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  1. Dd's photographer ran the photos last weekend.  He started with my sisters and I and all of our families, then down into our family, our dd with my dh and I separately, and even had my dil and the kids step out of a photo, so it was just us and our three kids.  See if he can be the one cutting down the size of the group.  He probably has a list of photos you can request.

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  2. We just paid 20%, but they (the venue) catered the food, ran the buffet line, set up the tables and chairs, and supplied the bartender, too.  Figured it was for paying the help.  She also helped us gather up our table decorations since no one was at the bar.  This venue was 1/2 the cost of other venues.  Worth the cost.  It was a great experience.

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  3. My dh is a year younger than me, and now both of us are almost retirement age.  My younger sisters that were much more driven to work than me retired a year and a half ago.  One's dh has had health issues and she's trying to travel all she can with him.  The other has always been a traveler.  Dh made a comment one day that he probably has only X years of life left, comparing with his dad and brothers.  I will drop work in a heartbeat when he's ready, so we can accomplish the travel or other that he has always wanted to do.

    Until 6 months ago, I was ready to keep building our business.  Changes in corporate staff have left me thinking yes, I am ready to retire.  But it will take time to iron out all the details of selling our business.  Think dh is saying Jan of 2026 now.  I have mentally changed my outlook.  I get my work done, but if I wasn't able to pick my hours or if I do them at the office or at home, I wouldn't be able to finish out.  Since dh and I have worked side by side (with his partner) since the business started, and I do care about the family we've built there, I will stay there as long as he does.

    Just food for thought.  You never know when health will change for either of you.  

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  4. On 3/31/2024 at 4:33 AM, Eos said:

    I was inspired by the peach cake but still wanted lemon so I made this https://cooking.nytimes.com/recipes/1017151-lemon-almond-butter-cake?unlocked_article_code=1.g00.gnum.dwK108642j5h&smid=share-url 

    Happy Easter!

     

    i wanted lemon, too, but the filling didn't thicken in my lemon meringue pie, so that flopped.  I  will go with the frozen lemonade pie next time.  i was in a rush needing to get the pie baked so i could get the ham in the oven.

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  5. Beautiful!  Hope you've enjoyed the planning, even tho it got stressful.  Now enjoy the wedding!

    My dd gets married next Friday.  Thank goodness everything is local, and she decided on April.  She could have had a hard time getting things set up if she'd tried to plan a summer wedding in four months.  😉 I have enjoyed our time together.  She just had her dress fitting yesterday, and I got two dress choices in the mail the day before.  Thank goodness both fit.  Yeah--last minute folks, but it all works out. lol

     

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  6. On 3/30/2024 at 5:49 AM, Amethyst said:

    You take them to the bank and tell the cashier that you want to redeem them. Very simple process. Plus, if you use them for education, I believe there is some kind of tax break. 

    A handful of banks I checked with wouldn't cash paper bonds.  They have to be mailed in.

     

  7. Ham, mashed potatoes, pineapple fried rice, roasted asparagus and carrots, deviled eggs, homemade rolls, strawberry cheesecake salad.  Also tried a new recipe for gf brownies with a peanut butter topping.  And I may make a lemon meringue pie, too.

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  8. On 2/11/2024 at 8:57 AM, KungFuPanda said:

    2 CUPS of mayonnaise????? For one head of lettuce? 

    I fill a 9x13 with about half lettuce, and now use a head of iceberg and a bunch of spring mix.  I like my greens GREEN.  If you can cover it decently with only part of the dressing, go for it! lol

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  9. We have a party just to visit with our friends mid-winter.  I found a new recipe for chicken wings I want to make, but the grocer said they haven't gotten wings in in a long time.  So, got some chicken tenders that I will cook but not fry and top with the orange juice/hot sauce/honey sauce.  We'll see.  Also making some queso dip and some chocolate coconut bars.  Guests will all bring something to share, too.

  10. 1 hour ago, Just Kate said:

    My 19 yo ds is coming over and bringing his girlfriend. Dh will be here too. We are having wings, some type of taco dip (I’d like to make a dip with ground beef if anyone has suggestions?),  veggies with dip, and jalepeno poppers. I may also put some chicken tenders in the air fryer. 

    I’m looking forward to it. This will only be the second time that ds girlfriend has been over. She is a sweet girl and I am glad to get to know her better. 

    My sister made the Velveeta with ground beef and salsa every Thanksgiving.

