Thank you for the great replies and welcome! She definitely wants to go the engineering route, dh is one as well. She is looking into chemical most likely. She feels Mines is wonderful, but too far away. It sounds like the city factor wouldn't be a huge issue as long as she practices basic safety rules as that would be true for anywhere she goes.
I know this may sound strange to some, but she doesn't want to go Greek and doesn't care for college sports. She is a quiet, studious girl but loves to be physically active. She needs a school where there isn't a huge Greek presence if anyone knows anything about that, I'd love to hear it.
Olin kept sending us emails to apply and it sounds good as well. I will look into U of Roch and she's applied to Virginia Tech and Carnegie Mellon but we haven't heard yet. The gender balance isn't a problem, she will be fine either way. We are planning a visit to Case, Rose, Rolla, and GA Tech soon and have visited Huntsville as it is close, she has been admitted all of them. Looks like a lot of road trips in our near future!