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Why did I agree to do this here?
Sojourner replied to Renee in NC's topic in General Education Discussion Board
Renee, I don't think there is a person on these boards who cannot empathize with you. Do what you can realistically to clean and organize your home before the party but I urge you to then let that all go (I know that is easier said than done) and focus on what you can do to make it a great day for your son. First, remember this is about celebrating the gift of him and rejoice in the fact that he obviously is proud and comfortable in the home you made because he wants to share it with his friends. Also concentrate on making your guests comfortable due to your attitude of welcome and humility and joy that they could come and help you celebrate your son. We have all been in fancy homes and "homey" homes and if you really consider where you felt the most comfortable it is in the home of those who were glad you were there just for your company and not for what they could show off to you. Whatever will go wrong (and I am praying nothing will) will just happen and all the worry in the world before hand will not change it. Celebrate your son and let the rest not touch you deeply and people will go away with the memory of the love and pride you have for your family and not for the condition of your home. Hope that helps and know I was preaching to myself and letting you listen in.:grouphug: -
What sweet thing does your dh do for you?
Sojourner replied to Pink Fairy's topic in General Education Discussion Board
He makes me breakfast each morning if I am awake before he leaves otherwise he leaves me sleep on in peace.(I am not a morning person) He makes the bed each morning before he leaves unless I am still in it. ( I am not a happy morning person.) Since the dishes are usually not done each day when he gets home from work he just plunges right in to help with dinner and then does the kitchen clean up without a criticism. On those days I never manage dinner he offers to pick up something on his way home. He heads off to work each day so I can stay home and homeschool and he likes it that way. I could gush on and I am sorry ladies but I somehow got the best man! -
Book A Week in 2009 ** Week 23 Book 24 **
Sojourner replied to Robin M's topic in General Education Discussion Board
Week 23: The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society --- I give a 5***** recommendation for this perfectly delightful gem of a book!!!!! Week 22: Summer Reading by Hilma Wolitzer Week 21: The Yellow-Lighted Bookshop: A Memoir, A History by Lewis Buzbee Week 20: Ten Things I Wish I'd Known Before I Went Out Into the Real World by Maria Shriver Week 19: Lost in America by Isaac Bashevis Singer (do not bother to read this--UGH!) Week 18: Libby: The Alaskan Diaries and Letters of Libby Beaman, 1879-1880, as presented by her Granddaughter Betty John. Week 17: Without a Trace by Colleen Coble. Week 16: On Colfax Avenue: A Victorian Childhood by Elizabeth Young Week 15: One Woman Against the Reich by Helmut W. Ziefle Week 14: Index to Murder by Jo Dereske Week 13: Jane Austen in Scarsdale by Paula Marantz Cohen Week 12: Q's Legacy by Helene Hanff Week 11: Turbulent Souls: A Catholic Son's Return to His Jewish Family by Stephen J. Dubner Week 10: Body in the Bouillon by Katherine Hall Page Week 9: Falling Leaves by Adeline Yen Mah Week 8: The Professor and the Madman: A Tale of Murder, Insanity, and the Making of the Oxford English Dictionary by Simon Winchester Week 7: The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street by Helene Hanff Week 6: Shelf Life by Suzanne Stempek Shea Week 5: The Book Thief by Markus Zusak Week 4: Mosaic by Amy Grant Week 3: The Faith Club by Idilby, Oliver and Warner Week 2: The Body in the Kelp by Katherine Hall Page Week 1: Nightingales: The Extraordinary Upbringing and Curious Life of Miss Florence Nightingale by Gillian Gill -
Book A Week in 2009 * Week 21 Book 22 *
Sojourner replied to Robin M's topic in General Education Discussion Board