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  11. I was told the purpose of algebra on up is to teach our brains to think differently, to grow the synapses in our brain, as it were.  Solving math problems before that is one thing, but you really stretch the mind learning the others.

    My neighbor likes to build things, so he uses trig building gazebos and other big items.

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  12. My family loves it.  Our version is lettuce, chopped celery, (the recipe calls for chopped onion but we don't add it), and a can of sliced water chestnuts.

    Then- 2 c mayo mixed with 1/2 c sugar- spread over the layers.  Then continue with

    parmesan cheese, crisp chopped bacon, sliced hard boiled eggs, and sliced tomatoes.

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  13. My dad was 11 years older than mom, and he was one who expected her to watch tv with him or entertain him.  They played cards daily, and he couldn't eat a meal without her fixing it.  They kept a jigsaw puzzle going all the time, and he did Sudoku puzzles and read the paper daily.  She did gardening, reading, and took care of all the household tasks, and spent many nights doing her quilting in the basement when he went to bed early.

     

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  14. I had three c sections, and after I got home from the hospital, Mom came for a week and took care of everything but the baby; she let me take care of myself and the baby, tho she of course did do some baby cuddling!  She took care of meals, laundry, housework, etc.  The last one I know Dad came with becuase hee cleaned all the windows in the house!  Was hoping to do that for dil, but she preferred her mom with the first, and there was C when the second was born, so I watched his first year via snapchat.  I deep cleaned the kitchen with the first and third ones, while dil was at the hospital tho!

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  15. My fear has been that dh, who has no hobbies and is a workaholic, is either going to sit in the living room watching tv, relegating me to one of the bedrooms or the kitchen since I don't like most of his show choices, or try to micromanage me. Not sure what he will do in the office he's creating for himself or in his garage, which he's emptying into mine. 🫢  He does enjoy going on the church mission trip helping rebuild homes annually. Besides doing some traveling, not sure what he will do.  We currently watch tv together, eat out with some good friends, or have friends or the kids over to play cards or games.  And we usually watch the grandsons one evening a week.  We used to go play cards with my folks every weekend.

    Me- I have hobbies I want to get to: quilting, embroidery, gardening, learning homeopathy and herbal medicine, watching old black and white movies.   I am semi-retired, working my own hours but still some at the shop part of work days, but it's still not the same as being able to plan whole days without work.  Looking forward to it!  I'm currently starting to get back to making a loose menu and cooking suppers.  We've eaten out an awful lot as business owners together.

    My younger sisters retired over a year ago after Mom and Dad passed.  That was an intense summer for us with their caretaking til the end.

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  16. Dh is ready to retire, and I am just older than him.  One day he told me he has 7 years left, comparing with other men in his family.  And I'm assuming I have another 8-10 yrs after that, so maybe if he wants to retire and do more traveling in the next few years I should retire at the same time as him.  Help him enjoy his last years that he's worked for while he can.  I have hobbies that I could finally get to.  ( I seem to find it hard to finish cleaning out my folks house and organizing, etc. while I'm still working at least half time with varied hours.)  And being available to travel when/where he wants for a few years.  He's not one with hobbies to fall back on.  I have lots of them to follow up later, if need be.  Retirement is sounding better all the time!

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  17. 4 hours ago, Rosla said:

    Our children won't get married soon, so we have time, but we want to put money aside for college first and only then think about their weddings. If we can afford it, we will contribute money.

    My niece had a small wedding last summer. My sister and her husband couldn't help much financially. They bought engraved bracelets as gifts for the bride and groom and also helped to organize the event in their backyard. You know, I liked that wedding even more than those big events I attended several times. Everything was simple but nice, and the atmosphere was warm. 

    Our nephew ended up having his wedding in their backyard, complete with a dance.  They let all the neighbors know what to expect, and it was great!

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  18. On 1/4/2024 at 6:12 PM, Ginevra said:

    PS.: It was/is my hope that my kids will have traditional “party” weddings. I do not particularly want them to elope or do a backyard BBQ type wedding or get married alone in Aruba. I know some parents *want* their kids to pick these cheaper options, but I don’t share that view. I like for it to be a big party where the families of each come together, and the important people who have been part of the couples’ lives witness it. 

    Yes-- this.  And we have a good sized family that likes to get together for special occasions regularly.  So far-- interestingly, our two have chosen someone with a smaller family.  We have lost a number of family members in the last couple years, and with dd moving her wedding up to April, there will be a few more who won't make it then.  😞   But- it makes sense for the couple as he'll be deployed.

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