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  1. Dramamine/benadryl in case he is sick.

     

    Suckers (we like the dum-dums because they're smaller and not as messy)

     

    Lots of snacks

     

    Electronics of some sort always help

     

    Someone sitting back there playing games with him or showing him electronics of some sort.[/QUOTE]

    My mom once made a trip with my son when he was about that age. He only stopped screaming when she had some stupid moose playing 'grandma got run over my a reindeer.' I think she played it the last 4 hours of the trip nearly nonstop. Yeah, she still hates that song, but she kept the moose.

  2. You should go hang out at Backyardchickens.com some. My son wanted chickens last year and even selling eggs, I don't think we have broken even yet. You need good fencing/run material to keep out predators, a co-op, feed, water (think bill).... If you want to start with chicks, you need lights, a brooder, special feed... That being said, we love our chickens. The eggs are amazing. It took me awhile to build up to eating them though. It just felt weird for some reason. We have not eaten any for meat yet, although we did help butcher one. That is the hard part, really for us. We don't have a processing plant here that will do it for us so we had to find someone that could teach us and help us. We need to cull off some of our flock right now but I don't want to butcher them and we can't find anyone who will let us pay them so we keep feeding some chickens who are not laying.

     

    The ducks have been a blast!

  3. I used to pay my boys for folding all the laundry, picking up the yard before mowing, taking down the recycling. But, I got tired of haggling with them about getting paid for jobs. If they didn't want to do it then they didn't get paid, but sometimes I NEEDED them to do it. If they said no then I was stuck. If they can't say no, then it isn't really getting paid per job.

     

    Now, they earn 5$ a week and they do whatever I tell them to do :lol: It works much better for us.

    My son receives $1 for every year of age as his weekly allowance. (I would only do $5 but his grandpa is providing this). In return he must do whatever is necessary and whatever I request of him each week. Some weeks it is just typical family household type stuff but other weeks it may include heavy outdoor work during all of his free time.

     

    Another friend of mine pays hourly. The kids can't be slackers. It starts at $1 an hour and includes everything from taking out the trash to making the bed to helping weed the garden. They also can't make a 10 second job last an hour, IYKWIM. As the child gets older and takes on more responsibility, the pay per hour increases. However, at certain ages, the pay becomes other things as well - like permission to use the family car, or more computer time, or whatever the child wants to negotiate.

  4. I put mine on the stove top between burners. I do not use the stove while the candle is burning. But it is about the safest places I've ever found to burn a candle.

    :iagree: I do this as well.

     

    You can put dryer sheets in air vents so the air passes over them before entering the room. This helps put fresh scent in the room. In our last house I would buy those special fragrance things to attach to the filters in the air return. Some were pretty powerful but also helped spread scented air. My grandmother used to just spray her filters on occassion with air freshener or perfume if she felt her home needed some 'clean air'. Essential oils on light bulbs (put on cool bulbs, not hot ones) is something a friend swears by but I have never tried.

     

    In one house I wiped down every wall with something (vinegar and water???) and that removed lots of dust and odors as well.

  5. Land's End is wonderful. We switched to them during the year my son was ultra skinny and tall. Customer service was great at helping me find the waist and inseam sizes I needed. Then, when he began to gain weight another year and needed husky sizes, the same style pants worked. We ordered the Climber pants until he grew too tall/big for them. We watched the sales pages religiously for them so that we could get them on sale. You also need to sign up for the emails because they are sending great deals on those pretty much daily right now.

     

    Sometimes LLBean has them as well.

  6. When he has it with him and it's on, yes, he's 100% on answering. He does forget it somewhere (car or home) or forgets to turn it on a fair amount though. :glare:

    :iagree: He won't answer if with a customer or on the business phone, but otherwise will return my call if he sees that I called him. Occassionally he isn't allowed to carry it for work, but I know in advance when those times are. But then we have the days where he leaves the phone at home, or in the car, or in his desk, or forgets to charge it....

