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  1. https://mimsukes.com
    Mim’s Ukes gives every ukulele a professional set up by hand before shipping out.  This will solve any issues wit frets, how high the strings are, etc.  She’s got high end as well as beginner options like Ohana.  
     

    My personal favorite ukuleles are Mainland Ukulele (also set up by hand before shipping) These are solid wood, medium price range options https://mainlandukes.com

    If he’d be happy with a cheaper travel ukulele option I’ve been happy with my Enya concert. https://www.amazon.com/Concert-Ukulele-Nova-Beginner-Waterproof/dp/B07WK18YMW/ref=sr_1_24?dchild=1&keywords=Ukulele&qid=1629673236&sr=8-24

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  2. 25 minutes ago, ktgrok said:

    I actually agree a lot - there is so much going on, that I'm actually DOING when I go to a liturgical church, that it is a different thing. I can't do it all at home - which is why I'm SO glad to be going back now that I'm vaccinated,a nd praying that my kids can be vaccinated ASAP. 

    But even then, I do leave wanting more as far as community, I think. But that may be as simple as, I have ZERO Christian friends that I'm close to. ZERO. My friends that I know here all are atheist or pagan or agnostic and none attend any kind of church. My husband does not attend with me anymore. I'm on my own there. And I haven't made friends there....partly because I have social anxiety and am shy, partly because it is a smaller church in a much more well off neighborhood 25 minutes away, etc. There are only a very few people there in my age/stage of life and they get their social needs met at well, their kids school, scouts, etc, lol. 

    One good thing about moving is I may be nearer to at least one person I sort of know who I think is Christian....and wow is that a pathetic statement. 

    I did go to a mom's group when I was still at the Catholic Parish, but was an outsider as one of only two homeschoolers, and she did homeschool stuff with anothr parish 40 minutes away from me (she lived in between the two so for her that was doable). Most had their kids in the church preschool or elementary school, so bonded over that. 

    And it was SO huge...another issue. 

    I relate to a lot of this so much.  I’m also shy, introverted, and I have 2 kids with PANS and autism, so it’s super hard for me to connect with other moms.  I was in the evangelical world that pushed fellowship, small groups and socializing, which I fully participated in, but never actually connected in a meaningful way with other women in the church.  I guess that has made it easier for me to separate out the issue of my lack of connection with the type of church I attend.  I’m going to have a hard time either way and it is lonely.  

    At my Lutheran church there is a prayer shawl ministry that meets once a month to get together and knit or crochet blankets and shawls for those in need and chat (Pre-COVID).  I’m the youngest woman that attends by a good 20 years but I really enjoy getting together with them.  Maybe you can look for a hobby or volunteer group or start one affiliated with your church.  It’s a lot easier for me with a smaller group that already has something in common.

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  3. I don’t think that you can set aside the Eucharist or the sacramental from these discussions.  I grew up SBC and in my 20s I began following some of the “celebrity” pastors in the reformed world, listening to them online, reading their books, etc.  Sunday morning sermons in my small church did become a big let down in comparison with everything you can listen to online.  The churches I attended were 3 songs and a sermon type formats and it all did feel very empty, I really only continued out of a sense of duty.  I learned far more from listening to other pastors on my own time than I did on Sunday morning, and learning the Bible is set up as one of the main reasons for attending church in that denomination.

    It wasn’t until I grasped the Eucharist that I realized worship isn’t singing and a sermon in the first place.  (I know many will disagree with this, I promise I’m not trying to be disrespectful of any denominations beliefs, just trying to explain my experience) Worship in all of the ancient religions culminated in a sacrifice which would then be consumed by the worshippers .  Christ is our sacrifice and partaking in the Eucharist is the culmination of Christian worship.  Praise songs/hymns and preaching from the Word are great and important, but no wonder it feels like you can get that same thing online...you can!  The continual discussions about “how we should do church” when I was SBC drove me nuts...why do we need to keep reinventing the wheel here?  I finally got off the merry go round and explored Orthodoxy, Catholicism, and eventually became Lutheran.  Liturgy, confession and absolution, communion, and baptism made worship meaningful.  I just don’t get gutting the central act of worship and then trying to invent a new way to get people to come.

