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I agree with all of this post, but especially the bold. My dh is also a Youth Pastor. A Youth Pastor is not a jr pastor, but a fully functioning, ordained pastor. There is no reason to go over his head, unless the responses you get are unacceptable. I'm familiar with Youth Specialties (in fact, dh left today for a YS conference), and I'm really shocked that this content got through. I've never seen anything of this sort in YS material before. DH doesn't really use their materials often, but I'll have to give him a heads up on this. When a pastor uses material like this (especially stuff for games), he doesn't always comb through every sentence. Generally, you expect an organization like YS, which has a good reputation to not need to be heavily screened.
So my suggestion is to discuss this in person and please give the pastor the benefit of the doubt, until he gets a chance to explain it himself.
hth