We love the 4-H projects. They can be done on your own as well though and it then depends on what you put into it.
My daughter does 3 projects a year. We keep trying to cut it down but have not been successful. She is 9 now. Last year she was in 2 different groups and was the secr. for one group and news reporter for the other group.
Great oppurtunities can be learned from being in these sort of group settings BUT it really depends. If you do not like the one group try for another, or start your own.
Our one group meets year round and it is a mix of homeschoolers and public schoolers. It is a general group so we have kids doing animal, sewing, cooking, photography, etc.
Our other group is a dog group where we train and work with our chosen dogs.
My 4 year old always accompanies us and "says" he is in 4-H as well but will not be a cloverbud for a bit yet.
My daughter has earned3 Grand CHampion ribbons and certificates for her projects last year. She worked very hard for them and they covered quite of bit of her extra schooling as well.
Again though, if you do not find a group that you like you can always start one of your own. We are actually dropping Girl Scouts next year(due to their new program choices) and sticking with just 4-H.
Our yearly cost for 4-H is $10.00 for registration. Then if we want to do a socal activity like rollerskating with our group, the 4-H group will nomrally pay some and we pay the remaining fee. We did do a bake sale for fundraising for the group that helped but again, then we had supplies from parents for baking but I did not add that up.
Good luck,
Allene