Prairewindmomma has a good point. Your sister essentially bought the property 10 years ago, with your parents being the mortgage-holder basically. It's hers. You are not entitled to her stuff. For that matter, gently, you are never entitled to someone else's stuff when they pass. It is not owned by you and never has been. It's not yours. Nothing personal, just factual. ((hugs))

Yes, I see that some places on the internet say that. As my own dd was on Zyrtec and Protopic (prescribed by the allergist) from age 1 onward, I will agree to disagree. Definitely, OP, talk to someone at the allergist's office.

Oh and no hydrocortisone on the face!! Protopic (if you have some) is acceptable for the face. Maybe some Cerave cream.

I would definitely try to get him in right away with the allergist (tip: sometimes the receptionist is hard to get past, but if you ask to speak to a nurse, they can override the receptionist and get you in). Our allergist always preferred Zyrtec to Benadryl. Internet has dosing info. The rash plus puffiness would be concerning to me, and I would try to give child something, but maybe talk to allergist nurse/doctor first.

3. That removes you completely from drama.

B. I am in a similar stage of life, with dh turning 66 this year. I am quite a bit younger, but he wants to retire so we have set an end date. December 2026 is our end date, when dh will retire. We want to enjoy retirement, and with his parents long passed and one of mine dead and one ailing, we recognize that life is short. As long as the financials are there, there is no reason not to retire to do what we want to do before it is too late to do it. Best wishes on your decision.

Since we are dealing with multiple food allergies, the idea of splurge takes on a different meaning. Soy milk is twice as much as dairy milk, but that's the one that's needed. I have so many other foods like that. Scallops we have about once or twice a year.

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I’m reading the Bridgerton Prequel books by Julia Quinn. I am also reading Temple Grandin’s book Visual Thinking. It’s interesting but not as fast or mindless as the romance novels. I also keep re-reading my Jayne Castle and Jayne Ann Krentz romance novels with a psychic twist.

My mom was a bit like this. Do you remember that Debbie Downer character from Saturday Night Live? That was her exactly. ((hugs)) As she got older and meaner, the things I said to myself when I absolutely had to deal with her were "I can be kind. I can be kind." I only saw her or talked to her when I absolutely had to. Unfortunately, that was doctor appointments as dad couldn't drive her anymore, and she couldn't drive herself. She's dead now. Things are better.

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Bakin' without Eggs book by Rosemarie Emro was a life-saver at our house. That's where I got my brownie recipe, my pancake/waffle recipe, my cornbread recipe, and a hundred things in between. Know that you can substitute any liquid for milk in a recipe. We use Energy-G egg replacer or Bob's Red Mill Egg Replacer as a substitute in normal recipes (like from the Better Homes and Gardens cookbook). I don't know if it is missing all your allergens, as we just have milk, egg, peanuts here mostly. But it probably is fine. Bagels tend to be milk, egg, and nut free. My dd is into smoothies and toast for breakfast lately. She also enjoys Applegate sausages. I'm trying to think of breakfast ideas. "Safe" tortillas with refried or smashed beans and bacon. We like Oat Milk here, Silk or Oat Planet or Chobani. Many cereals would probably work (don't know about soy, sorry). Oatmeal.

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Well, Dad is in Skilled Nursing with a restricted diet, so we are bringing Easter dinner to him. It will be beef stew (my husband makes a wonderful beef stew with red wine), and chocolate ice cream sundaes for dessert. No bread allowed. Food must have liquid with it. So that's what it will be. It's good stew, though, mmm.

I'm no expert, but I have a heavily visual dd. She learned more and less because I had a large number line up on the wall, and "less" meant to the left and "more" meant to the right. That is literally what clicked for her. These visual kids can be a puzzle sometimes, but in the very best way! Also, some stuff literally she had to age into to understand. Like rounding, I recall. Oh, also, if this helps, the < looks like "L" for Less. She also needed that. The > looked like the bottom part of "G" for Greater. But she took a lot longer for that part, the symbolism part.

Also, schools have trends. I went to two different high schools. At the first one, everybody had a locker and all the rooms were relatively close, and everybody carries their book or two in their arms. In the second high school, everybody used backpacks. Lockers were on the first floor of a three story building, and all of the classes were on the third floor. I didn't own a backpack before this school because they weren't a trend, but I borrowed a backpack from my brother once I realized that was what was done. Trends. The life blood of high school. 🙂

Listen to your gut. It's screaming at you for a reason.

If it's BCBS Federal, they have Telehealth services by Teladoc. You can find them through the fepblue.org website. Or they list the Teladoc number, 1-855-636-1579. It looks like Teladoc includes mental health as well as regular health. (I mean they have this in addition to regular in person stuff.)

I like to use cooked ground sausage along with a bag of Cole slaw (no dressing) or just shredded cabbage, throw in some garlic or ginger or soy sauce, and roll up in spring rolls to make a sort of lumpia. Brush with oil and bake. Delightful!

Gently, it sounds like these phone calls are not about communication for her, but a game she can win. You don't have to play her game.

I'm not a doctor but if it were me, I would try diaper rash cream on that (zinc oxide based) and see if it helps.

Maybe in the first few years of our marriage, we did, but we're at 25 years now, and no, we don't. If one of us is being weird and stupid, the other one backs off. If it's not important, it's not important. Plus, I think very highly of my dh, and he thinks very highly of me, and if something is bothering one of us, the other one respects that even if we don't get it. ((big hugs))

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