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  1. I thought this would be best place for this question, although DS doesn't have what most would consider "learning challenges". 18 yo DS homeschooled since 2013. 2E kid, highly gifted (IQ 150), autism mainly manifests as executive function issues (organization, time management, follow-through). ADHD mainly inattentive type though we are seeing more hyperactivity after 10 PM. Very little communication manifestations (though he can be hyper-literal). Manifestations didn't become noticeable until 10th grade, and have become more prevalent (whether due to worsening or due to life complexity, I don't know). On no medication. He's done extremely well academically and not too bad socially. He's been accepted to Georgia Tech early action (out of state); other decisions are pending. Earned his Eagle Scout last month (with no disability accommodations; he has never told his Troop or leaders about ASD). He doesn't like to share his diagnoses with others, and when it comes up, he's quick to point out that he's never received an "accommodation" for anything, including standardized and AP tests. This is true, though I counter that homeschooling is the ultimate "accommodation". DW and I clash over how to best help him with his sleep schedule, and I'd like some advice. He says he has a hard time settling down. His "default" is to sleep from about 1 AM to 10 AM. I think that's a the right amount of sleep, and I think it's usually quality sleep. I have studied a lot of sleep science and recommendations for avoiding screens and stimulants, relaxing environment, etc. (I'm a physician; not a sleep expert, but able to read and understand it). He really wants to go to college in the fall (math major), and we want to support him. He will do what he wants to do when he moves away. But how much should we do now to adjust his schedule? I'm only hoping for 11:30-8:30 sleep schedule. We've tried "carrots" and "sticks"; neither works for long. He insists that listening to classical music at bed time helps him relax, but then he hums Piano Guys songs all day long, so I don't know if he knows what "relax" means. We tried melatonin, but it made DS too groggy the next day. Alarm clocks don't work. He even used 15 alarms, one minute apart from each other. Didn't get him out of bed for good. In the short term, the concern is that his pattern disrupts the family (us 3, and 15 y.o. DD homeschooling). He makes some noise after we all go to bed. We can't do anything together in the mornings. His meal times are totally out of line with ours (important family moments are missed). He makes us late to church Sunday at 9 AM. We've settled lately for just leaving without him (he actually is bothered by this, and likes going). In the long term, I'm concerned he will poorly self-regulate in college, and get worse. Forget 8 AM classes; he might miss 10 or 11 AM classes. His odd meal schedule has resulted in mild weight loss this year, and I'm concerned he won't be healthy. I'd love to hear from anyone's experience, and what worked and didn't. I am leaning to using abrupt and forceful 8:30 wake-up measures until he gets tired enough to fall asleep earlier, even if it takes weeks. That is certainly what I'd do (and I wouldn't be posting here) if not for ASD/ADHD. Isn't that the heart of so much parenting of these teens? Is this autism, rebellious teenager, or both? Anyway, I don't think DW has the stomach for that. I've even told DS that going off to college is contingent on correcting this, with the alternative being a gap year to work on this (and other issues). I don't know what best works with ASD/ADHD, compared to neurotypicals.
  2. It's definitely different than when I applied. Last MIT stats I saw were even more discouraging for men; I assume due to skewed applicant pool but school's desire for gender balance, a man's acceptance rate was half that of a woman. It was around 6-7% for men, 13% for women. We're not too worried about it, and we're not going to try to make DS be someone he's not in order to possibly boost his chances. After much wrangling and prayer, here's where we've landed. We're very appreciative of the shared wisdom here. 1) I told DS to research colleges' and independent web sites to discover "best" places to launch him into math PhD/career (that's what he wants to do), and what it takes to be competitive there. He took me up on this with zeal. He understands it's very competitive, but he at least wants to aim for MIT, Carnegie-Mellon, CalTech (last one gives his mom palpitations due to distance). His ACT score this April and AoPS classes have inspired him. 2) I told him we would support that, and if he struggles next year, a B or two (which he's never gotten), would not be a disaster but would be received as God's direction. Math honors program at NC State is a wonderful option, and would get him into lots of graduate programs, if he does well. 3) He learned that a prestigious summer math camp may boost his odds. He can't do one this summer, so he'll plan that for 2018. We enrolled him in AoPS 2017 summer class for AMC 12 test prep, with that test another way to impress. 4) He'll take SAT subject tests, Math 2 and probably physics, next year. 5) After much counsel from older like-minded homeschool parents, and feedback from colleges, we're preferring AP to dual enrollment, for now, and prioritizing what he best likes. So presented for feedback, here's his 11th grade plan: - AP calculus BC (Potter's School; we decided AoPS absorbs him too much.) - AP physics 1 using edX Rice Univ free online; will see how he does with workload and decide if he can do this in 18 weeks and proceed to AP physics 2, or needs year for AP 1 only. - AP English (Potter's School; though not STEM, he's a strong reader and writer and takes rigorous English every year. This won't be that much extra than his norm. Might as well get college credit and credibility.) - German 2 (Excelsior online) - Notgrass US history. Really liked Cedarville dual enrollment option for this, but need to prioritize rigor in other subjects. - BSF Romans (2 hour class night + 3 hour weekly study = 1 credit) We thought some synchronous work was good for him to transition to college and be in some contact with others. The physics and history classes give us the option to flex/pause if needed so he can excel in the AP and German classes. He is willing to spend 2-3 evenings each week on school, something he's never had to do, and to start his day at 8 AM. The horror!
