I've requested additional testing for my son to see if there any possible LD that we don't know of. He already has an IEP for speech (articulation). I'd love to know if I'm just overeacting or if you think there might be something there.
I know a lot of this can still be normal for his age, but I'm not sure it is when all of it is combined. I waited a long time to request a speech assessment because I kept hearing how he was still young and it would fix itself (it didn't..) and I keep hearing how kids with speech problems should be watched closely for reading problems as well. I don't want to wait if there is something, but I also don't want to be that mom who is looking for something that isn't even there. I'm just frustrated and I'm not sure if it's the way I'm teaching him, the curriculum we're using, or if there is a bigger issue at play.
Background:
My son just turned 7 (1st grade, but schooling started at TK for letter sounds and basic math/counting).
We've been in speech (articulation) since he was 3 years old.
We have an IEP through a homeschool charter school for speech 2x a week. Nothing else has been tested for yet. (I've requested it though so it's coming.)
Reading is hard for him and he JUST figured out blending this summer.
He's missing a lot of phonemic awareness skills (like rhyming), but is great at others (first/last sound, counting syllables). We went through AAR Pre-level but a lot of it was just too hard for him in Kinder. We worked on it over the summer and started AAR 1 when he figured out how to blend. Comprehension tests really high (if it's read to him since he's still not reading fluently), but he has problems remembering letter names, some sounds, reverses numbers / letters.
I thought he was doing awesome at math but at beginning of the year assessment he scored really low, and high.
He understands math concepts and tests well for algebraic thinking. But he can't count to 20 and doesn't always remember what the numbers look like. We're using Singapore and are just finishing 1b. I'm not going to move into 2A because of the issues and thinking about switching to RightStart in January although I have no idea if I should do A or B...
He also can't remember the names of his friends, family members he doesn't see regularly. He didn't even know my husband or I's real names, just Mom and Dad, as little as a few weeks ago until we went over it
Handwriting is hated and I only make him write a few words here and there, maybe a short sentence (3-4 words), or one page of a math worksheet.
Other, non-school related issues.
He's a VERY picky eater and it seems to only be getting worse. Foods he would eat just a year ago he won't touch now. I don't know why.
He bites his nails a lot and at one point even started chewing on his shirt. I got him a chewy necklace and it helped break him of the shirt.. but not the nails.
When he gets really excited, he bounces a lot and does some arm flapping. I have no idea if this is normal but my other kids don't do this. It's only when he's excited.
He will talk forever about video games.. especially minecraft. Ask him about anything else and he's pretty quiet.
He loves hanging out with other kids but I've noticed he doesn't always notice when he's being picked on or kids are being mean to him unless it turns physical (hit, push, etc).
He has never done a lot of pretend play. He hated dressing up when he was younger. Although he will play 'house' with his little sister now that she's older and takes charge. She's really taught him how to pretend play I think, it never came naturally to him.
He's not sporty at all. He's kind of clumsy and has never done well in, or really enjoyed, team sports much.
He has a VERY hard time sitting still, even when he's playing video games. He tips back in chairs, moves all around, always fiddling with things. We've worked around this for school stuff and made adjustments, but there are days it's a lot worse and hard to do anything, even with the adjustments.
If you read all of this, thank you! It's been weighing on my heart since the start of the school year and I honestly don't know if it's really just all normal high energy boy type stuff with just a later start because of his speech, or if there's something more to look at.
If there is something more, are there any particular tests or things I should request from the school?