specialmama Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 she had a stroke 2 yrs ago and was left basically incapacitated. Some say she is in a vegetative state, but others say no! She can track them in the room, she has smiled in response to something said, and has squeezed hands when asked. On Tuesday (it's Friday now) her veins collapsed, and they cannot find a viable vein anywhere to re-insert her I.V., therefore, she is dehydrating to death. The doctor gave her 3-5 days to live. We're working on borrowed time here. My big prayer was that she would be completely unaware of what is happening. But her son (my cousin) just posted on FB that she is completely aware. He said she seems to be in pain, is deteriorating quickly, and is searching his eyes for answers. :crying: Please, if you feel so inclined, please pray that she will pass comfortably and have peace. I believe she was a new Christian, and so prayers for His comfort during this time would be most appreciated. Her son is going to need prayer too, as he already felt "alone" after his dad passed away, and now he has to face his mom's passing. I grieved and grieved for Terri Shiavo (sp?), a complete stranger a country away... and here it's happening to my own aunt. I'm just numb and I can't believe I waited this long to post. Thank you for praying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meggie Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 I am so sorry. We will be praying for you and your family tonight.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Prayers here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer in MI Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 This makes me so sad. I'm sorry. I'll pray. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebookie Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 I am soo sorry for your family! <3 Lots of prayers for your aunt! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma23peas Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 I am praying, bless her son and all her family at this time.. praying for relief from the pain, they should be able to give her a duragesic patch at the very least!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
specialmama Posted August 6, 2011 Author Share Posted August 6, 2011 I am so sorry. We will be praying for you and your family tonight.:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Prayers here. This makes me so sad. I'm sorry. I'll pray. Thank you for the prayers and hugs. It is really sad. She was such a vibrant lady, full of laughter and life. For those who like to pray for people by name, hers is D o t, (or the longer version which I'd rather avoid due to Google). Thank you again. I'll update when I hear anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
specialmama Posted August 6, 2011 Author Share Posted August 6, 2011 I am soo sorry for your family! <3 Lots of prayers for your aunt! Thank you, it is appreciated. I am praying, bless her son and all her family at this time.. praying for relief from the pain, they should be able to give her a duragesic patch at the very least!! Thank you, they said they're trying all they can to keep her comfortable, but I'm not sure what that means. No veins = no hardcore drugs, but yes, I hope they have given her something like those patches, or gas, or something... anything to help. *sigh* Thank you for your prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patches Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 Praying. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Marie Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 :grouphug: Just prayed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J-rap Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 Praying! I hate strokes. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swellmomma Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugarfoot Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 Praying here. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jelbe5 Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 :grouphug: Praying for your Aunt and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassenach Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 she had a stroke 2 yrs ago and was left basically incapacitated. Some say she is in a vegetative state, but others say no! She can track them in the room, she has smiled in response to something said, and has squeezed hands when asked. On Tuesday (it's Friday now) her veins collapsed, and they cannot find a viable vein anywhere to re-insert her I.V., therefore, she is dehydrating to death. The doctor gave her 3-5 days to live. We're working on borrowed time here. My big prayer was that she would be completely unaware of what is happening. But her son (my cousin) just posted on FB that she is completely aware. He said she seems to be in pain, is deteriorating quickly, and is searching his eyes for answers. :crying: Please, if you feel so inclined, please pray that she will pass comfortably and have peace. I believe she was a new Christian, and so prayers for His comfort during this time would be most appreciated. Her son is going to need prayer too, as he already felt "alone" after his dad passed away, and now he has to face his mom's passing. I grieved and grieved for Terri Shiavo (sp?), a complete stranger a country away... and here it's happening to my own aunt. I'm just numb and I can't believe I waited this long to post. Thank you for praying. Praying. My grandmother is passing in a similar fashion, care was withdrawn today. It's funny that you mention Terri Shiavo, because I was also thinking of her today and how I felt when they withdrew care from her. The circumstances are much different with my grandmother, but it's hard no matter what, I guess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughCollie Posted August 6, 2011 Share Posted August 6, 2011 :grouphug: and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
specialmama Posted August 10, 2011 Author Share Posted August 10, 2011 My aunt passed away peacefully about an hour ago. She's now enjoying an amazing celebration and reunion with her husband and her brother (my dad). Thank you for praying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted August 10, 2011 Share Posted August 10, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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