    I hesitate to actually post this because I’m afraid it comes off as disrespectful to the beliefs of others.  It’s just that the discussion on the Holy Post is SO close to where the light bulb finally came on for me that I can’t help but point it out.  
     

    and yes Katie, just saw the last point you added and I agree.  Non-sacramental churches used to provide community, but that can be had in so many ways now.  People would rather connect over other interests.  

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  4. We’re waiting due to autoimmune disorders, fighting inflammation and previous vaccine reactions.  I don’t know if the benefits will outweigh the risks for us in the future, but right now there isn’t enough data for me to feel comfortable.  We’re also fine with continuing to stay home, masking, etc.  

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  5. Yes.  LCMS Lutheran

    Masks required, temperature checks, hand sanitizer, half of the pews removed for social distancing, attendance is limited to 75 per service by reservation (10% of what we can hold in the sanctuary).  We’re dismissed one row at a time after service, no congregating inside.

    Online streaming is ongoing and all Bible studies and classes are held online.

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  6. In our area, the custom builds on your own lot are starting 100k higher for the same square footage as compared to production communities with optional upgrades.  Definitely check into each production builder thoroughly, we found one that included a lot in their base price (Extra options in flooring, countertops, fixtures, hardware) that all of the other builders called upgrades.  

  7. 1 hour ago, cougarmom4 said:

    I had never heard of this before and I love the idea. I downloaded the free app and have been scanning some of my books. But the most I’ve gotten is $.88...with many offering $.12 or none at all. Obviously we do not have the right type of books. 🤪. Do you mind sharing what type of books you’ve had that have gone for a higher value? 

    We moved recently and did over 500 books with them.  I think we cleared around $600, so most went for pennies.  My husband and sister actually ended up scanning most of the books while I was sorting through other areas of the house so I don’t know what got the highest value.  I do know that Susan Wise Bauer’s ancient and Middle Ages history books went for a high price.  Box sets went for fairly high prices (Harry Potter, Percy Jackson, Narnia, etc). My theology and church history books went for good prices (these were more scholarly texts, not devotionals).  Rare and vintage biographies and living books that are popular on Charlotte Mason book lists also did well.  Classics didn’t bring much.

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  8. 21 minutes ago, Loowit said:

    I would agree that all Christians should be evangelical.  But I think that the difference is defining themselves and their "mission" by that label and using a big E.

    I grew up with people who defined themselves as Evangelical being from churches that were not liturgical.  They didn't celebrate Holy Week (or if they did only bits of it), Epiphany, advent, Lent, and other traditional church holidays.  They didn't focus much, if at all on the saints.  They practice "believers baptism" rather than infant.  Communion is symbolic and done less frequently, usually once a month.  It is in my mind an offshoot of the more Puritan and/or Anabaptist way of doing church.

    Evangelical churches also focus more, IME, on evangelism, but not follow up.  Once little Johnny has said "the prayer" he is good to go, if he starts going to church all the better, but either way he is going to heaven.  There is a lack of focus on sanctification.  I have heard the term used as "easy believism".

    The church I grew up in and many like minded churches considered themselves Fundamentalist and Evangelical.  They would hold a town revival one week every summer, bringing in a evangelist.  They were twice on Sunday and Wednesday night church goers.

    Basically, IME, people who label themselves as Evangelical focus on evangelism, breaking away from high church tradition, and focus solely on the bible as there source of truth.  Obviously other peoples definitions and experiences may be different, but this is what I grew up with and what I saw when going to Bible college.  In my head, it was not doing a lot of the traditional liturgy that was seen in my Lutheran friend's church.

