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  1. As I think about it more, "It is an honor to die at the hands of the king" is the correct wording, but I still get nowhere with internet searches. But if the Hive doesn't recognize it, I guess it's possible I actually had an original thought? Maybe I should use this as a starting point and do some creative writing.
  2. There is some quote that goes something like "it is an honor to be killed by the king." I can't find it anywhere, I don't know the context or anything. Did it come from classical literature, mythology, a TV show? Or did I just dream it?
  3. My daughter had vision therapy to correct convergence insufficiency. It worked great, she quit having headaches when she was reading/studying. The first place we went for vision therapy wanted $5K and a 7-month weekly commitment. I got a second opinion and found a closer place that treated her in 8 sessions, cost me $700.
  4. If you have chemical sensitivities, have you found a depilatory cream that doesn't have a strong smell?
  5. How do you find the profiles of scholarship winners?
  6. Our family has done a lot of air travel, and all TSA ever does is tell the kids “raise your hand when I call your name” and then read the names off the boarding passes. Weird that the procedures aren’t uniform.
  7. Me: I had scholarship to local university plus outside scholarships. Since I lived at home and commuted, I got money back every semester. My kids: If our financial situation continues in its current state, we will be able to pay outright what scholarships don’t cover. My kids are smart, if they choose a private or public school in state, they’ll have lottery-funded scholarships at the very least. They may not be able to choose the most expensive schools, but they’ll have options.
  8. Does any streaming service carry this show?
  9. Where do you shop for tween girls who have outgrown the girls’ section but don’t have the right body shape to wear juniors?
  10. The swing set is gone! I let our handyman take it to fix up for his little kids. My kids are excited about how much bigger the backyard looks (youngest is 9, no one has been playing on that swing set in awhile). Now they’re begging for a trampoline and dh is remaining steadfast against it.
  11. I’m still on the schoolroom. 7 boxes of books gone to the public library, and 6 to the school library. Lots of trash and recycling gone, bags to Goodwill. I’m waiting on someone to pick up old non-working printers and kiddie bookcases. The homeschool curriculum is in stacks, I’m accepting all offers just to get rid of it and bring in a few bucks. My goal is to make the room a book/art/game room, but if I don’t organize it well, it will become a dumping ground again. No one does schoolwork in there. At least now you can vacuum the floor, that’s progress.
  12. I have lost count of how much I have taken to Goodwill. I know that I filled 3 large black trash bags just by cleaning out one small hall closet of blankets and bedding. So far I have tackled the bedrooms, bathrooms, closets, family room, and medicine cabinet. Now I’m working on the schoolroom, which is worse than everything else put together. We haven’t used it for school in about a year, and it’s become a repository for everything I don’t know what to do with. I am packing up books like crazy to donate to the public library quarterly book sale and to the library at the kids’ school (I have earned the librarian’s trust and she knows I’m only bringing her good stuff). The difference in my mood has been amazing. I feel lighter, even though I’m definitely not. 😂 Decluttering my bathroom led to putting all the products/medications/supplements that I’m supposed to use regularly in one spot. And guess what? I’m actually taking better care of myself, using hair and skin care products, taking my medications and supplements every day. My room is a much more relaxing place to be. The schoolroom is going to be a long process, including selling off curriculum, so I’m going to switch off with working on the kitchen/dining area. The basement will likely require the services of a professional. 😱
  13. Kids are 13, 11, 9. We haven’t decided exact dates of the trip yet or exactly where we’re flying into. It partially depends on availability of redeeming airline points. I’m guessing the trip will be about 12-14 days altogether. I know I don’t want to spend the whole time doing crowded touristy things. Aside from that, I’m at a loss.
  14. It looks like this is going to be the year to go to Scotland with the kids. I am excited but also at a loss because of all the choices to make. I have to make it count, you know? And I want to plan well enough that we can relax and enjoy it. Any advice? The trip will be in June.
