Sue G in PA Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 I had what you might call an "aha" moment tonight while thinking about my ds9 and all of his issues and challenges. He's been seen by a therapist specializing in ADHD kids and "officially" diagnosed with ADHD although we see more of the deficit than the hyperactivity with ds9. Anyway, I started thinking back to the beginning of this school year and how he would get at least half his work done each day without much trouble. Yes, he would take a lot longer than normal, but he did it. Fast forward to about Thanksgiving. He absolutely REFUSES to do ANYTHING...except perhaps dictation. He simply cannot focus enough to do his math, his behavior has gotten quite out of control, he is violent, irritable, has trouble sleeping at night, etc. It then hit me that he has been like this for years now. Fine the first 3 months of school and then BAM...impossible! I know that I get SAD during the winter months and wondered if ds9 might have this as well? Any thoughts? If so...any recommendations on a light therapy light? I think we could benefit from that. Thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurie Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 I use GE Reveal bulbs over the kitchen table where we do most of our schoolwork. For me, these make a big difference in the darker winter months. We also take a long walk at midday which has been the best medicine for us. My dh bought me a portable "golite" at Costco a few years ago but I haven't used this with my dc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buddhabelly Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 Hello, Besides a therapy light (which needs to be used before the sun comes up in order to be effective), please be sure he is getting the NEW recommended dose of Vitamin D. At least 400 IU's. I actually let my son take the adult ones (1,000 IU). It takes an enormous amount of Vitamin D for it to be "too much." Vitamin D has helped me and my son enormously. I have suffered from SAD for many years, and he is starting to show signs at 11-1/2 years old. Best Wishes, Julie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sue G in PA Posted December 9, 2010 Author Share Posted December 9, 2010 Ds is outside a lot even in winter months. I'm setting up an appt. with a new dev. ped. and she will be testing him for pretty much everything....even Vit. D. If I could get him to swallow a pill I would give him my Vit. D. Thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 I think the getting outside mid day is really important too. The light and the exercise will help. Boys need more and more exercise. I used to really encourage a lunch break walk when women would come in complaining at the doctors office. Spending the day in dark and fluorescent light was doing them in. I hope you find something that helps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 I guess we were writing at the same time. ;0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plain jane Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 :iagree: on the vitamin D recommendation. It can do wonders for moods. We get a liquid from our ND that the kids all like... much better than a pill. :) I hope your ped will be able to help you out with what's going on. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whereneverever Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 :iagree: We have liquid Vit. D we give our kids, too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 ditto on D. Even if you are outside a lot depending on your lattitude you might not be getting enough, for many it isn't possible this time of year. Not to mention of course most of you is covered when outside this time of year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiramisu Posted December 11, 2010 Share Posted December 11, 2010 I had what you might call an "aha" moment tonight while thinking about my ds9 and all of his issues and challenges. He's been seen by a therapist specializing in ADHD kids and "officially" diagnosed with ADHD although we see more of the deficit than the hyperactivity with ds9. Anyway, I started thinking back to the beginning of this school year and how he would get at least half his work done each day without much trouble. Yes, he would take a lot longer than normal, but he did it. Fast forward to about Thanksgiving. He absolutely REFUSES to do ANYTHING...except perhaps dictation. He simply cannot focus enough to do his math, his behavior has gotten quite out of control, he is violent, irritable, has trouble sleeping at night, etc. It then hit me that he has been like this for years now. Fine the first 3 months of school and then BAM...impossible! I know that I get SAD during the winter months and wondered if ds9 might have this as well? Any thoughts? If so...any recommendations on a light therapy light? I think we could benefit from that. Thanks! I could have written this for my 8 yo dd. We are so desperate to help her with this extreme depression she's in. She wasn't having a great year to begin with, probably has adhd, but what we've been experiencing in the last month has been out of control. We are taking her to therapy and waiting to do bloodwork (she just had a virus so the doctor wants us to wait a week or two). Please let us know if you've figured anything out. I'll be looking at light bulbs, too.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cjzimmer1 Posted December 11, 2010 Share Posted December 11, 2010 Ds is outside a lot even in winter months. I'm setting up an appt. with a new dev. ped. and she will be testing him for pretty much everything....even Vit. D. If I could get him to swallow a pill I would give him my Vit. D. Thanks! I use the liquid drops on the kids but my husband takes these chewable ones. http://www.applehealthfoods.net/shop/product_view.asp?id=1583034&StoreID=9468956E574944268DFC4C72B33A1B61&private_product=1 He really likes the cinnamon flavor but I see there is also a peppermint flavor. The cinnamon reminds me of tic tacs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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