swellmomma Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 (edited) . Edited January 7, 2012 by swellmomma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excelsior! Academy Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 Keep a calendar and document everything. Until it is needed, if it is ever needed vent all you need. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hen Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 I am so sorry. Major cyber hugs. He sounds awful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 :grouphug: sorry mama. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashfern Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwickimom Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 I dont think its vindictive to call the cops if he violates the custody order by taking them out of the city. He knows the rules, he breaks them then he gets in trouble. You do whatever you have to do to protect your children. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvnlattes Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 No advice, just :grouphug: :grouphug: . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
houseofkids&pets Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 :iagree: Definitely keep a log and document everything. How awful! The water thing, that was absolutely abusive...and just plain sick! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 I dont think its vindictive to call the cops if he violates the custody order by taking them out of the city. He knows the rules, he breaks them then he gets in trouble. You do whatever you have to do to protect your children. :grouphug: :iagree::iagree: That's not "vindictive" in my book. That's protecting your children from a really odd abuser. Your son is in 7th GRADE and your ex is trying to control his urine? That's mentally... "odd" at the very least. These are not people I would allow to see my children and if they violated the court order, H E double hockeysticks would I use the court order to put an end to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 Take this post down before anyone from his family sees it! You can't vent in public about something like this. Take it to a PM group. I'm sympathetic, but this is a bad idea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unicorn. Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 I dont think its vindictive to call the cops if he violates the custody order by taking them out of the city. He knows the rules, he breaks them then he gets in trouble. You do whatever you have to do to protect your children. :grouphug: :iagree::iagree::iagree::iagree::iagree::iagree: :iagree: And Document, document, document. I would also be having a long talk w/ ds about how dad isn't doing him any favors by feeding him junk that he can't have. Point out to ds that the food he's eating ends up getting him in trouble because it makes him act a certain way. He needs to advocate for himself when he's w/ dad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiguirre Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 I dont think its vindictive to call the cops if he violates the custody order by taking them out of the city. He knows the rules, he breaks them then he gets in trouble. You do whatever you have to do to protect your children. :grouphug: :iagree: And take this down ASAP. Edit your post to a . in the meantime. And eliminate your name from your sigline. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justasque Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 :iagree::iagree: That's not "vindictive" in my book. That's protecting your children from a really odd abuser. Your son is in 7th GRADE and your ex is trying to control his urine? That's mentally... "odd" at the very least. These are not people I would allow to see my children and if they violated the court order, H E double hockeysticks would I use the court order to put an end to it. :iagree: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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