  3. Just to follow up, we are going to use the edX Ride University class. 1) It's free, including text! 2) Self-paced. 3) Video lectures that seem well done. 4) AP-specific prep. 5) Can customize to use as a year or combine with AP Physics 2; DS is stepping up rigor substantially for 11th grade due to his ambitions, and we're going to play it by ear; if he gets overwhelmed, we will slow it down and let him do AP Physics C in 12th if he loves physics (he's taking calculus BC in 11th). Three of his other classes are online and will not have much flexibility. 6) It's free! (except AP test costs).
  4. Elladarcy, we may actually go that route. Free textbook, free class, self-paced. Looks like they have AP physics 2 in 3 separate 6-week courses, too. Thank you!
  5. For variety of reasons, we've yet to land firmly on ds 11th grade schedule for 2017-18. Who has used The Potter's School for AP classes? If you don't mind, please share: 1) What class(es) you dc(s) took; 2) Year of class; 3) Teacher name; 4) Score on AP test. We're most interested in AP calc BC and AP English, but all experiences welcome. We thought we were set for AoPS calculus next year, but class night conflicts with ds' Boy Scouts. He pleaded to do it anyway and read transcript later; mean parents said no. :-( Thank you!
  6. rjand4more, I recommend you and DD thoroughly investigate admissions requirements for a wide range of potential colleges. It would be very unusual to enter as an aspiring biology major without taking a high school chemistry year. Some colleges just specify "3 units science, inc. 1 of bio and 1 of 'physical' science" (which doesn't mandate it be chemistry or physics; geology qualifies). But some do specify a year of chemistry. I'd hate for your DD to find out she needs to cram in chemistry in summer after 11th or in 12th grade. One really cannot go very far in biology if one doesn't grasp chemistry basics. It does help separate "biology is fun" from "I want a career in this" for kids. Don't mean to be judgy; you probably already plan on chemistry in addition to those great electives. Just speaking as a long-ago biology major with a dd14 who thinks she loves biology but chemistry awaits. :-)
  7. anmom, check these resources out. Printable pdf's. Quick, simple and almost fun way to assess your DS' readiness. 6th grade skills review - if these are too easy, move on to the next link: http://www.livingston.k12.ky.us/userfiles/87/my%20files/0%20math%20minute%206.pdf?id=8196 7th grade skills review - if no real struggles, he may be ready for algebra: http://teachers.d11.org/teachers/taylodr/jsaamathplc/Shared%20Documents/Math%20Minutes%20-%207th%20Grade.pdf
  8. Irene Lynn, thanks much. That's a helpful post. DS is "a bright, motivated kid who has a physics type of mind". I really just want him to enjoy a 1st high school physics course without being over-taxed (I've sought counsel on this in other threads). I don't even plan for him to take AP Physics 1 or 2 tests afterwards. He aspires to take AP physics with calculus in 12th grade, so I just want to prepare him well enough for that. The College Board and independent sources advise against doing "all the AP physics courses"; i.e., don't take 1 and 2 if you intend to take any with calculus. 8FillTheHeart - thank you for that recommendation. You've been a help to me in this and other threads lately!
  9. Hilarious! My DS is 16; maybe we can arrange a marriage in 10 years. They would get along swimmingly. I can't remember the context, but I remember my professor in a course on Aristotle telling us that the only necessary rule of any system of mathematics is that it be internally consistent. I don't know why, but it's the only thing I recall from the whole class LOL. Many mathematicians would probably revolt at such a relativistic view of "the purest science". :-)
  10. anmom, is Saxon 1/2 pre-algebra? YMMV but we are very glad DD jumped right into algebra after MM7.
  11. Mathematical thunder from down under LOL. Simple and clear. But it doesn't really explain WHY that is so, and that falls short of the standard that our house (OK, mainly my DS16) has for math explanations. :-) I think epi's and others' explanations spell it out. I suspect it comes down to the mathematical desire for square root to be considered a "function"; every value of x must have only one value of y. As indicated above, to show this, if one graphs y=sq rt x, you get a parabola that fell down to the right. Every value of x > 0 has two solutions. So in order to keep square root to meet the conventional definition of "function", let's say "it only means the positive answer". Mathematicians do things like this, to keep the whole math shebang consistent and working. :-) PS I'm not a professional mathematician, so take someone else's word for it if they correct me.
  12. Ah! Sorry. I'll try to remember to report back on our new geometry adventure. I think DO algebra would be a good fit, given your similar situation to ours. It is a little pricey, but it is good and did provide just enough "distance" between DW and DD. There was still a lot of side-by-side oversight, but grading was outsourced, as was the video teaching. It is nice to be self-paced/asynchronous. DO charges per month, with a cap of I think 10 months for the course (DW keeps the books). We went 2-3 days past the 8th month just to take the final, and his bookkeeper nicely granted our request to pro-rate the last fractional month we needed. It's also nice that you can register for "honors" (which means a few extra homework problems that are a little harder but nothing AoPS-ish) and then dil down to "regular" after a few weeks. No cost difference.
  13. I hear you. I think Apologia's "Advanced Biology" course covers human stuff. I will say this. As a biology major who then went to medical school, human biology/anatomy/physiology was simply not a part of my college curriculum. When applying to med school, they actually discouraged applicants from taking college human biology. Such classes were reserved for nursing, PT and similar programs. Even my physiology college course was specifically titled ANIMAL physiology LOL. I did take some grad student courses in human-specific biology. But other than that, it really wasn't highlighted. Anyone else out there who's used Apologia Advanced Physics? With or without taking AP Physics 1 or 2 tests afterwards?
  14. We are MM fans. I will say, it took a little getting used to, and DW briefly fell into the "am I making my kid dumb?" trap. But the answer would apparently be "NO!". Also, DW is math-strong (until geometry LOL), and enjoyed teaching DD with MM. I don't know how it would be for a parent who is not good at, and enjoys, math.
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