k2bdeutmeyer Posted November 15, 2011 Share Posted November 15, 2011 DD's bio dad just called me. He wanted to know how to tell DD that he and his wife were divorcing. Now, if that happens, it would not surprise me at all. However, I know him well enough to know that he may quite possibly be jumping the gun. It may have been something said in anger or frustration that 2 days later will calm and things will go back to "normal". I'm concerned that he's going to call DD here in another hour or so, tell her, she will be upset, only to call and say "nevermind" tomorrow or the next day. My only concern is protecting my child. I'm really not sure how she will react. I think she will be worried about seeing him as well as her 4 month old baby (1/2) sister. Beyond that, I have no idea. I don't feel like it's my place to tell her ahead of time, but at the same time, I don't want to see her go through the heartache if it does, in fact, turn out to be in haste. So.....what to do? Anything? I'm not even sure there is anything I CAN do. Sigh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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