meggie Posted June 18, 2012 Share Posted June 18, 2012 I haven't spoken to my father since the day Digby was born, so three years. I didn't even want to talk to him then, but he was giving my mother grief, so I accepted the phone. :glare: He is so completely narcissistic (not sure if he qualifies for NPD, but he's a narcissist regardless). I've known my entire life growing up that he has only two loves in his life: himself and his money. Anyway, their divorce was finalized two and a half years ago. Ever since then, he sends me birthday cards and Christmas cards. They always make me cry. Always pretends like there's nothing wrong, doesn't acknowledge the fact that I don't want to talk to him, pretends like we're buddy-buddy. He never gave a d*mn about birthdays or Christmas when I was growing up; why does he keep trying now? He was always the world's biggest jerk; why is he pretending he's such a good father? Anyway, my mom had to see him recently. She found out that he's remarried. It doesn't really affect me any, I have no intention of ever talking with him again, so obviously I wouldn't have to ever see his new wife. So why do I feel like I just got punched in the gut? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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