Jumping In Puddles Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 "There are some days I just can't take it anymore..." :001_huh: Sooooo, I call him this a.m. and say "your face book status is kind of sad" and he chuckles and says "why?" :confused: and then follows up with "so what are you doing today?" :001_huh: I guess this thread is kind of pointless but today I am going to be... not happy. :rant: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jplain Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 Any idea what he's feeling grumpy about? My husband often uses much stronger and more negative wording than I would to describe his day. Yesterday he was going on and on complaining about the "most hooooorrible" meeting he had. I was thinking, "Oh no, not more layoffs!" Or was it project cancellation? What happened? Turned out it was just a really boring meeting. :tongue_smilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Georgiana Daniels Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 Wonder how long it'll take him to change it? Of course, this might be one of those situations where he didn't mean it the way it comes across online...:001_unsure: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jumping In Puddles Posted June 30, 2009 Author Share Posted June 30, 2009 (edited) ]My husband often uses much stronger and more negative wording than I would to describe his day. Yesterday he was going on and on complaining about the "most hooooorrible" meeting he had. I was thinking, "Oh no, not more layoffs!" Or was it project cancellation? What happened? Turned out it was just a really boring meeting. :tongue_smilie: :lol: That is very funny and could definitely be something like that! I would never put a status like that but maybe he feels the need to have a bunch of people he hasn't seen for 20 years say "aww, what's wrong" and I'm a little surprised a few people "liked" his status. :glare: I don't really know what got into him or why he would be grumpy but now I have to wait until he gets home from work. He doesn't have computer access at work. The strange thing is my dh doesn't usually put a status on facebook and really only checks it out once a week or so. He put that status up last night while I went to a weight watchers meeting with a friend that I am dieting with (she swears by it, I feel like I've BTDT with WW). I got home about 1/2 hour after he put that message up and he and the kids were sleeping. I guess I'll find out later and maybe it really is nothing important. :crying: Edited June 30, 2009 by Jumping In Puddles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i.love.lucy Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 Mine was in the worst mood last night. Just grumpy and moody and not wanting to be around us. I almost asked him if he was PMSing, but thought better of it. He went to bed at 9. :blink: I went in a little while later to see if I could talk to him and figure it out and he was okay, just still grumpy. I think it's the heat. His office was hot all day yesterday and he can't get in the garage to have a cigar and work on his old car because it's been over 105 for like 2 weeks. It's making me grumpy too!..Just weird that you'd post that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharon in SC Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 I don't really know what got into him or why he would be grumpy but now I have to wait until he gets home from work. He doesn't have computer access at work. The strange thing is my dh doesn't usually put a status on facebook and really only checks it out once a week or so. He put that status up last night while I went to a weight watchers meeting with a friend that I am dieting with (she swears by it, I feel like I've BTDT with WW). I got home about 1/2 hour after he put that message up and he and the kids were sleeping. I guess I'll find out later and maybe it really is nothing important. :crying: My dh is open enough about his feelings that if his FB status read something like that, I'd just know if it had to do with something going on at home. :-P I say unless you have reason to believe he's speaking to homelife, I'd assume it's work related unless or until you have reason to believe otherwise. This would, hopefully, make for a better day for you today.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jumping In Puddles Posted June 30, 2009 Author Share Posted June 30, 2009 Mine was in the worst mood last night. Just grumpy and moody and not wanting to be around us. I almost asked him if he was PMSing, but thought better of it. I hope he is in a better mood today. :) My dh is open enough about his feelings that if his FB status read something like that, I'd just know if it had to do with something going on at home. :-P I say unless you have reason to believe he's speaking to homelife, I'd assume it's work related unless or until you have reason to believe otherwise. This would, hopefully, make for a better day for you today.... I have been wondering if maybe it was the kids - since I wasn't home when he posted it. They are usually so easy but they do have their moments. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alice Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 My dh has left comments on my blog that I totally mis-read. To me they were obviously critical. He thought they were just funny. This is a huge generalization but I think men tend to say things in a more concise way and not really read into it all the "what does that really mean" that we do. Maybe he was just having a bad day or night with the kids and posted it quickly and then forgot about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jackie in AR Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 "There are some days I just can't take it anymore..." My dh and I have weird senses of humor, so if he posted something like that, I would respond, "Yeah, I know *exactly* what you mean." :grouphug: Hope everything is OK between you when he gets home. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nukeswife Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 My dh and I have weird senses of humor, so if he posted something like that, I would respond, "Yeah, I know *exactly* what you mean." . This would be my dh and I as well. Hope he's feeling better today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jumping In Puddles Posted June 30, 2009 Author Share Posted June 30, 2009 My dh and I have weird senses of humor, so if he posted something like that, I would respond, "Yeah, I know *exactly* what you mean." :grouphug: Hope everything is OK between you when he gets home. Actually, the more I think of it, I think this is probably it and I am being way over sensitive. One clue that I missed is he changed his profile pic to this when he changed his status plus his chuckle on the phone: hmmm... wow, it seems a little clearer now BUT "I JUST CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE" That is NOT funny! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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