I have no friends, and my mom is in the hospital at this time (mental illness). I have been reading from these forums for quite a while and have a lot of respect for your opinions.
Finally to the questions: how do you feel about a vasectomy? Spiritually? Has your husband changed in any way after?
My husband and I have been married 21 years, and we have 4 children. I am 40 and he is 46. My oldest son is 19, a daughter 14 (15 Oct. 1st), and 5 year old (son,daughter) twins. I have had 3 miscarriages, 1 in between each successful pregnancy. The last miscarriage was 4 years ago, and was extremely hard on me. I would love to have more children, but I know it is not a good idea for me at this stage in my life.
My husband is the one wanting the vasectomy, and I am happy he does. However, I wonder if this will change him in any way, emotionally or mentally?
Spiritually, we feel it is an individual thing, between that person and God.
Any thoughts, experiences, been there done that, will be helpful.
Thanks so much.
Dawn