Not yet sure what I am in the mood for this week--off to browse my shelves. Everything I have read thus far has been off my own shelves of "I want to read this someday" collection of used and gift books. I have been very restrained and have brought home very few new finds these past months as I am really enjoying whittling down and weeding out those I already own in to keepers and not. It has been amusing to have my husband urging me to visit bookstores and browse and buy something new instead of urging me to try and whittle down my enormous piles of must own. I think he is made nervous by my uncharacteristic self-control:lol: He needn't worry as I am positive it is only temporary and will go the way of all "diets" and end in wild rebound the other way any day now. Happy Reading to all! Week 21: The Yellow-Lighted Bookshop: A Memoir, A History by Lewis Buzbee Week 20: Ten Things I Wish I'd Known Before I Went Out Into the Real World by Maria Shriver Week 19: Lost in America by Isaac Bashevis Singer (do not bother to read this--UGH!) Week 18: Libby: The Alaskan Diaries and Letters of Libby Beaman, 1879-1880, as presented by her Granddaughter Betty John. Week 17: Without a Trace by Colleen Coble. Week 16: On Colfax Avenue: A Victorian Childhood by Elizabeth Young Week 15: One Woman Against the Reich by Helmut W. Ziefle Week 14: Index to Murder by Jo Dereske Week 13: Jane Austen in Scarsdale by Paula Marantz Cohen Week 12: Q's Legacy by Helene Hanff Week 11: Turbulent Souls: A Catholic Son's Return to His Jewish Family by Stephen J. Dubner Week 10: Body in the Bouillon by Katherine Hall Page Week 9: Falling Leaves by Adeline Yen Mah Week 8: The Professor and the Madman: A Tale of Murder, Insanity, and the Making of the Oxford English Dictionary by Simon Winchester Week 7: The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street by Helene Hanff Week 6: Shelf Life by Suzanne Stempek Shea Week 5: The Book Thief by Markus Zusak Week 4: Mosaic by Amy Grant Week 3: The Faith Club by Idilby, Oliver and Warner Week 2: The Body in the Kelp by Katherine Hall Page Week 1: Nightingales: The Extraordinary Upbringing and Curious Life of Miss Florence Nightingale by Gillian Gill -
Book A Week in 2009 * Week 19 *
Sojourner replied to Robin M's topic in General Education Discussion Board
This week am reading The Hawk and the Dove. Week 19: Lost in America by Isaac Bashevis Singer (do not bother to read this--UGH!) Week 18: Libby: The Alaskan Diaries and Letters of Libby Beaman, 1879-1880, as presented by her Granddaughter Betty John. Week 17: Without a Trace by Colleen Coble. Week 16: On Colfax Avenue: A Victorian Childhood by Elizabeth Young Week 15: One Woman Against the Reich by Helmut W. Ziefle Week 14: Index to Murder by Jo Dereske Week 13: Jane Austen in Scarsdale by Paula Marantz Cohen Week 12: Q's Legacy by Helene Hanff Week 11: Turbulent Souls: A Catholic Son's Return to His Jewish Family by Stephen J. Dubner Week 10: Body in the Bouillon by Katherine Hall Page Week 9: Falling Leaves by Adeline Yen Mah Week 8: The Professor and the Madman: A Tale of Murder, Insanity, and the Making of the Oxford English Dictionary by Simon Winchester Week 7: The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street by Helene Hanff Week 6: Shelf Life by Suzanne Stempek Shea Week 5: The Book Thief by Markus Zusak Week 4: Mosaic by Amy Grant Week 3: The Faith Club by Idilby, Oliver and Warner Week 2: The Body in the Kelp by Katherine Hall Page Week 1: Nightingales: The Extraordinary Upbringing and Curious Life of Miss Florence Nightingale by Gillian Gill -
Book a Week in 2009 * Week 18 *
Sojourner replied to Robin M's topic in General Education Discussion Board
This week I'll try Lost in America by Isaac Bashevis Singer Week 18: Libby: The Alaskan Diaries and Letters of Libby Beaman, 1879-1880, as presented by her Granddaughter Betty John. Week 17: Without a Trace by Colleen Coble. Week 16: On Colfax Avenue: A Victorian Childhood by Elizabeth Young Week 15: One Woman Against the Reich by Helmut W. Ziefle Week 14: Index to Murder by Jo Dereske Week 13: Jane Austen in Scarsdale by Paula Marantz Cohen Week 12: Q's Legacy by Helene Hanff Week 11: Turbulent Souls: A Catholic Son's Return to His Jewish Family by Stephen J. Dubner Week 10: Body in the Bouillon by Katherine Hall Page Week 9: Falling Leaves by Adeline Yen Mah Week 8: The Professor and the Madman: A Tale of Murder, Insanity, and the Making of the Oxford English Dictionary by Simon Winchester Week 7: The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street by Helene Hanff Week 6: Shelf Life by Suzanne Stempek Shea Week 5: The Book Thief by Markus Zusak Week 4: Mosaic by Amy Grant Week 3: The Faith Club by Idilby, Oliver and Warner Week 2: The Body in the Kelp by Katherine Hall Page Week 1: Nightingales: The Extraordinary Upbringing and Curious Life of Miss Florence Nightingale by Gillian Gill -
What's your favorite method of self-soothing?
