon say? Is it common for people to do these together? Also, is your family complete? I wouldn't do it if I were figuring on getting pregnant again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TranquilMind Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 Another thing to take into account is recovery. I knew someone who had breast augmentation and a tummy tuck done at the same time and the recovery was pretty brutal. She said the pain from the tummy tuck was alot worse. This. That's a lot to recover from. Unless it were critically important and affecting my health, I'd probably pass. And, of course, unless it is an outright gift and not a loan, I'd definitely pass. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unicorn. Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 What does the plastic surgeon say? Is it common for people to do these together? Also, is your family complete? I wouldn't do it if I were figuring on getting pregnant again. :iagree: I'd also want to know about recovery time, and factor in what kind of, and how much, help you would get during recovery. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renee in NC Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 YES! I would say thank you and enjoy it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anne in CA Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 Honestly, I would do it expecting the recovery time to be murder, but worth it. Many things are hard but worth it. Especially if the money is coming from your mother who wants to make you happy. I think it is really sweet of your mom to even think of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 In a heartbeat.:D And I would milk every stinkin' minute of the recovery...:D:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTaelon Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 It's more like $6000. I doubt I'll ever have an extra 6k to do it. The offer comes from my mother who can afford it. I never asked, she just offered. We are very close. ETA i need the reduction yesterday. I'm having a lot of problems because of them. Can I have your mother? I say go for it! I'd LOVE to lose some belly fat! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coffeetime Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 *shoves OP out of the way*ME! PAY FOR ME! I'll trade you a kid! Oh. Um. Errr. *clears throat, straightens hair and clothing from knocking Ruby Sue down* I mean, I'd say, "Yes please! Tyvm!" :iagree::iagree::lol::lol: It's on my "I'm absolutely going to do this as soon as we can afford it" list. I can't wait. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlktwins Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 I'D DO IT IN A HEARTBEAT! I have 2 friends -- one did a tummy tuck (after triplets) and breast implants at the same time. She was early 30's at the time and had an awesome recovery. Her mom was there to help the first 2 weeks though. The other friend did a tummy tuck (after twins) and a breast reduction at the same time. She was in her mid-30's. The first week was rough, but not too bad after that. For the tummy tuck, I've heard the pain (I'm imaging the pain after my c-section) and the drains are the worst of it. I am in the process of losing a few pounds (about 20) to think about getting my umbilical hernia repaired and a tummy tuck at the same time (a result of carrying almost 14 pounds of twins full term). I am nervous about the risk of any type of surgery, but will likely have this done in the next few years (I am currently 45). I have thought about a breast lift at the same time. We will see. I would do it if I were you. That is super sweet of your mom! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammi K Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 WWYD? Take advantage of the wonderful offer! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renthead Mommy Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 Definately do both at the same time. Recovery is from either is sucky. Do it all at one time, one sucky week instead of two seperate ones. And face it, after the first recovery week, it will make you dread a second time even more. Better living through chemistry for a week and move on. I would not want to do the it all two different times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkInTheBlue Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 Yes, recovery from both is pretty rough for the first week but best to recover from one surgery once than 2 surgeries twice. (Of course) I know several people who chose to go ahead and do them at the same time for that reason. If you want it, can do it, and will have lots of help for a while, I'd definitely consider it if I needed it. :) Good luck in your decisions! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firestar Academy Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 I've had a tummy tuck. I would be happy to share my before photos, if you pm me your email address. i don't really have after photos. seriously, go for it. I have never regretted it for a second. yes, the recovery is tough. it will be with the reduction, too. you will get sent home with meds. good meds. really good meds. I had a pain pump that went into my chest and down to the tummy tuck area. plus oral meds. it was a good two weeks of pain. my mother came to stay. I had a 3 year old at the time. that makes a person put on a brave face. Robin in NJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie Smith Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 Unnecessary surgery, (Assuming the tummy tuck is for looks, not a physical problem), no thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carrie12345 Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 From my mom? Heck yeah! I don't handle anesthesia or pain meds well, so if I needed one procedure and could get a second done while only going under once, you betcha. Recovery sounds awful, but it does end. Unlike tummy flab, which is probably permanent for me! :tongue_smilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 In a heartbeat.:DAnd I would milk every stinkin' minute of the recovery...:D:D :iagree: How can you say no to your dear mother!? ;) Seriously though, research the recovery and make sure you're comfortable with it. I've had 2 c-sections and I'd be totally game (if it was coming w/a needed reduction at least). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommy22alyns Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 HECK YES!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LG Gone Wild Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 I vote no on the tummy tuck. That seems like scary surgery to me and it is just for vanity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldberry Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 Ummm....let me think....heck yeah!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommaduck Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 *shoves OP out of the way*ME! PAY FOR ME! I'll trade you a kid! Oh. Um. Errr. *clears throat, straightens hair and clothing from knocking Ruby Sue down* I mean, I'd say, "Yes please! Tyvm!" :lol: I'm right next to you! Skip the boob job and just give me the tummy tuck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 Yep! If I was already going under....I would do it all! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 :iagree:with the "Yes, please! Thankyouverymuch." I may even add, "Is there a way to get a mini-lift while I'm out cold?" :lol::lol::lol: And :iagree: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Rat Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 In a New York minute. Although, keep in mind that you may not be able to due both surgeries at the same time. My mom had to have them done separately. Lucky girl! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 In a heartbeat! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruby Rose Posted September 30, 2012 Author Share Posted September 30, 2012 Thank you all for your feedback, compliments, and envy. :lol: The PS has already told me I could do both at the same time. I had just kinda talked myself out of it because of $$$ and lack of help. BUT, I think I've just about talked myself back into it. I think I can get the help I need lined up for a couple of weeks. I'm nervous, but after looking at tons of before and afters I think I really would be unhappy with the results if I only did one. I'm going to call the dr Monday and ask some more questions and see if I can tack it on to my already scheduled surgery date. Wish me luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GWOB Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 You know all those people who just said "Heck Yes?" This girl right here would be using her newly-acquired Karate moves to get them out of the way to first in line for that procedure! My, ahem, ladies have always been on the "cup runneth over" side. I have the bra indentions and back pain to prove it. My stomach is an absolute train wreck after 3 kids. I wear a size 4 and have some serious hanging skin issues. I would KILL to have the option to put everything back where it used to be! These aren't tiger stripes on my belly/ladies. They are stretch marks from he!!. I have repeatedly told my dh that it would be much cheaper to send me in for a "tune up" than it would be to mess around with a no-baby-having floozy.:iagree: I think I look decent right now, but I know I would feel so much better about myself if I could just fix up the damage. I spent 27 months carrying my little people. I could deal with the 2 week of pain erasing the damage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommaduck Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 You know all those people who just said "Heck Yes?" This girl right here would be using her newly-acquired Karate moves to get them out of the way to first in line for that procedure! My, ahem, ladies have always been on the "cup runneth over" side. I have the bra indentions and back pain to prove it. My stomach is an absolute train wreck after 3 kids. I wear a size 4 and have some serious hanging skin issues. I would KILL to have the option to put everything back where it used to be! These aren't tiger stripes on my belly/ladies. They are stretch marks from he!!. I have repeatedly told my dh that it would be much cheaper to send me in for a "tune up" than it would be to mess around with a no-baby-having floozy.:iagree: I think I look decent right now, but I know I would feel so much better about myself if I could just fix up the damage. I spent 27 months carrying my little people. I could deal with the 2 week of pain erasing the damage. Okay, now picture the belly of someone that has had eleven pregnancies and eight kiddos that made it to term! I have both my belly and the insides that all need to be put back together properly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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