I have 4 children and I am homeschooling 3. My oldest son, who is 10, is absolutely IMPOSSIBLE. He so defiant. He has seen two psychologist for the past couple of years to try and help me parent him and to help him become obedient. Nothing changes. I am seriously considering sending him to school, not for ed purposes, but I seriously need a break from him! It doesn't help we are military and have no family even close to help. Every group we have tried to become apart of doesn't work out because of his behavior and attitude, which only puts my other children at a disadvantage. Anyone else ever been in this boat? Is there a point when you just let them go to school and hope for the best? Or any sage advice from moms who have been there?