     

    19 minutes ago, teachermom2834 said:

    To me, evangelical churches are ones that have an altar call at every event. If you go to a Christmas program or a dance recital or a fundraiser and there is an altar call you are dealing with “Evangelicals”.
     

    I realize that is just my definition but I use the term evangelical and that is what I mean. It is the born again/altar call variety of Christians. This is the way I see the term used and the way it is used politically as far as I can tell. 

    I am Catholic and we are called to evangelize but we are definitely not under the umbrella of “evangelicals”.  

    These posts capture how I parse evangelical vs. the broader Christian tradition .  This is the evangelical world I grew up in.  The emphasis was on decision theology and boiling everything down to just “my personal relationship with Jesus.”  Greater church tradition and history were absent.  To me, this is the key distinction between Evangelicals with a capital “e” and the more general idea that all Christians ought to evangelize.

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  9. I was raised and remained SBC into my 30s.  A combination of digging into theology,  church history and a shift in SBC culture that has been discussed in the other thread led me to becoming Lutheran (LCMS).  If that weren’t an option in my area I would become Catholic.

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  10. We’re going through this process now.  We went with a local builder who has several communities under construction in our area. To secure our lot and floor plan we had to pay 5% of the purchase price as well as 50% down on the upgrades we chose to add.  Our close date on the new construction isn’t until July at the earliest.  Expect a lot of delays due to Covid.  We finally got our footing dug out today after 2 months of waiting!  

    We decided to go ahead and sell our house and we’re renting an apartment with a 4 month lease and we’ll go month to month if necessary after that.  We chose this for a few reasons.  Our area is crazy competitive right now with very little inventory.  We were able to sell within 24 hours for 10k over our asking price with a cash offer.  This was with terrible carpets and significant repairs needed under the house (fully disclosed to buyer).  Even now, more inventory is coming onto the market as people that have been on the fence about selling are beginning to list in our area.  We wanted to beat the market downturn that may occur later this spring/early summer when we were ready to close on the new house.  We also thought if we had a longer term between homes we could get better deals on an apartment.  We didn’t want to be stuck with nowhere to go for just one month or two.  While we looked into bridge loans, back to back closings, etc it just seemed stressful and I didn’t want anything that could possibly cause our deal to go south.  In our area, getting a contract on a new construction contingent upon the sale of your home just means you’re not on the hook for the mortgage when the closing date comes, but you still lose the new house and any money paid upfront.  Some builders in our area aren’t accepting contingent contracts at all as the market is so competitive now.

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  11. We’re building this year and from what I’m hearing and reading, whites and grays are on the way out and bold colors are coming back in.  I’m seeing lots of textured walls with molding and geometric wainscoting, peel and stick wall papers with floral prints, deep green and blue paint colors, etc.
    I’m still opting for a warm grey paint and black fixtures because it’s what I like.  Keeping my traditional furniture and wall art keeps it from looking like a trend.  Is “wall to wall books“ a decor style? Lol

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  12. 38 minutes ago, Homeschool Mom in AZ said:

    Is she not pursuing this herself? I get asking for recommendations in general from BTDT pregnancy struggles/adoptive parents, but is she asking a variety of adoptive parents and seeking out various adoptive parent resources? Did she when she had fertility issues?  Is she doing some googling herself? If so, then it's no problem at all, but if not, it's time to have a talk with her.  Adoptive parents often have to seek out highly specialized therapists, support groups, and other resources specific to their child's adoption situation.  Now is the perfect time for her to dive right in on her own. Learning it in the midst of adoption challenges isn't practical.

