Welcome to homeschooling!
This is really not a list of "rules", but a mix of things that we do, or have particular limits set during school time. We have been homeschooling since 1999 and our list tightens up or loosens a bit, depending on what is going on with our family.
1. Television greatly distracts during school time.
2. Phone calls disrupts a teaching session, I don't answer the phone during school.
3. A clean and tidy school area lends an air of "learning is important to our family."
4. Sometimes teaching will need to happen during the "littles" nap times.
5. Unannounced visitors will happen. We just try to work around it, without making a huge scene. We school year round, so eventually, we get everything done.
6. Schedules are needed, so that we can aim for our school goals. Schedules provide for accountability - more for me than anyone else.
BUT
7. People are more important than schedules.
8. Spelling/Grammar, Math and Reading/Writing are important subjects around here. If the student does not put needed effort into these areas, TV time is reduced.
9. After the morning teaching sessions, the kids can wander around the house to whichever area they want to do their independent work. Sometimes it is outside on the deck, out by the lake, under a shade tree, in the sewing room, family room, etc. The kids have small bedrooms, so we ask that they find other areas beside the bedroom to do their work. As long as it gets done and is done well, they are allowed this flexibility. They did have desks when they were younger, but they never used them.
10. History is their favorite subject. They are allowed to listen to audio CD's that focus on history. They love listening to Abraham Lincoln's speeches, historical non-fiction, and SOTW CD's. They have stacks of old encyclopedias that they use in order to search for more information about the particular era of history we are studying. We try to make as many opportunities available to them for continued research into their favorite subject and visit many historical sites.
11. Library day is important to the kids. They make lists, request books online and learn about returning the books on time. I gave them calendars when they were young. The only thing ever recorded on them was their due date for library books. Over the years, the items recorded on their calendars has grown. This teaches them to have deadlines for certain items and complete projects in a timely manner.
12. We do not do co-ops.
13. We do try to get together with other homeschool families from time to time.
14. Kids need to be up and ready to go by 8:00 to 8:30. Rooms straightened, fully dressed, hair combed and school books at the table. After school, they need to put everything back into their bin (rubbermaid stackable bin - kinda like a locker).
15. As a mom, I limit my internet time to around 20 to 30 minutes a day.
16. During the early years (pre-school, kindergarten), the kids had to stay with me at the table to do their work. It wasn't until they were older that they had the flexibility of completing their work elsewhere.
Most of our school time happens by noon. My phone calls happen during the kid's lunch time or around 3:00 p.m., which is after quiet time. TV time is in the evening a few times a week.
This was a rambling list at best. Hope you can make sense out of it.