  15. 1. A serious, top-notch touring choir that is open to non-music majors by audition 2. Located in the South 3. Conservative, or at least enough political diversity that a conservative student would be able to find their niche 4. Good merit aid available
  16. Oh, I forgot. Forget the Tilt-a-Whirl, I want a Skee-ball machine.
  17. I've spent way too much time thinking about this.... 1. The kids are attached to where we live, so pay off house, and fix it up and decorate it like a model home. 2. Buy a condo for my mom. 3. Set aside $1M per kid for college/grad school. 4. Instant semi-retirement for dh. He could just find something to do for work that he enjoys and would let him come home at night. 5. Meet with the board at my kids' tiny start-up private school and say, "So show me the long term growth plan and let's get the list done in 6 months." 6. Self-care. Personal trainer, stylist, orthodontia, laser hair removal, etc. 7. Disaster prep. 8. Endowment for my church to hire a full-time cantor/organist. 9. Travel everywhere I can think of. 10. Buy a Steinway. 11. At this point I'd better cut myself off and start giving money away or I'll become a disgusting human being.
  18. Also, in my experience, limiting water does not work. It only creates anxiety in the child. (Try it yourself. Nothing makes you thirstier than being told you can’t have water.) The body is not getting messages from the brain to stop urinating while sleeping. The alarm works because it helps get those messages through and trains body and brain. Limiting fluids will not accomplish this.
  19. The alarm worked with all my kids, but they were such sound sleepers that I had to sleep in the room with them so I could wake them up when the alarm went off.
  20. I had a similar experience with that name. It was 1996 and my friend brought over the 1-year-old she was nannying, a little girl named Hannah. I was horrified. Why would someone do that to a child? I’m still not a big fan of the name, but now just because it’s so overdone. I no longer associate it with the March family’s old servant in Little Women! ? I have a friend who named her daughter a “normal” first name, and then added a middle name that makes it sound like a type of cookie when you say it together. I’m a boring traditionalist on most things, including names, but as I get older I’m trying to be less judgy about others’ choices.
  21. I need every idea I can get for packing school lunches for a 13yo dancer who eats like a senior linebacker. Hopefully she’ll be doing the actual lunch making, but the planning and shopping still fall to me. And do any of these fancy-schmancy bento box thermos thingies actually work well? All ideas appreciated! Edited to add: I need food ideas too. She gets tired of sandwiches really quickly.
  22. How to stay occupied during the Blackout: Read the Lord Byron series by Gretta Curran Browne. It's free if you have Kindle Unlimited.
  23. Hi Gabrielsyme, I read your post with interest because I am a Suzuki violin instructor (certified through book 6), former Suzuki kid, and mom of a cello student. I can tell you are a really great Suzuki mom and your son sounds amazing. I love getting students like him! I sympathize with your son's frustration. I was that kid. After taking Suzuki violin for a couple of years, I started traditional piano lessons and learning to read music, and I LOVED IT. It turns out I was a natural sight-reader and it didn't take me long at all to figure out how to use those note-reading skills on violin. So my processing time for "learning" a piece was very quick. But I sounded terrible because I was a little kid in a rush and wasn't paying attention to my technique. It led to conflicts with my teacher and eventually to a very long break in violin lessons. :( Your teacher knows what she is doing. Book 2 in cello is HARD. Nearly every piece requires shifting positions. I didn't have to shift positions in violin till book 4. I about flipped out when my little guy started having to shift in book 2! You can't have a kid shifting positions when their intonation is shaky in first position. That is probably a big reason why the teacher is not moving him forward. Also, the heart of the Suzuki method is tone. One of Suzuki's quotes is "Beautiful tone, beautiful heart." A teacher who's trained through book 10 will have been immersed in this philosophy and will tell you it's better to play a simpler piece beautifully than a more complex piece not so beautifully. This was pretty much impossible for me to accept at your son's age. Again, I sympathize. If your son loves cello and wants to continue playing, then I would encourage him to trust his teacher, to work harder on his intonation and tone, and be patient. I think adding piano would be a great thing for him right now because he can let loose and get his sight-reading game on. Even if you don't have him in formal lessons and your husband just helps him, make him go through a method book so he gets a firm grasp on finger patterns (Faber Piano Adventures is good for a note-reading method). Be sure and update us on how he's doing!
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