    She is talking with friends who have adopted and doing her own research as well.  I’m just the resident family reader, so she does ask for book recommendations on a regular basis on many different topics.  Without sharing our entire life story, she does value my opinion in regards to the decision to adopt.  While I don’t have personal experience with adoption, I’m in the midst of raising two boys with significant physical and mental challenges, so I have done lots of reading, specialists, therapies etc that very well may come into play in an adoption situation.  She has had an up close view of very difficult parenting with my kids and I have spoken frankly with her and BIL about the possible challenges ahead.  Because of the support groups and such I’ve found myself in, I’ve heard from many adoptive parents about challenges they face, thus trying to help her prep before hand with some good books and such.  Anyway, I see why some view book purchases as overstepping, so I’ll just continue to follow her lead on that front and support her however I can.

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  13. 13 minutes ago, BakersDozen said:

    Maybe OP's family is different but I hated receiving books for infertility, pregnancy loss, adoption journey, etc. If I need a book, I'll buy it. What one person appreciated in a book made me roll my eyes and throw the book away. So I'd stick with a nice card with a nice note in it and a gift card or something.

    I definitely get what you’re saying.  I’m the same way with books, if I want one I buy it and I generally don’t like others’ book choices for me.  She is more the type to ask me what to read and rarely picks for herself.  Just different personality types around reading I guess.  She has asked me for book recs in the past on pregnancy loss and infertility and asked for my copy of The Connected Child after I gave her a brief description, so I think I’m safe on that front.  I’ll continue to share the resources I’m familiar with as she asks and stick with the cleaning service gift card for a gift.  Just didn’t know if there is a gold standard adoption process book, and I figured the Hive would know if there is.  

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  14. 40 minutes ago, Spryte said:

    Yes, gift cards for dinners, maybe cash gifts because there will be expenses they didn’t see coming. One thing I’d have liked is a cleaning service to come in and take that off my plate before the home study.  Depending on your state, they will probably be doing that fairly soon.


     

     

     

    A gift card for a cleaning service will be perfect!  Thanks so much for a great idea!

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  15. My sister and BIL have just signed on with an adoption agency after struggling for years with infertility.  I understand that placement can take several years, but I’d like to put together a little gift basket with good books/resources as they start the process.  Any ideas of what would be appreciated?  I’ve already given them a copy of The Connected Child by Karyn Purvis.

    Thanks!

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  16. Yes and no.  Our church started meeting in person again over the summer, with limited numbers attending (1/4 our capacity), masking, and distancing.  Being able to receive the Eucharist again is very fulfilling (no contact in how we’ve been doing communion, very different from our old way).  I can’t really describe how awful things were when communion was impossible for months on end.  

    Fellowship is still lacking at our church.  We leave one row/family at a time from the sanctuary each week.  I dropped off some gifts for the Angel tree last Saturday, they collected outside and I spoke to 2 friends from church face to face (still masked) and it was the first time I have spoken to anyone in person outside of my parents and dentist since March.  I literally cried as I realized this.  It’s almost worse to remember what we’re all missing.

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  17. 33 minutes ago, Thatboyofmine said:

    I asked my mom for some bible notebooks and some pretty pens for them.  I also asked for a timeline book of the Bible, because I struggle with that.    I sent her links and it showed up as 'bought' on my wishlist, so I'm definitely getting those.   
     

    I told dh and Ds that I want a pair of crocs to wear while I'm working in the yard or walking dogs.  They are the ugliest shoes ever, but so comfortable.     Ds or my mom-in-law May get them.    Dh and I are not giving gifts, frankly because he sucks at it.  One year I got a lone jar of pickles as my gift. 🤦🏻‍♀️ 

     

    I'd like a fire pit, as well.    That would be a good family gift.  
     

    And because of that dang thread about Animal Crossing, I want a Switch.  That probably won't happen, which is probably best.  But I still want it. 🤪
     

     

    Our kids are getting a switch this year, and after that thread I’m thinking of a switch lite so I can have an island to myself.  Definitely won’t happen, lol.

    I’ll actually get some hand dyed spinning fiber from Etsy, a blue tooth keyboard for my iPad/phone, and probably some books.

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