Patches Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeidiKC Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KrissiK Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug:I'm so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 You have my deepest condolences. (I sent you a PM) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GailV Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 I'm sorry you have suffered such a tragic loss. I hope your family and your sil and kids can somehow find peace and healing.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
athomemom Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparrow Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: Peace to all of your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy1k Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 I'm so sorry. I'm also a surviver of sibling suicide, it's very difficult to deal with. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dayle in Guatemala Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug:I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and his family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry that you are going through this and that you lost your brother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dsmith Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: Prayers for all of you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scrappyhappymama Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 I'm so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: I'm glad to hear there was a good turnout to his memorial. I imagine that must have been of some comfort to you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nakia Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emeraldjoy Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 there are no words.....:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvnlattes Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 I am so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LG Gone Wild Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 That's so rough. I am sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 I'm sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hadassah Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: Hugs all around. I am praying for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickenpatty Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SailorMom Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: A close family member has attempted suicide three times - was almost successful once. She is Bi-Polar, and every time we don't hear from her for a few days we all worry... someday she might succeed. Hang in there. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KS_ Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: today was my brothers memorial service. He killed himself in early November by jumping off a bridge. We had the memorial for him today, even though they have yet to find his body. So many people showed up. He was very loved and will be missed greatly. Please pray that this brings a little closure to my SIL and his dc. Very hard to get through the day. Hug your loved ones and let them know what they mean to you before its too late. My brother and I have had some good talks over the last couple of years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teresa in MO Posted January 15, 2012 Author Share Posted January 15, 2012 thanks everyone for your thoughts and wishes. I am really struggling today. Yesterday's service was supposed to bring closure for everyone. I think it has for my SIL and family. For me, today is the worse day since this happened. Up until now it has seemed so unreal to me. My brother truly was a very emotionally stable person. Absolutely the last person you would ever imagine doing this. I think I have spent the last two months just stunned and it has just been unreal to me. Seeing all the pictures, seeing his mountain bike he used to race and compete with, hearing all the testimonies from those close to him just made everything final for me. So today, I am not good. I do appreciate all of your prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom26 Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 So very sorry:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbkaren Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 What a devastating loss for you and your family; praying for all of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug:I'm so sorry for your loss.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheryl Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 today was my brothers memorial service. He killed himself in early November by jumping off a bridge. We had the memorial for him today, even though they have yet to find his body. So many people showed up. He was very loved and will be missed greatly. Please pray that this brings a little closure to my SIL and his dc. Very hard to get through the day. Hug your loved ones and let them know what they mean to you before its too late. My brother and I have had some good talks over the last couple of years. :grouphug: So very sorry....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 I am so very sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraryLover Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 How tragic. I'm so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 Teresa, I'm am very sorry! I think *closure* feels so final sometimes that it makes the pain more intense for a while. Like it's really REAL now, where before it wasn't quite settled. I hope that makes a little sense. I pray that the Holy Spirit will be your comforter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 Many hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teresa in MO Posted January 15, 2012 Author Share Posted January 15, 2012 Teresa, I'm am very sorry! I think *closure* feels so final sometimes that it makes the pain more intense for a while. Like it's really REAL now, where before it wasn't quite settled. I hope that makes a little sense. I pray that the Holy Spirit will be your comforter. yes, I think this makes sense. The pain is definitely more intense, hopefully for just a while. It does feel more final. I'm not sure what will I'll feel if they ever find his body. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 yes, I think this makes sense. The pain is definitely more intense, hopefully for just a while. It does feel more final. I'm not sure what will I'll feel if they ever find his body. Yes, it'll just be for a while. Each day is one day closer to looking back with bittersweet memories instead of enduring such biting pain. I imagine there would be some relief to knowing his body was found, but also a renewal of the sadness. I'm thinking of how I would feel in your shoes, and I'm just so sorry you're having to go through this. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TranquilMind Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 today was my brothers memorial service. He killed himself in early November by jumping off a bridge. We had the memorial for him today, even though they have yet to find his body. So many people showed up. He was very loved and will be missed greatly. Please pray that this brings a little closure to my SIL and his dc. Very hard to get through the day. Hug your loved ones and let them know what they mean to you before its too late. My brother and I have had some good talks over the last couple of years. I'm sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kristinannie Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so sorry. Suicide is such a horrible death for families to cope with, especially since you haven't found the body. I pray that God blesses your family during this very difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lovedtodeath Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 Our family has had a suicide to mourn as well. Praying for everyone affected by his death. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovemykids Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 I am so sorry for your loss as well. I hope you find consolation from your loved ones and your faith. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry. I hope this helps being some peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Teresa, I'm praying for all of you. I'm so, so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura in MI Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss, and I'm praying for everyone affected. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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