Donna Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: So sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lmrich Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Elf Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Oh Nance, I'm so, so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickenpatty Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug:I am so sorry. It seems like such a long, agonizing time. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlebug42 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I am so sorry. When I had my first miscarriage, I did have a D&C and honestly, it helped me tremendously. For me, knowing that the baby had died and was still in my body really wreaked havoc on my brain. I am just so, so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amo_mea_filiis. Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Nance, I just want to say thank you for allowing us to share in your pregnancy. I'm so sorry you have to go thru such a hard thing, and for your loss--I can't imagine. Pls continue to let us know how things go. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlmiraGulch Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JenC3 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Oh Nance last year when I mc'd it took 5 days from the time I started spotting. I passed ALL of the placenta and blood before the baby. We did bury so retrieval is possible. So so sorry:(:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blessed3x Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 There are no words.... :crying: Just :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie G Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momof3littles Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 It is so sad to think of any woman going through this. :grouphug: You are in my thoughts, and I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug:Nance:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :angelsad2::grouphug::angelsad2: Prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelenNotOfTroy Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thescrappyhomeschooler Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sad for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I'm so so sorry. :( :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GailV Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuirkyKapers Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug:Nance, I am so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashfern Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm in a similar position to you right now & the waiting stinks. I'm thinking of calling my OB and scheduling a D&C to just take care of this and have it be over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowbeltmom Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I am so sorry. When I had my first miscarriage, I did have a D&C and honestly, it helped me tremendously. For me, knowing that the baby had died and was still in my body really wreaked havoc on my brain. I am just so, so sorry for your loss. This is exactly how I felt as well. :grouphug: So sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Marple Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: So sorry you're going through this. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 So incredibly sorry, Nance :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momofkhm Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dinsfamily Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I'm so sorry, Nance. :grouphug: You've been through so much... I am so sorry. When I had my first miscarriage, I did have a D&C and honestly, it helped me tremendously. For me, knowing that the baby had died and was still in my body really wreaked havoc on my brain. I am just so, so sorry for your loss. This was my experience also. I've had 2 D&C's. Physically, they were the right thing for me. Recovery was quick. The biggest thing for me, emotionally, was having peace that the baby had passed. My doctors were very sensitive to my needs concerning confirmation and timing. Nothing can take away the grief and heartache, though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenL Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I wish I had words for you to take away all the pain, but they do not exist. I am praying for you, Nance. My heart breaks for you. I am so, so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blakereese Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Oh Nance, I am so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug: I know how you feel, it is horrible. And the waiting...oh, it is the worst. I am so sorry you are going through this. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DusksAngel Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TN Mama Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justLisa Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k2bdeutmeyer Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Sigh....I wish there was something I could say. I'm just so sad for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommymilkies Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I am so, so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I'm so sorry.:grouphug::grouphug: I've been there and finally had a D&C and the chromosomal and immune testing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim in Appalachia Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. I can only imagine how difficult and painful this is for you. I wish I could do more than a cyber hug. But :grouphug: Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mereminerals Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LucyStoner Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm in a similar position to you right now & the waiting stinks. I'm thinking of calling my OB and scheduling a D&C to just take care of this and have it be over. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LucyStoner Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Misoprostol is an option for those wanting to get the waiting over but not have a D&C. That is what I did for one of my miscarriages and I vastly preferred that to the D&C I had previously had for a missed miscarriage. It was comforting to be at home with my husband and not at the hospital but it was nice to know it would be happening that day. I am very, very sorry for your loss. It's such a hard thing to go though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twilight Woods Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Truscifi Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southcarolinamom Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: I'm so very sorry. Been there, done that 5 times. And it never gets easier. We feel honored that you are sharing this very personal part of your life with us. Wish we could do more than pray, and send you cyber hugs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I talk to the trees Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 No words, just many :grouphug:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kfeusse Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I did the D & C thing 3 times myself...couldn't stand knowing my dear baby who was dead, was still inside of me....I needed to get on with my life...and that was the only way I could do it. Hope you find out something from your doctor today. Sorry that you are going through this....it truly is HORRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunnyDays Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Nance, we are all thinking of you and I'm so sorry you're going through this. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisB Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::angelsad2::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DianeW88 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Go for the D&C. Much easier, fast procedure, and no recovery time. I've had three, and I wouldn't hesitate to have another if I needed it. Sorry you're going through this again. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: My heart is breaking for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stacia Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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