KungFuPanda Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Thanks to the Internet, I now know that there is such a thing as domestic discipline. Has anyone else ever heard of this? Am I the last to know, or is this really as obscure a concept as I hope it is. I don't get it. I'm not talking about kinky role-playing stuff. I think these people are serious. :scared: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I know about it. I wish I didn't. I try not to think about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I know about the kinky role playng stuff but I've got no clue what you're talking about. :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meggie Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Is a spouse who has to "punish" (not a kinky sexual way) their spouse for some kind of wrongdoing? Oh. My. Word. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Truscifi Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 :001_huh: Never heard of it. It sounds scary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Never heard of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joker Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Oh my goodness, I googled. It's got to be a joke, right? That's just not right! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caitilin Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 :ack2: :ack2: :ack2: I never heard of such an obscene practice. This is the Pearls for women???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Is a spouse who has to "punish" (not a kinky sexual way) their spouse for some kind of wrongdoing? Oh. My. Word. What the heck is the fun in that without the kinky role playing stuff??? :confused::D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meggie Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I know about the kinky role playng stuff but I've got no clue what you're talking about. :lol: What the heck is the fun in that without the kinky role playing stuff??? :confused::D It's a good thing I'm not drinking any water; I keep snorting! :tongue_smilie: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joanne Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Yes, heard of it years ago while researching discipline theory and child rearing. Never could figure out if it was a farce. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alte Veste Academy Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I don't know whether to laugh or cry. On the bright side, I do know better than to let DH ever get wind of this. There would be no end to the randy jokes. :lol: And then I might have to punish him. :tongue_smilie: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clarkacademy Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 WOW Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KungFuPanda Posted July 12, 2012 Author Share Posted July 12, 2012 Apparently it's consensual and the women feel it keeps them accountable and relieves stress. Yes. I will read ANYTHING. Send me the bill for the brain bleach if this thread has corrupted you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I knew a couple ten years ago who were into "punishing" each other if they didn't get things done around the house. I never knew how much if it was real or not but something told me they had a goodie CLOSET, not drawer. But that was definitely kinky fun for them. I'm scared to google what you all are looking at. :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Truscifi Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 So I googled, and rather wish I hadn't. It sounds like a "Christian" version of sadomasochism. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs.Gregg Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 From the brief and very brief google reading I just did... how is this not rated as domestic violence. :001_huh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alte Veste Academy Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 From the brief and very brief google reading I just did... how is this not rated as domestic violence. :001_huh: From my very brief reading of the first blog I stumbled upon, I think it's probably not considered domestic violence because it actually falls under the heading of sadomasochism. They can deny it but... I find it rather ironic that the blog entry I read, written by a Christian woman describing her spanking, would be considered p@rnographic by many. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 From my very brief reading of the first blog I stumbled upon, I think it's probably not considered domestic violence because it actually falls under the heading of sadomasochism. They can deny it but... I find it rather ironic that the blog entry I read, written by a Christian woman describing her spanking, would be considered p@rnographic by many. I'm sorry but that's PORN. There's no way in heck you cannot tell me her weird hubby isn't getting his rocks off on that. It's like 50 Shades for the middle class... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Apparently it's consensual and the women feel it keeps them accountable and relieves stress. Yes. I will read ANYTHING. Send me the bill for the brain bleach if this thread has corrupted you. that'll be $300 please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 that'll be $300 please. At LEAST! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KungFuPanda Posted July 12, 2012 Author Share Posted July 12, 2012 From the brief and very brief google reading I just did... how is this not rated as domestic violence. :001_huh: I just assumed it WAS illegal and people were flying under the radar . . .if it's really real. I'm still not willing to bet my life on it and I'm afraid to follow any of the bunny holes that require me to acknowledge my age before going further. I'm afraid they'll have pictures and i already cant afford my bleach bill. I figured you guys would know :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alte Veste Academy Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I'm sorry but that's PORN. There's no way in heck you cannot tell me her weird hubby isn't getting his rocks off on that. It's like 50 Shades for the middle class... **sputter**sputter**cough** No, that would be the second blog link I clicked. :lol: I wouldn't know about the 50 Shades allusion though. I'm a good girl, I am. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teamturner Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 That's awful! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justLisa Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I am never opening this thread again *lalalalalalal lalalalalalalaaaa* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 **sputter**sputter**cough** No, that would be the second blog link I clicked. :lol: I wouldn't know about the 50 Shades allusion though. I'm a good girl, I am. ;) Well I hope I didn't despoil you little girl, with my harrowing reference to that fine, academic work. Perhaps I should go ask my DH for a spanking?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KungFuPanda Posted July 12, 2012 Author Share Posted July 12, 2012 Well I hope I didn't despoil you little girl, with my harrowing reference to that fine, academic work. Perhaps I should go ask my DH for a spanking?? It's the only way you'll learn.:seeya: (I just ruined that smiley forever) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 It's the only way you'll learn.:seeya: (I just ruined that smiley forever) Yeah, you pretty much did!!! :lol::lol: (And DH just told me to be quiet because my laughing is keeping him up. You almost got me spanked!!!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alte Veste Academy Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 :lol: DH just finished reading stories to DS6. I should really hit the hay. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dory Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Unfortunately it's real. There are actually women out there who are willing to be in a relationship like this. The only women I've known that have talked about it, are also women with poor self esteem. I also noticed with them that their hubbies were super controlling and didn't like them going out an about to socialize much. I don't know if that's the norm with everyone like that, or if it was just them though. Stuff like that makes me cringe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 In all seriousness, if 2 consenting adults want to play hanky spanky, then whatever. As long as it's not in the midst of a dinner party. (Where they probably serve Kraft dinner and cranberry sauce) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bang!Zoom! Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Hey I've read Anne Rice and I don't even know what it is. I need to preserve what's left of my brain. No googling for me. Nope. Don't wanna know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MollyAnn Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 (edited) Just googled it. Read way to much. I don't care what they call it, it is mental and physical spousal abuse!!! Talking about spanking, prolonged adolescence of girls (and only girls), failed attempt at equality. Nonconcentual consent, so in the middle of an arguement a woman can't say no to the punishment her husband decides to give her. It's disgusting!!! An attempt to put women at the same level as children. Where is that brain bleach???!!!!! Edited July 12, 2012 by MollyAnn Just wanted to say that I don't think children should be treated like that all! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimm Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 :001_huh: I had no idea! It honestly sounds like a domination game all whitewashed to be Christian-y by people who want to play those games but don't feel comfortable doing so without it being approved by God (in their minds anyway). The Hive has the most interesting threads... ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I.Dup. Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 WhaaaaaaaaT? man I am getting more and more cynical by the day. :tongue_smilie::001_huh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KidsHappen Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Thanks to the Internet, I now know that there is such a thing as domestic discipline. Has anyone else ever heard of this? Am I the last to know, or is this really as obscure a concept as I hope it is. I don't get it. I'm not talking about kinky role-playing stuff. I think these people are serious. :scared: I posted about this about five years ago now, before we changed to the new format. It is one of the few things I learned on the internet that I really wish I hadn't. I haven't read about it again since then but it still really bothers me whenever I think about it which I try not to do too often. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucy in Australia Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Oh dear. Don't Google it (like I did) if you don't know what it is :blink::eek::ack2::ack2: I seriously had no idea "ideas" like this even existed. And this sentence on one of the sites really disturbed me : "This act also gives you, the husband, a release of anger...." :mad: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theYoungerMrsWarde Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Soooo not going to Google it. :glare: I've learned enough from just the comments on here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kitten18 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 :001_huh: I had no idea! It honestly sounds like a domination game all whitewashed to be Christian-y by people who want to play those games but don't feel comfortable doing so without it being approved by God (in their minds anyway). The Hive has the most interesting threads... ;) I completely agree. I don't believe for one second that it's not erotic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I'm not surprised that it happens, either as a turn-on or as a way to control women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdventureMoms Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I've known it exists for quite awhile. I think that in most cases it is a way for people to find biblical justification for their erotic role playing. I have no problem with erotic role playing. However, I'm sure in some cases it isn't, and that is really upsetting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoot Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Oh. My. Gosh. I've never heard of it and I'm not going to google it but, just reading about it here is enough to make me hurl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I've never heard of it and so not going to google. I punish my dh by answering "nothing" when he asks me what is wrong, then I cook his dinner, badly. Wait, maybe that's the reverse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaxMom Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I've never heard of it and so not going to google. I punish my dh by answering "nothing" when he asks me what is wrong, then I cook his dinner, badly. Wait, maybe that's the reverse. Yes, you've got that wrong. Because, you know, you're a woman and, thus, given to wrong thought in your misguided quest for earthly security, which can only be legitimately found in the absolute trust of (and that means, of course, total domination by) your husband. I know this because I googled. Otherwise, I would just be another ignorant, wrong-thinking woman giving other ignorant, wrong-thinking women my thoughts which, of course, just gets us deeper into our folly and makes it more difficult for our husbands to spank the trust into us. I think this has put me off my coffee. I wonder if that will offset the brain bleach costs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Yes, you've got that wrong. Because, you know, you're a woman and, thus, given to wrong thought in your misguided quest for earthly security, which can only be legitimately found in the absolute trust of (and that means, of course, total domination by) your husband. I know this because I googled. Otherwise, I would just be another ignorant, wrong-thinking woman giving other ignorant, wrong-thinking women my thoughts which, of course, just gets us deeper into our folly and makes it more difficult for our husbands to spank the trust into us. I think this has put me off my coffee. I wonder if that will offset the brain bleach costs. I think I will stay ignorant. :ack2: I thought Total Domination was a wrestling match, I want to leave it that way. If you (rhetorical) and your spouse want to role play, have at it, just don't twist it into something its not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 From the brief and very brief google reading I just did... how is this not rated as domestic violence. :001_huh: Because it is consensual. The parties involved want to both give and get. It is part of their 4pl@y. No consent is given in a DV situation. DV is a means of control and is abusive. It isn't fun and games. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Unfortunately it's real. There are actually women out there who are willing to be in a relationship like this. The only women I've known that have talked about it, are also women with poor self esteem. I also noticed with them that their hubbies were super controlling and didn't like them going out an about to socialize much. I don't know if that's the norm with everyone like that, or if it was just them though. Stuff like that makes me cringe. This sounds more like a DV situation than a DD one. Women involved in DD like, want and ask for their "spanking." They may do things on purpose so they can be gladly punished. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amydavis Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Oh.MY.Goodness.... The things I learn from the hive... I had no idea... Why did I google?!?!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AimeeM Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 It is serious. But hey, these are consenting adults. I have much less a problem with a consenting adult being spanked than an unwilling small child :D. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AimeeM Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Because it is consensual. The parties involved want to both give and get. It is part of their 4pl@y. No consent is given in a DV situation. DV is a means of control and is abusive. It isn't fun and games. This isn't fun and games actually and it isn't forepl@y; it is discipline and punishment handed down for a transgression (but yes, it is consensual in that the woman agrees to this beforehand). At least, this is true for CDD (Christian Domestic Discipline). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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