There is some secrecy my sister's weren't allowed at the closed meetings or my initiation. However it is a lot of fun. I'm an athiest, it was kinda weird having to open the Bible at every meeting calling it a symbol of purity. Bug there was a girl in our Assembly initiated under the Quran. They want to teach you how to be a leader and make friends. It also helps a lot even if you are completely done at 21. They help you go to college, social network for jobs, he'll my roomates are rainbow girls. I was homeless and they were willing to help me out.