  7. I have only seen people pursue grandparents rights in situations where parties are not angry. For example, Joe just learned that he has a 9 year old daughter from his brief affair with Sue. Paternity tests prove it, he has visitation, Mom is ok with it, but the grandparents want to make sure they are in the picture in case the relationship between Joe and Sue does deteriorate. When Joe was working out custody and child support with his attorney, Grandparent rights were added to the paperwork and submitted to the courts at the same time.

  8. Last night someone broke into my car. My son's ds was stolen, but we haven't discovered anything else missing.

     

    Now, We just had someone pull thru the neighbor's driveway, across their yard into our yard to ask if we would sell them eggs. There is the equivalent of a large empty lot between us since we both have 3 acres and our houses are on the far boundaries from each other. My son came in the house and said there were people outside wanting to buy eggs or I would not have known they were in the yard. After I said no, they backed up across our yard, the neighbor's yard again and out the neighbor's driveway. If you know the person in the blue volvo that did this, well, remind them of polite manners I guess. I honestly don't have any to sell today, but if I did, I wouldn't want to sell to someone who thinks that they can drive across a stranger's yard into another stranger's yard to buy eggs because they can see chickens in my back yard. I don't know if I should be creeped out, or angry, or both.

  9. Oh, I'm definitely not upset about bad grammar. I agree with you. Like I said, it's a science course, not a writing course. My main issue is that the writing is actually hard to understand because it is so poor. I think someone teaching an online class, where they have to communicate only via writing, should be able to get their intent across clearly. Not perfectly, but well enough that I don't have to double-back every other sentence and make sure I'm understanding what is expected. That's what I'm frustrated about.

    I agree and think that you should save samples to share with administrators.

  10. I would mention it to the administration. Will they have one of those opportunities at the end to rate and comment on the class? I had a college professor once that drove me crazy with her incomplete handouts, errors, and strings of nonsense. Her excuse was always that she ran out of time and could never complete what she needed to complete to give us. I wrote a lengthy review, in a nice tone, at the end of the course and the next year the class changed dramatically.

  11. Gary Burghoff is a good actor. He's lived in my town for years and he's a jerk in real life. I've had several encounters with him in stores, while waiting tables at a small cafe here in college, etc. He's not very nice at. all.

     

    But I did love Radar O'Reilly. :D

     

    astrid

    I have seen him on old game shows and thought that might be true.

     

    I love the evolution of Margaret on the show. Father Mulchahy is also a favorite. Col. Potter because he is such a strong father to all those in his charge. I could (and sometimes do) watch it for hours on end. But I like each one because of the contrast to the other characters. I loved the psychologist, and that crazy intelligence office Flag.

     

    Ok, now I just want to go watch TV and not teach my kids LOL.

  12. Don't discuss your marital problems with your family. It is much harder for them to forgive even after you have forgiven.

     

    While living with your family in particular, have important discussions in private. If you and your spouse agree with getting advice from your parents only then do you get them involved.

     

    I would try to be really cautious with living at home right after being married. I think that is going to be much more difficult than any issues with your young age. By the way I got married when I was 20.

     

    I have seen so many marriages have major problems or fail because of family being to involved in what is going on.

    I agree with this wholeheartedly. I made the mistake of talking to my mom about minor frustrations when I was a newly married person and 15 years later she still holds those things as a grude against my dh. I didn't realize until I married just how many grudges she could hold. Or how many wrong assumptions can be made off an innocent comment. If you are having a difficult time, you need to find a friend or better yet, a church leader you can go to. You also need to be as independent as possible, as soon as possible, from family. If you don't, then that creates other resentments and problems. I learned the hard way though that 'don't say anything unless you can say something nice' definately applies to how I speak about my dh around anyone else.

     

    I also like the holiday discussion. It wasn't a big deal until we had kids. Then, where we stayed for holidays became a big deal. When we decided that we wanted to spend Christmas morning just by ourselves with our kids, then visit family in the days before or after, it was crazy how upset extended family members became.

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