Sojourner replied to Mama Bear's topic in General Education Discussion Board
:iagree::iagree::iagree::iagree::iagree::iagree: One bobble head for each good thing! -
Book A Week in 2009 *Week 17*
Sojourner replied to Robin M's topic in General Education Discussion Board
This week I am reading Libby: The Alaskan Diaries and Letters of Libby Beaman, 1879-1880, as presented by her Granddaughter Betty John and I am enjoying her style and story. Week 17: Without a Trace by Colleen Coble. Week 16: On Colfax Avenue: A Victorian Childhood by Elizabeth Young Week 15: One Woman Against the Reich by Helmut W. Ziefle Week 14: Index to Murder by Jo Dereske Week 13: Jane Austen in Scarsdale by Paula Marantz Cohen Week 12: Q's Legacy by Helene Hanff Week 11: Turbulent Souls: A Catholic Son's Return to His Jewish Family by Stephen J. Dubner Week 10: Body in the Bouillon by Katherine Hall Page Week 9: Falling Leaves by Adeline Yen Mah Week 8: The Professor and the Madman: A Tale of Murder, Insanity, and the Making of the Oxford English Dictionary by Simon Winchester Week 7: The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street by Helene Hanff Week 6: Shelf Life by Suzanne Stempek Shea Week 5: The Book Thief by Markus Zusak Week 4: Mosaic by Amy Grant Week 3: The Faith Club by Idilby, Oliver and Warner Week 2: The Body in the Kelp by Katherine Hall Page Week 1: Nightingales: The Extraordinary Upbringing and Curious Life of Miss Florence Nightingale by Gillian Gill -
Free website I just discovered!!!
Sojourner replied to eksargent's topic in General Education Discussion Board
Thanks Emily! Listening to a little Chicago with my message boards this morning.:001_smile: -
Book A Week in 2009 * Week 16 *
Sojourner replied to Robin M's topic in General Education Discussion Board
This week I am reading Without a Trace by Colleen Coble. Week 16: On Colfax Avenue: A Victorian Childhood by Elizabeth Young Week 15: One Woman Against the Reich by Helmut W. Ziefle Week 14: Index to Murder by Jo Dereske Week 13: Jane Austen in Scarsdale by Paula Marantz Cohen Week 12: Q's Legacy by Helene Hanff Week 11: Turbulent Souls: A Catholic Son's Return to His Jewish Family by Stephen J. Dubner Week 10: Body in the Bouillon by Katherine Hall Page Week 9: Falling Leaves by Adeline Yen Mah Week 8: The Professor and the Madman: A Tale of Murder, Insanity, and the Making of the Oxford English Dictionary by Simon Winchester Week 7: The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street by Helene Hanff Week 6: Shelf Life by Suzanne Stempek Shea Week 5: The Book Thief by Markus Zusak Week 4: Mosaic by Amy Grant Week 3: The Faith Club by Idilby, Oliver and Warner Week 2: The Body in the Kelp by Katherine Hall Page Week 1: Nightingales: The Extraordinary Upbringing and Curious Life of Miss Florence Nightingale by Gillian Gill -
Book A Week in 2009 Week 15
Sojourner replied to Robin M's topic in General Education Discussion Board
