I don't have any new advice to add, but I am right there with you! My dd did K at 3, first at 4, and is now doing second at 5.5. I managed to buy a little time in the middle there by going sideways. I just don't tell anyone. She still goes to the K class at church where her friends are. My 2 yr old is already working at least a year ahead in the developmental milestones and well into preK academics on his own. He's more vocal than his sister, so I'm sure we'll get into some sticky situations with him!