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  1. I've known two people that has happened to in the last couple years. One was a cookie cutter house and they thought it was a joke, but got cash for their house.

     

    There is a shortage of homes in certain price ranges in our area right now so it's a great time to be selling, not so great to be buying though.

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  2. Thank you, ladies.

     

    Good points. We're not a large family but in this day and age of small families being the norm, and I guess compared to our means, we have way more kids than is "acceptable" considering what we're able to provide for them. It's good to know I'm not alone in this experience. It does feel humiliating.

     

    I know there are some families out there who are privileged to be a one income family and yet still have what is considered an appropriate standard of living but it's also good to know we're not the only ones for whom that's not the case. I never knew this was the life I was going to be living, and DH and I both came into this totally unprepared, but what do you do when God changes your heart even though you don't have the right means and preparation to do it? That's where we're at. It's a sacrifice. I always hope it's for the best.

    I'm sorry you didn't get the house. Since you are a believer, have you considered praying about a new housing situation? Sometimes I forget to pray about stuff like this and try to solve it myself.
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  3. You had gotten a lot of great advice. I really wanted to know what days looked like, it was helpful for a couple moms to show me how they planned, but then also walk me through their day.

     

    In my local area it seems a lot of new homeschooling moms gravitate toward the most expensive curriculum, especially for teaching reading, assuming it's the best. I also see a lot of people post on local boards, "need everything for 2nd grade" without really knowing what they want/need. I think knowing about resources such as WTM, Cathy Duffy, etc. would help a lot of parents save money and make better choices for their kids.

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  4. I would suggest putting a noisy fan or white machine in your room to help block out noises. If the kids get up at 6, have a simple breakfast available, a pile of books for them to read, and make sure they know how to use your tv. Tell your guests you normally are up around 7:30.

     

    When I am a guest I feel it's my responsibility to entertain and keep my kids quiet so we don't disturb our hosts that might be on a different schedule. I know we can't always ask our guests to do the same though.

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  5. My husband spent around 60 nights in a hotel last year and is on track to double it this year. He has found a lot of consistency in Hampton Inn & Suites (not a regular Hampton Inn). There have been a couple rare exceptions, both times older locations that hadn't been recently remodeled. He sticks to Hilton brands because of their rewards and there is usually one within an hour of whatever tiny town he is headed to for work.

     

    We were very impressed with Double Tree and Home 3 (a newer Holiday Inn chain) when we have stayed as a family. We have not been as impressed with Embassy Suites. There is one that he stays in regularly that is very nice and has been great when the whole family has stayed. The one we spent a week in near DC was just OK. There is definitely a difference in hotels that cater to business people vs families. We tend to like the ones that cater to business people better.

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  6. I have a running belt, I can't remember the brand but it's something like Amphropod. I carry my phone and Chapstick in there, occasionally a key. I don't carry pepper spray. I used to carry a whistle but not anymore.

     

    I use a Garmin and if I want to run intervals, it will beep at me. My friend used a couch to 5k app that told her when to run or walk.

  7. Neither me nor my husband swear. If a certain word comes up in a book or they hear it somewhere, I explain that it isn't a polite word to use. With my 8 year old I would be more likely to explain the meaning behind it, but nothing has come up recently. I probably would just tell my 3 year old not to say the word. I wouldn't go out of my way to teach them certain words, but if it came up I wouldn't ignore the situation either.

     

    The only two words I can remember explaining why we don't use them are the n word and fag**t. My son had started referring to logs for a camp fire using that term and I explained that most people no longer remember the original meaning and would find the word offensive.

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  8. Is this an issue you're aware of? Care about? Support? Oppose?

    It is not something I have ever thought about but I'm not opposed to it. People in DC should be able to elect members to Congress. It also seems like Congress should keep its nose out of local affairs.
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