This week I will be reading Captivating by John and Stasi Eldridge Week 15: One Woman Against the Reich by Helmut W. Ziefle Week 14: Index to Murder by Jo Dereske Week 13: Jane Austen in Scarsdale by Paula Marantz Cohen Week 12: Q's Legacy by Helene Hanff Week 11: Turbulent Souls: A Catholic Son's Return to His Jewish Family by Stephen J. Dubner Week 10: Body in the Bouillon by Katherine Hall Page Week 9: Falling Leaves by Adeline Yen Mah Week 8: The Professor and the Madman: A Tale of Murder, Insanity, and the Making of the Oxford English Dictionary by Simon Winchester Week 7: The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street by Helene Hanff Week 6: Shelf Life by Suzanne Stempek Shea Week 5: The Book Thief by Markus Zusak Week 4: Mosaic by Amy Grant Week 3: The Faith Club by Idilby, Oliver and Warner Week 2: The Body in the Kelp by Katherine Hall Page Week 1: Nightingales: The Extraordinary Upbringing and Curious Life of Miss Florence Nightingale by Gillian Gill -
Book A Week in 2009 Week 14
Sojourner replied to Robin M's topic in General Education Discussion Board
I've been clearing the light stuff off my shelves the past few weeks as have been over busy and when I do grab a moment to read I wanted to escape. This week will be reading One Woman Against the Reich by Helmut W. Ziefle, hopefully uplifting even though intense. Week 14: Index to Murder by Jo Dereske Week 13: Jane Austen in Scarsdale by Paula Marantz Cohen Week 12: Q's Legacy by Helene Hanff Week 11: Turbulent Souls: A Catholic Son's Return to His Jewish Family by Stephen J. Dubner Week 10: Body in the Bouillon by Katherine Hall Page Week 9: Falling Leaves by Adeline Yen Mah Week 8: The Professor and the Madman: A Tale of Murder, Insanity, and the Making of the Oxford English Dictionary by Simon Winchester Week 7: The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street by Helene Hanff Week 6: Shelf Life by Suzanne Stempek Shea Week 5: The Book Thief by Markus Zusak Week 4: Mosaic by Amy Grant Week 3: The Faith Club by Idilby, Oliver and Warner Week 2: The Body in the Kelp by Katherine Hall Page Week 1: Nightingales: The Extraordinary Upbringing and Curious Life of Miss Florence Nightingale by Gillian Gill -
...I struggled to get up with him every morning and make his breakfast and pack him a lunch, but as I am not a morning person (read grumpy) after a year or so he gently suggested it would be better for us both if I slept in and he kissed me goodbye when he left. Now 25 years later I am up with him most mornings cause I'm not sleeping well with peri-meno but he makes us both breakfast and packs his own lunch and gives me space while I struggle to meet the day. OTOH we have always gone to bed together unless one of us is sick and we both like it that-a-way.
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Book A Week in 2009 Week 12
Sojourner replied to Robin M's topic in General Education Discussion Board
This week will be reading Three Men In A Boat by Jerome Week 12: Q's Legacy by Helene Hanff Week 11: Turbulent Souls: A Catholic Son's Return to His Jewish Family by Stephen J. Dubner Week 10: Body in the Bouillon by Katherine Hall Page Week 9: Falling Leaves by Adeline Yen Mah Week 8: The Professor and the Madman: A Tale of Murder, Insanity, and the Making of the Oxford English Dictionary by Simon Winchester Week 7: The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street by Helene Hanff Week 6: Shelf Life by Suzanne Stempek Shea Week 5: The Book Thief by Markus Zusak Week 4: Mosaic by Amy Grant Week 3: The Faith Club by Idilby, Oliver and Warner Week 2:The Body in the Kelp by Katherine Hall Page Week 1: Nightingales: The Extraordinary Upbringing and Curious Life of Miss Florence Nightingale by Gillian Gill